[Discussion] My girlfriend going to the military

[Hagoromo Reanimation]

So I've been saving up for a house the last couple of years I only have 1 year left to pay it off , I was suppose to move in with my girlfriend but she's decided to go to the military. She claims she still wants to be with me but I don't know if I should wait on someone who just got up and decided to get up in leave do you think i should wait 8 years for her, They have a policy if your married to the person you can go with them so she wants to get married before she leaves. I'm not going to lie i'm pissed off if i stay or wait for her i don't care i'm cheating i did my part **** that am i wrong for that?

 

[Multiply]

So I've been saving up for a house the last couple of years I only have 1 year left to pay it off , I was suppose to move in with my girlfriend but she's decided to go to the military. She claims she still wants to be with me but I don't know if I should wait on someone who just got up and decided to get up in leave do you think i should wait 8 years for her, They have a policy if your married to the person you can go with them so she wants to get married before she leaves. I'm not going to lie i'm pissed off if i stay or wait for her i don't care i'm cheating i did my part **** that am i wrong for that?

She clearly doesn't want to leave you if she want to get married. Why not marry her and go with her?

 

[Illuminater]

You're asking a Naruto site? You've got to be bloody kidding me! I can't believe you are resorting to an anime site to ask us a question about something that will change your entire life.

I think she deserves someone better to be honest.

 

[Lrrrrr]

The very fact that you've already had a predetermined thought of "I am going to cheat" is a bit worrying. I understand that for some, especially in these situations, it's hard to keep a long distance relationship. I suppose it's a tough question to think about, relationship or defending your country.

Either way, whether or not you're ****ed up for that won't change what you're going to do.

 

[LordRaikage]

You're asking a Naruto site? You've got to be bloody kidding me! I can't believe you are resorting to an anime site to ask us a question about something that will change your entire life.

I think she deserves someone better to be honest.

sometimes things are so stressing you need to discuss it with anyone you can.

 

[Illuminater]

sometimes things are so stressing you need to discuss it with anyone you can.

Instead of the internet why can't he ask his friends or family. If they don't exist then ask a serious website, not this troll infested place filled with cheeto stained animals.

 

[Ripple Hole]

I'm not going to lie i'm pissed off if i stay or wait for her i don't care i'm cheating i did my part **** that am i wrong for that?

The ****.. what's with the transition if you value the house more then her split .-.
Not waste years of her time and your's.

 

[Hagoromo Reanimation]

She clearly doesn't want to leave you if she want to get married. Why not marry her and go with her?

I did that already i got up left my job and state to move in with her I worked,saved, and borrowed so much money to pay off the house should i just trust someone who makes a split second decision like that how do i know she wouldn't do that again?

You're asking a Naruto site? You've got to be bloody kidding me! I can't believe you are resorting to an anime site to ask us a question about something that will change your entire life.

I think she deserves someone better to be honest.

Since when is asking advice on this site a bad thing i've seen people ask question about religion, moral, and ethics that changes a person whole view on life TF? lmao

 

[Insidious Smile]

It is suspicious that she suddenly decided to go to the Military, in my opinion.

 

[-Shiro-]

if your ok with cheating, you odviusly dont love her that much so just break up with her and spar her the heart ach

 

[Natsu Shazneel]

Wait 8 years *****!

 

[Angelic.]

talk to her not us lol

 

[Joon]

I did that already i got up left my job and state to move in with her I worked,saved, and borrowed so much money to pay off the house should i just trust someone who makes a split second decision like that how do i know she wouldn't do that again?



Since when is asking advice on this site a bad thing i've seen people ask question about religion, moral, and ethics that changes a person whole view on life TF? lmao

Well, you were being supportive, but it looks like you don't want to get married. And the military job is weighing heavy on your decision. Think about it: if you want to be with her or move on. Then talk to her about and give your final answer.

 

[Illuminater]

I did that already i got up left my job and state to move in with her I worked,saved, and borrowed so much money to pay off the house should i just trust someone who makes a split second decision like that how do i know she wouldn't do that again?



Since when is asking advice on this site a bad thing i've seen people ask question about religion, moral, and ethics that changes a person whole view on life TF? lmao

Use your brain. Instead of asking others to do it for you...like now.




Remember, Naruto was intended for grade school kids.

 

[Never]

She deserves better, you dont cheat. And blatantly stating that you will is pretty disgusting

 

[Joon]

She deserves better, you dont cheat. And blatantly stating that you will is pretty disgusting

He probably just mad, so I wouldn't hold that against him. Besides, he is a man. He needs some woman.

 

[ChicagoJhawk]

She's making the ultimate sacrifice of joining to protect the country and right now she needs ur support mate. Cheating would be a d*ck move on your part

 

[Calpal]

Let her go homie. Shes tryna put chains on you or see how faithful you are. Either way her lack of trust in you and not telling you is enough to mess it up later.

bt if you love her then go. Never give up on love.

 

[Never]

He probably just mad, so I wouldn't hold that against him. Besides, he is a man. He needs some woman.

Well if he needs some woman, then he should break up with his current GF rather than Cheat.

 

[Insidious Smile]

It would be the same if I said to my girl: "I'm going to take a 12 year trip around the world, wait for me. I'll be back in 12 years". I'm an ******* with no regard for my significant other for saying that.

Why would you wait 8 years for her? That's stupid.