My friend's ex

[Pervy Wrath]

So the ex of my friend wants to sleep with me. And I'll admit, I wouldn't mind it at all, but I can't betray my friend like that....

The question here should be: Where does the line of betrayal start?

They only dated for a couple of months, then were a couple for like one month, then they broke up. Now, a few years before that, I dated her as well.

Second question is: What would you do? Would you not do it, or go with the "ignorance is bliss" route?



Remember, this is me asking what you would do if you were in the same position.

 

[Vasto Lordé]

Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.

 

[Ōkami]

Ask your friend, he might be cool with it and he could spread around rumors about her being a ****.

 

[Kages]

Don't do it :|

 

[shanee]

Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.

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just ask your friend. then you will really know the answer.

 

[Pervy Wrath]

Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.

Wise words.

Ask your friend, he might be cool with it and he could spread around rumors about her being a ****.

Haha, that would be mean towards the ex.

Don't do it :|

Don't think so? :/

 

[InvincibleShine]

Well, IF a friend of mine would sleep with my Ex, then I would falcoon punch him/her in the face
No joke XD
I would never sleep with the Ex of my friend, that's not ok
I don't know, but do you love her or are you just looking for some fun? because, if you'd really love her and otherwise, then you could probably talk with you're fiend about it...

 

[hixa kuogame]

bands will make her dance

 

[KGB Kakuzu]

Well both of you dated her so it isn't like she was all his....then after that it sounds like they've been done for a while....and the relationship didn't last long either. So as far as "betrayal" goes I don't really see it. Still....I'd give him a month or so as I know even after a short time one can still have powerful feelings for another no matter how hard they may hurt you...Of course if he ended the relationship then it only adds to the thought of why should he care.

Now I personally wouldn't just hook up for no reason, but would actually be dating her before I decided to sleep with her....but of course that might not be your thing or you may not even care! ^.^

 

[Pervy Wrath]

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just ask your friend. then you will really know the answer.

He asked me about it on Saturday. I completely avoided it. I hate confrontations.

 

[Pervy Wrath]

Well, IF a friend of mine would sleep with my Ex, then I would falcoon punch him/her in the face
No joke XD
I would never sleep with the Ex of my friend, that's not ok
I don't know, but do you love her or are you just looking for some fun? because, if you'd really love her and otherwise, then you could probably talk with you're fiend about it...

Oh hell no, she's not girlfriend material. This would be a friends with benefits type of thing.

Well both of you dated her so it isn't like she was all his....then after that it sounds like they've been done for a while....and the relationship didn't last long either. So as far as "betrayal" goes I don't really see it. Still....I'd give him a month or so as I know even after a short time one can still have powerful feelings for another no matter how hard they may hurt you...Of course if he ended the relationship then it only adds to the thought of why should he care.

Now I personally wouldn't just hook up for no reason, but would actually be dating her before I decided to sleep with her....but of course that might not be your thing or you may not even care! ^.^

Yeah, he said that if there was something going on between us, he would be cool with it, he would just be a little disappointed.

I've been with a girlfriend for three years, we broke up like 8 months ago, and we're still hooking up once in a while. I'm definitely not looking for a new relationship.

 

[Venus]

The betrayal started when you made this thread, asking others for their opinions. This leads me to believe that you would consider continuing even further in this matter. You cannot deny this because you creating the thread shows that you have taken all this into consideration and you're prepared to loose your friend and get with a chick that will more than likely leave you soon after, leaving you in ruins with no friend or no chick and just a keyboard you cling to.

Do whatever you want but think of the consequences of your actions before you go ahead with your resolve. Mentally prepare yourself for what comes after you can't turn back.

Personally, I'd get balls deep.

 

[Pervy Wrath]

The betrayal started when you made this thread, asking others for their opinions. This leads me to believe that you would consider continuing even further in this matter. You cannot deny this because you creating the thread shows that you have taken all this into consideration and you're prepared to loose your friend and get with a chick that will more than likely leave you soon after, leaving you in ruins with no friend or no chick and just a keyboard you cling to.

Do whatever you want but think of the consequences of your actions before you go ahead with your resolve. Mentally prepare yourself for what comes after you can't turn back.

Personally, I'd get balls deep.

Did the betrayal really start after the thread...? It's just me asking what you would do in my situation. And as for losing her, that wouldn't bother me. It's not like I'm emotionally invested in her and vice versa.

Your last sentence made me laugh though xd

 

[Jack Spicer]

Go for it.

As for me, I don't know. I probably wouldn't. Depends on who and if I wanted a ONS. Probably not.

 

[Venus]

Did the betrayal really start after the thread...? It's just me asking what you would do in my situation. And as for losing her, that wouldn't bother me. It's not like I'm emotionally invested in her and vice versa.

Your last sentence made me laugh though xd

Well if you look at this thread as an attempt to find a reason to take part in sexual coitus with her then, yea, that's when it started. If you take into consideration that you went with her first then he basically betrayed you in the first place. Then look at this as a small opportunity, for well, revenge

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(insert creepy laugh)

 

[Pervy Wrath]

Well if you look at this thread as an attempt to find a reason to take part in sexual coitus with her then, yea, that's when it started. If you take into consideration that you went with her first then he basically betrayed you in the first place. Then look at this as a small opportunity, for well, revenge

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(insert creepy laugh)

Hehe, I was just wondering what you guys would do in the situation I still don't know. Most likely, if I meet her while I'm out drinking or something, I'll probably do something stupid

And as for him betraying me, I would say no. That was like 4 years ago or something, and it wasn't anything serious back then either. But we've always had this vibe going.

 

[MarkPaul]

Just sleep with her. No problem unless your started to undress.

 

[Space Cowboy]

Safe route is probably to not. If your friend doesnt really care about her though id say go for it.

 

[KGB Kakuzu]

Oh hell no, she's not girlfriend material. This would be a friends with benefits type of thing.



Yeah, he said that if there was something going on between us, he would be cool with it, he would just be a little disappointed.

I've been with a girlfriend for three years, we broke up like 8 months ago, and we're still hooking up once in a while. I'm definitely not looking for a new relationship.

Lol yeah sorry I was just throwing in my own personal plan of action (was pretty pointless now that I think sbout it)

Well your friend has given you his answer....I mean you know him better than me so you should know whether or not by dissapointed he actually means only a little annoyed or he is actually very upset! Sounds like you seem to be either trying to get over your Ex or just done with her so I mean its all pretty much your call now!

 

[Venus]

Hehe, I was just wondering what you guys would do in the situation I still don't know. Most likely, if I meet her while I'm out drinking or something, I'll probably do something stupid

And as for him betraying me, I would say no. That was like 4 years ago or something, and it wasn't anything serious back then either. But we've always had this vibe going.

Time has nothing to do with it. This situation is merely based upon principal. Go out and get it wet. If your friend gets mad then say this to him.

"Silence, maggot. I do whatever the f**k! I wanna do!"