my ex-gf stalks me and i wonder what i can do about it?

[lawman62]

This happened to one of my best friends a while ago, minus the whole "showing up at your house" thing. He's kind of passive, and that's not good. His ex was always trying to message him and stuff, so I gave him Step #1.

1. Ignore her in every way.
2. If that doesn't work, then tell her you want nothing to do with her. Don't be passive/a ***** like my friend was. Tell her straight up that you want nothing to do with her.
3. When she tries to trespass on your property, call the cops. Make sure you have all the messages and stuff. I'm not a criminal attorney, but it might come in handy for something if your situation escalates. lol

You are a smart person and i will keep these options in mind!

 

[SenjuOfTheFrost]

If you dont contact the authorities after someone stalks you and tries to break into your house I'm not sure about your judgement. On top of that; when people tell you to get restraining orders and contact the authorities, you say its too much hassle; you just sound delusional, "Oh, my safety, too much hassle." maybe it isnt being delusional; but rather just being ignorant.

 

[YowYan]

Miri?

That iphone helpdesk female voice thingy (i don't have an iphone)

 

[lawman62]

If you dont contact the authorities after someone stalks you and tries to break into your house I'm not sure about your judgement. On top of that; when people tell you to get restraining orders and contact the authorities, you say its too much hassle; you just sound delusional, "Oh, my safety, too much hassle." maybe it isnt being delusional; but rather just being ignorant.

Sorry mate but she had an important role in my social live the way i see it is that when i contact the authorities abt her beheviour it will not good good for me in the community that i am currently living in

The way we treat eachother in this small village is like familly so if this comes out my social life is also done for

Those were just my 2 cents man!

But i will definitly do so if she keeps on herassing me !

Thanks for youre support though ur very helpfull!

 

[lawman62]

That iphone helpdesk female voice thingy (i don't have an iphone)

kewl

 

[Natsu Shazneel]

Whats your D. size?

 

[WhistleBlower]

That iphone helpdesk female voice thingy (i don't have an iphone)

Don't you mean Siri? Wtf is miri Lol

 

[Callypigia]

Okj wel thanks for replying so helpfully i know this is not the best site to adress this sort of manner but im out of ideas if you will!

Actually a restraining order is the best way to fix the problem legally and sound advice. The fact that you don't want to take these simple measures (They are very simply by the way; you just speak with a local magistrate, fill a petition, and the restraining order is served by police) means that on some level you may not want her to stop harassing you. The question to ask yourself is: What are you getting out of her obsession with you?

 

[SIR HERDERP PRESIDERP SDO]

Get a restraining order.

 

[NaNaNaaaaa]

Oh God, some of these replies, its a good job you don't take them seriously.

I would suggest ignoring and blocking her but if she tried to break into your house then I would say it has moved pass that. The very best thing you can do is go to the police and get a restraining order, make sure you keep all evidence of her obsessive behaviour. If she breaks the restraining order, call the police, a while in a prison cell should sober her up.

Don't keep putting it off, by not taking decisive action you are enabling her and giving her mind the opportunity to think there might still be a chance.

Actually a restraining order is the best way to fix the problem legally and sound advice. The fact that you don't want to take these simple measures (They are very simply by the way; you just speak with a local magistrate, fill a petition, and the restraining order is served by police) means that on some level you may not want her to stop harassing you. The question to ask yourself is: What are you getting out of her obsession with you?

This is a very good reply. If its true that you are hesitating its possible that you enjoy her obsessive behaviour, that it boosts your ego, if you feel that way, which is not ans unusual reaction, then you need to stop, this kind of thing can turn ugly

 

[BlueToweR12]

If you dont contact the authorities after someone stalks you and tries to break into your house I'm not sure about your judgement. On top of that; when people tell you to get restraining orders and contact the authorities, you say its too much hassle; you just sound delusional, "Oh, my safety, too much hassle." maybe it isnt being delusional; but rather just being ignorant.

Really rare that Naruto looks serious

 

[NaNaNaaaaa]

Really rare that Naruto looks serious

Well Naruto should have been more serious, Sasuke too, they ignored their stalkers and they ended up being forced to marry them=D

 

[YowYan]

Don't you mean Siri? Wtf is miri Lol

yeah lmfao it's siri xd what a fail

 

[Sakura Bunny]

Call the po po

 

[YowYan]

Call the po po

My dad just got home. Can I hide my weed in your cleavage?

 

[Sakura Bunny]

My dad just got home. Can I hide my weed in your cleavage?

Noooo. That's where I keep my chicken nugget stash. ╮(─▽─)╭

 

[YowYan]

Noooo. That's where I keep my chicken nugget stash. ╮(─▽─)╭

oh man I need to grow moobs so I can hide my stuff in there. Noone would dare reaching their hand in there

 

[WhistleBlower]

yeah lmfao it's siri xd what a fail

Yes, big time fail.

On topic: Just sleep with her once more , then take care of her afterwards when she's dozing off. I've read countless cases where a spouse after having *** they murdered the significant other for whatever reasons. None, see it coming.

I'm a lawyer .

 

[Callypigia]

Noooo. That's where I keep my chicken nugget stash. ╮(─▽─)╭

Weed and chicken nuggets go together like peanut butter and jelly.

 

[Amaterasu]

You know what to do.

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