My advice on love

[NyobZoo]

Here's my advice for you guys, i tend to help people whenever possible even when i try not to. This will probably be my last and only thread. Anyway, I hear a lot of people complaining about their bf or gf (mostly girls complain), so here's my advice; you people need to be better at selection. That's right, selecting a better partner will give you 99% chance on a better relationship. Example: people say their bf or gf treats them like trash, and then say their bf or gf has a history of treating people like trash, so if you knew that, why did you get involve? Anyway, this goes back to what i was saying; SELECTION. So how do you do this? Well, it's quite simple, I've made a list of what to look for in a person, although it's not a complete list, i may have forgotten a couple things here and there. But, SELECTION is a great place to start for you new people, and perhaps even for some experienced people who are lost. This is from my own personal experiences, here goes:

-how does that person treat their family? He or She will probably treat you the same way.
-how does that person treat their pets? (dog, cat, fish, birds, etc) They will treat you the same way.
-ask them about their parents, if they say something like "I hate my parents, i wish they die". Then run away from that person.
-does he or she come from a good family? they will have those traits when they start their own family.
-does he or she have reachable goals in life? positive goals are a good thing.
-does that person cuss or swear a lot? continuous cussing is not a good sign.
-if they say that they are trouble, then run away.
-if they admit to doing something that you don't see fit, run away.
-what kind of t.v shows and movies do they watch? My ex watches a show where the main plot is people having affairs at their work place, no wonder that person is my ex.
-how does that person act on the internet? look at their facebook posts and pictures, if it's trouble, run away.
-does that person flirt a lot with other people? if yes, run away.
-ask them about their virginity. If the answer is strange to you, run away.
-are they passionate about something? if yes, this is a good sign.
-if they are passionate about drinking alcohol and getting drunk at parties, run away.
-is that person sympathetic about other people? if yes, it's a good sign.
-is that person a good listener and listens to you? if yes, it's a good sign.
-does that person say "sorry" or "thank you" a lot? if yes, this is a good sign.
-does that person help pay or offer to pay half when you guys eat out? if yes, it's a good sign.
-if that person avoids you when you need them the most, then it's not a good sign. (ex: you need a car ride).
-does he/she return your phone calls right away when you know they can? if no, run away.
-does he/she answer your phone calls when you know for a fact they are able to talk? if no, run away.
-does that person offer to help you in any way when you need help?(example: math homework) if yes, it's a good sign.
-does that person keep secrets from you?(example: gone for whole day, didn't tell you where) if yes, run away.

Here it is boys and girls, ofcourse there are many more things to add, but you can clearly see a pattern here. This is my SELECTION that i'm talking about. Being better at selecting your partner will greatly increase your chances of a better relationship. And even if it didn't work out, just make your selection better next time and learn from those mistakes. But my greatest advice is to ask yourself if you truly love that person and can see yourself spending the rest of you life with them. If you are stuck, just follow your heart. Good luck out there.

 

[R4mbl3]

OR.
Find some who makes you happy.
Someone who listens to you when your upset.
Someone who laughs at your jokes.
Someone who gets you.

Who cares if they don't have a good job. Or don't have a job at all.

You know?
You can have someone with money, great job, great future. But that doesn't mean your going to be happy.

You gotta find someone who your going to enjoy living life with.
IDK, its hard to explain unless you have experianced it.

All in all, find someone that Truely make you happy.

 

[Auju]

Love's a dream,not ganna happen.True Love's hard to find It u find it ur really lucky

 

[BlueUchiha22]

OR.
Find some who makes you happy.
Someone who listens to you when your upset.
Someone who laughs at your jokes.
Someone who gets you.

Who cares if they don't have a good job. Or don't have a job at all.

You know?
You can have someone with money, great job, great future. But that doesn't mean your going to be happy.

You gotta find someone who your going to enjoy living life with.
IDK, its hard to explain unless you have experianced it.

All in all, find someone that Truely make you happy.

pretty much sums it up

 

[Swati Chan]

OR.
Find some who makes you happy.
Someone who listens to you when your upset.
Someone who laughs at your jokes.
Someone who gets you.

Who cares if they don't have a good job. Or don't have a job at all.

You know?
You can have someone with money, great job, great future. But that doesn't mean your going to be happy.

You gotta find someone who your going to enjoy living life with.
IDK, its hard to explain unless you have experianced it.

All in all, find someone that Truely make you happy.

this^^
rep given

you don't know..you will fall in love with whom
its an eternal feeling and you can't help it even if the person has a lots of demerits..you can't stop loving him/her..no matter what..if its true love<3

you don't need to find someone who have lots of good qualities..a fair future or money..you just want someone who will never let you down or never leave you no matter what happens..just the one who makes your life beautiful and happier

even if the one you love is not good in any respect..but still you will find them most suitable for you..if its true love and mutual feeling.............because love is blind

 

[Amantius]

Here's my advice for you guys, i tend to help people whenever possible even when i try not to. This will probably be my last and only thread. Anyway, I hear a lot of people complaining about their bf or gf (mostly girls complain), so here's my advice; you people need to be better at selection. That's right, selecting a better partner will give you 99% chance on a better relationship. Example: people say their bf or gf treats them like trash, and then say their bf or gf has a history of treating people like trash, so if you knew that, why did you get involve? Anyway, this goes back to what i was saying; SELECTION. So how do you do this? Well, it's quite simple, I've made a list of what to look for in a person, although it's not a complete list, i may have forgotten a couple things here and there. But, SELECTION is a great place to start for you new people, and perhaps even for some experienced people who are lost. This is from my own personal experiences, here goes:

-how does that person treat their family? He or She will probably treat you the same way.
-how does that person treat their pets? (dog, cat, fish, birds, etc) They will treat you the same way.
-ask them about their parents, if they say something like "I hate my parents, i wish they die". Then run away from that person.
-does he or she come from a good family? they will have those traits when they start their own family.
-does he or she have reachable goals in life? positive goals are a good thing.
-does that person cuss or swear a lot? continuous cussing is not a good sign.
-if they say that they are trouble, then run away.
-if they admit to doing something that you don't see fit, run away.
-what kind of t.v shows and movies do they watch? My ex watches a show where the main plot is people having affairs at their work place, no wonder that person is my ex.
-how does that person act on the internet? look at their facebook posts and pictures, if it's trouble, run away.
-does that person flirt a lot with other people? if yes, run away.
-ask them about their virginity. If the answer is strange to you, run away.
-are they passionate about something? if yes, this is a good sign.
-if they are passionate about drinking alcohol and getting drunk at parties, run away.
-is that person sympathetic about other people? if yes, it's a good sign.
-is that person a good listener and listens to you? if yes, it's a good sign.
-does that person say "sorry" or "thank you" a lot? if yes, this is a good sign.
-does that person help pay or offer to pay half when you guys eat out? if yes, it's a good sign.
-if that person avoids you when you need them the most, then it's not a good sign. (ex: you need a car ride).
-does he/she return your phone calls right away when you know they can? if no, run away.
-does he/she answer your phone calls when you know for a fact they are able to talk? if no, run away.
-does that person offer to help you in any way when you need help?(example: math homework) if yes, it's a good sign.
-does that person keep secrets from you?(example: gone for whole day, didn't tell you where) if yes, run away.

Here it is boys and girls, ofcourse there are many more things to add, but you can clearly see a pattern here. This is my SELECTION that i'm talking about. Being better at selecting your partner will greatly increase your chances of a better relationship. And even if it didn't work out, just make your selection better next time and learn from those mistakes. But my greatest advice is to ask yourself if you truly love that person and can see yourself spending the rest of you life with them. If you are stuck, just follow your heart. Good luck out there.

Well i had love, just wish she would have seen she meant more to me.

 

[Keyblade Master Roxas]

Love comes to you. With the help of God, it will come to you. You just have to be patient.

 

[Disquiet]

Love between two individuals shouldn't revolve around mankind's ideal: the imprisonment of two souls, rather than a unison. A lot of us live our lives hiding things, from friends and family, lest we face judgement or mockery from them. We can't really be ourselves in their presence, there are things about us they may never witness. We only get one life, no need to form a bond that is a contract in disguise. No need to live your only life signed to a contract. Love shouldn't be a business deal, discussing who gets to do what, the do's and don'ts. Don't we get enough of that in life?


Furthermore, love will always be in danger between two individuals with this ideal of love. We are indirectly admitting that the relationship is in danger as long as the two should live. If one rule is broken or even just suspected of being of broken, many years of love is doubted in a second. With a 'bond' like this, we give power to outside forces to destroy that love, and a lot of us know how ridiculous jealous people can be. Though it just doesn't end with jealous people, materialistic things alone also poses a potential threat. And to make it even worse, in the wrong hands, those materialistic things spells doom. Also, a lot of us have within us the desire to feel free, and may succumb to this in due time. The love that most preaches is a fragile one, capable of being blown down by a huff and a puff. However, if one soul desires to be with another solely because they desire to, meaning no force or rules from the other individual, then that person's happiness naturally depends upon the well-being of the other individual. If the feelings are mutual, then they will only seek to bring out the best in each other, and not take away that person's freedom. And there's no other that can do this like you can, yes you're going to say this may cause problems if another thinks and feels the same about love as she does, but you're missing a key aspect; the uniqueness that is within us. If that person falls in love with you, I mean real love, then it will be your soul that is unlike any others that they seek to manifest. Love can be a scary thing, and quite intimidating, that is why it takes courage. Don't underestimate your uniqueness, and its appeal on people. Go in hard, with everything you got if you truly love the person.


Men and women whom was fortunate enough to be born before us taught us what love is. There comes a time in our lives when we have to use our gifts, get more in tune with our brains and think for ourselves.


Also, another thing to note is that most that preach love, preaches the fallacy that all is perfect. Everyone makes mistakes, go beyond them, become a force to be reckoned with, build each other up and tear down others with their own hate. As someone once said, there are many mediocre things in life, love shouldn't be one of them.

 

[Amantius]

Love between two individuals shouldn't revolve around mankind's ideal: the imprisonment of two souls, rather than a unison. A lot of us live our lives hiding things, from friends and family, lest we face judgement or mockery from them. We can't really be ourselves in their presence, there are things about us they may never witness. We only get one life, no need to form a bond that is a contract in disguise. No need to live your only life signed to a contract. Love shouldn't be a business deal, discussing who gets to do what, the do's and don'ts. Don't we get enough of that in life?


Furthermore, love will always be in danger between two individuals with this ideal of love. We are indirectly admitting that the relationship is in danger as long as the two should live. If one rule is broken or even just suspected of being of broken, many years of love is doubted in a second. With a 'bond' like this, we give power to outside forces to destroy that love, and a lot of us know how ridiculous jealous people can be. Though it just doesn't end with jealous people, materialistic things alone also poses a potential threat. And to make it even worse, in the wrong hands, those materialistic things spells doom. Also, a lot of us have within us the desire to feel free, and may succumb to this in due time. The love that most preaches is a fragile one, capable of being blown down by a huff and a puff. However, if one soul desires to be with another solely because they desire to, meaning no force or rules from the other individual, then that person's happiness naturally depends upon the well-being of the other individual. If the feelings are mutual, then they will only seek to bring out the best in each other, and not take away that person's freedom. And there's no other that can do this like you can, yes you're going to say this may cause problems if another thinks and feels the same about love as she does, but you're missing a key aspect; the uniqueness that is within us. If that person falls in love with you, I mean real love, then it will be your soul that is unlike any others that they seek to manifest. Love can be a scary thing, and quite intimidating, that is why it takes courage. Don't underestimate your uniqueness, and its appeal on people. Go in hard, with everything you got if you truly love the person.


Men and women whom was fortunate enough to be born before us taught us what love is. There comes a time in our lives when we have to use our gifts, get more in tune with our brains and think for ourselves.


Also, another thing to note is that most that preach love, preaches the fallacy that all is perfect. Everyone makes mistakes, go beyond them, become a force to be reckoned with, build each other up and tear down others with their own hate. As someone once said, there are many mediocre things in life, love shouldn't be one of them.

That is so perfection

 

[abhi as gaara]

yep i agree wid u .............

 

[Frankenstein]

Love between two individuals shouldn't revolve around mankind's ideal: the imprisonment of two souls, rather than a unison. A lot of us live our lives hiding things, from friends and family, lest we face judgement or mockery from them. We can't really be ourselves in their presence, there are things about us they may never witness. We only get one life, no need to form a bond that is a contract in disguise. No need to live your only life signed to a contract. Love shouldn't be a business deal, discussing who gets to do what, the do's and don'ts. Don't we get enough of that in life?


Furthermore, love will always be in danger between two individuals with this ideal of love. We are indirectly admitting that the relationship is in danger as long as the two should live. If one rule is broken or even just suspected of being of broken, many years of love is doubted in a second. With a 'bond' like this, we give power to outside forces to destroy that love, and a lot of us know how ridiculous jealous people can be. Though it just doesn't end with jealous people, materialistic things alone also poses a potential threat. And to make it even worse, in the wrong hands, those materialistic things spells doom. Also, a lot of us have within us the desire to feel free, and may succumb to this in due time. The love that most preaches is a fragile one, capable of being blown down by a huff and a puff. However, if one soul desires to be with another solely because they desire to, meaning no force or rules from the other individual, then that person's happiness naturally depends upon the well-being of the other individual. If the feelings are mutual, then they will only seek to bring out the best in each other, and not take away that person's freedom. And there's no other that can do this like you can, yes you're going to say this may cause problems if another thinks and feels the same about love as she does, but you're missing a key aspect; the uniqueness that is within us. If that person falls in love with you, I mean real love, then it will be your soul that is unlike any others that they seek to manifest. Love can be a scary thing, and quite intimidating, that is why it takes courage. Don't underestimate your uniqueness, and its appeal on people. Go in hard, with everything you got if you truly love the person.


Men and women whom was fortunate enough to be born before us taught us what love is. There comes a time in our lives when we have to use our gifts, get more in tune with our brains and think for ourselves.


Also, another thing to note is that most that preach love, preaches the fallacy that all is perfect. Everyone makes mistakes, go beyond them, become a force to be reckoned with, build each other up and tear down others with their own hate. As someone once said, there are many mediocre things in life, love shouldn't be one of them.

What a romantic...*applauds* =D

You are correct but you got a little carried away writing about it (I wonder why? ) , admit it.

Basically,summing all this up actually, love should be a "connection" between two people. A deep connection based on compassion, understanding, on common traits, based on trust and affection.
A bond by all means, yet a bond that doesn't bound any of the two involved in it. Such a bond can't be broken easily.

Edit: I just noticed the dates? Y did this get revived? Anyway, it was a good revival.

 

[-Punk-]

OR.
Find some who makes you happy.
Someone who listens to you when your upset.
Someone who laughs at your jokes.
Someone who gets you.

Who cares if they don't have a good job. Or don't have a job at all.

You know?
You can have someone with money, great job, great future. But that doesn't mean your going to be happy.

You gotta find someone who your going to enjoy living life with.
IDK, its hard to explain unless you have experianced it.

All in all, find someone that Truely make you happy.

True , a,though this is really rare to find
i'll just leave this right here :

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