sorry man but there is no such thing as love between any 2 beings that are not close siblings. only your mom and dad and probably brother and sister can love you true love. that is to give without counting and not expect anything in return. a person that will do anything for you, only your mom and dad.
any other person is looking for her interests, what can you give her ? that's all. then, in some cases, after long years of marriage love can emerge, as the two people become siblings, and cross lots of experiences together, they get to know each other.
so, when you know a girl, you sell yourself, and she sells herself, you fight for your interests, she looks for her interests. and, if you're lucky, you'll you'll stay with a girl long enough so that you will know each other to a point where love can be born between you two. But that is extremely rare.