Love can be cruel and change someone

[Izou Xaxa]

I know someone he had no friend and was bullied he is spending time with me because i was the only who accepted him and gave him respect i also help him to get confidence anyway
the story
he was in love with a girl
It was the second time i had to support someone in getting a girl well i am single myself and never had girlfriends but i still tried to help
And well he loved her character appearance and personality but their was another guy who was interested in her in a perverted way but well there is it when it starts to get bad

My friend was talking with her they seemed to get along well but this other dude just showed up and because he is acting like a cool guy he got the girl and the girl started to spread bad things around my friend in the end i hated it that my friend who deserved happiness was just treated like nothing all boys and girls in my class are like this and then i see on the streets that those people who are acting like the cool guys that only think of nothing but *** gets the girls and the ones that are interested in personality gets them in one moment

My friend is sad and always tells me people like us never get a girl well he is right unlike me he still cares for getting girls but i always tell him he wastes his time with that stuff it destroys himself

Because of that event i say Love can be nice but cruel and despair at the same time

What do you say to this?

 

[A$AP Wap]

we don't love these hoes

 

[Izou Xaxa]

we don't love these hoes

I see well still i always see the people getting bullied are not getting a girl no matter what they try

 

[-immortal-]

Thanks for telling one of ur many life stories again.
I am sorry for your friend

 

[A$AP Wap]

I see well still i always see the people getting bullied are not getting a girl no matter what they try

why aren't they getting with a girl?

 

[Izou Xaxa]

Thanks for telling one of ur many life stories again.
I am sorry for your friend

I have a lot of life storys right now i start to be always there for him im the only one left he has

why aren't they getting with a girl?

Well they try but get rejected their confidence got destroyed well its all complicated
Also everyone in the schools or groups sees them as unpopular so outsider
For example my friend hangs out with me because i am always silent and im keeping myself out of the groups i actually have confidence unlike him but thats good so i can teach him
Somehow all people that hang out with me are single and have a bad background and seems to have issues like me

 

[A$AP Wap]

I have a lot of life storys right now i start to be always there for him im the only one left he has



Well they try but get rejected their confidence got destroyed well its all complicated
Also everyone in the schools or groups sees them as unpopular so outsider
For example my friend hangs out with me because i am always silent and im keeping myself out of the groups i actually have confidence unlike him but thats good so i can teach him
Somehow all people that hang out with me are single and have a bad background and seems to have issues like me

then get a girl outside of school
you don't have to always get a gf that goes to your school...

 

[Izou Xaxa]

then get a girl outside of school
you don't have to always get a gf that goes to your school...

Well its complicated once someone loses his confidence its trouble also its not like my friend just can go outside and speak to a random girl its difficult
My friend said he has no hopes but at the same time still wants a girl its hard to do something

 

[Hotaruko]

i think he's too obsessed with this whole thing about living a romance and getting a girlfriend. There's more to life than just that, and of course i believe you have realized, thus the reason why you don't bother yourself with trying to find a gf.
It's not an issue of him being a victim of never finding love or a gf. It's simply that he has low confidence with himself and cannot handle being on his own. Whether it is a gf or family or just friends, I think we all agree that we tend to choose/prefer to be around people who are pleasant to be with and that understand the fundamentals of who we are.
If he was really confident with himself, he would understand that he does not need to bother with people who are as shallow as going for the "more popular" guy or things like that.

anyways, bottom line i think you've been doing the right thing, helping him with his confidence and all. It's just something he'll eventually come to realize as he gets better and better at understanding himself.

 

[Izou Xaxa]

i think he's too obsessed with this whole thing about living a romance and getting a girlfriend. There's more to life than just that, and of course i believe you have realized, thus the reason why you don't bother yourself with trying to find a gf.
It's not an issue of him being a victim of never finding love or a gf. It's simply that he has low confidence with himself and cannot handle being on his own. Whether it is a gf or family or just friends, I think we all agree that we tend to choose/prefer to be around people who are pleasant to be with and that understand the fundamentals of who we are.
If he was really confident with himself, he would understand that he does not need to bother with people who are as shallow as going for the "more popular" guy or things like that.

anyways, bottom line i think you've been doing the right thing, helping him with his confidence and all. It's just something he'll eventually come to realize as he gets better and better at understanding himself.

Of course i agree with you he needs to get better
i dont bother with relationships because its always like this this complicated drama its just wasting time for me i never start that
I also think its better for him to have no girlfriend

 

[Hotaruko]

Of course i agree with you he needs to get better
i dont bother with relationships because its always like this this complicated drama its just wasting time for me i never start that
I also think its better for him to have no girlfriend

it is always destructive to the relationship when you don't know how to handle yourself first. so yeah it's probably best for him to just stop trying to get a gf and work on himself. things will fall in place once you are at peace with yourself.

 

[ArabianLuffy]

Your friend needs a punch in his face and man up. In nature, female animals only mate with strong males.

 

[Jazzy Stardust]

Well you both have really low self esteem and if you don't overcome that you'll never pull any female.

You have to be confident and put the love crap aside, he can't love something he barely even knows. Just don't let him get ahead of himself and build up hype of some chick he doesn't know. It's not love and every male gets rejected at some point.

 

[Izou Xaxa]

Well you both have really low self esteem and if you don't overcome that you'll never pull any female.

You have to be confident and put the love crap aside, he can't love something he barely even knows. Just don't let him get ahead of himself and build up hype of some chick he doesn't know. It's not love and every male gets rejected at some point.

Yeah but the difference is that i have confidence and do not bother hat much with trying to find a gf its a waste in my eyes
But he is actually crazy about it and has no confidence well he will work on himself

Well about self esteem well i must admit that i do not care for myself that much
well its just like it is

 

[Jazzy Stardust]

Yeah but the difference is that i have confidence and do not bother hat much with trying to find a gf its a waste in my eyes
But he is actually crazy about it and has no confidence well he will work on himself

Well about self esteem well i must admit that i do not care for myself that much
well its just like it is

How is gaining a girlfriend a waste of anything? But anyways, he should practice more. Best advice would be to tell him not to fall in love with anyone he's not dating.

 

[Izou Xaxa]

How is gaining a girlfriend a waste of anything? But anyways, he should practice more. Best advice would be to tell him not to fall in love with anyone he's not dating.

Thats right im gonna tell him like that

Well about what i said with waste
because its complicated someone like me is not able to do something like that simple at least im accepting unlike other people who still run after girls
you must know me personally to understand it even better

 

[Jazzy Stardust]

Thats right im gonna tell him like that

Well about what i said with waste
because its complicated someone like me is not able to do something like that simple at least im accepting unlike other people who still run after girls
you must know me personally to understand it even better

Well that sounds like a lack of confidence. You'll find not all women are so shallow but life will show you if you keep your eyes open.

 

[GhostProject]

*******s are attracted to *******s, remember that. Also, the girl isn't interested in love, it's school. She's interested in someone who can pull her confidence up, she can spend (not "pass") time with, and someone who can pull status for her. This is the wrong phase of life to look for that "serious" crap, so don't look at it like that.

If you want to go the route of "I'm not in it for ***" then just find a girl who you get along with and enjoy hanging out with and she feels the same, then see if that goes anywhere, just don't expect it to. If not, you at least have an honest friend. The girls who you're gonna like are going to probably prefer this path.

 

[Izou Xaxa]

Well that sounds like a lack of confidence. You'll find not all women are so shallow but life will show you if you keep your eyes open.

Yes maybe but still i am not really that interested anymore
I have to deal with my Issues first

 

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