Life doesn't have space for failures.

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The more I think about it, the more sad I get, but I can't find anything that convinces me the world is not horrible.

Maybe you grow up thinking mother nature, or God, or society or whatever you define the world as is good.

But it's a lie.


Cus your entire wellbeing is depending on the kindness of the adults around you. And so, if you are lucky you have a home, you have school, you have food and you have books to read or something.


But nothing about that is guaranteed. People may give that to you and you find yourself happy, but because you could never get this yourself or you can't be guaranteed these nice things it's a lie.


That's not life. That's a creation by adults, you had no control over, they made it that way.

Now you are an adult, and you want to do the same thing but how?

If you want nice things, then you need money.

To get money you need intelligence. Cus otherwise you can't work.

Even if you have intelligence a job is still not guaranteed either.

So then what do you do, cus maybe you don't have the connections or the intelligence to get a job?

Are you gonna live with your parents? That's not a guarantee.

Are you gonna feed off of the state? Other people's hard working money? Cus that's socialism, and the more you try to argue socialism the more you realize that you can't argue socialism.

Maybe a crisis happens and so you flee your country, but who says anyone will take you in?

You think that, socialism and taking in refugees are good things but they are not, they are selfish things from your perspective and you can't objectively argue it's a moral thing.

All you can do is believe and say you disagree but people will call you a moron.

So then do you resort to crime?

Cus people are not gonna feel sorry for you, at that point the whole world will look at you with contempt and whatever happens to you, it won't matter.

Do you resort to fiction?

Maybe you find comfort in escapism.

But that doesn't work either cus people will tell you it's nonsense and you need to grow up and be intellectual and you can't argue that something is art or important no matter how much it is that for you.
If other people don't see it like that and would rather have something academical then you can't win that argument cus it's all in your own head.

I only see 2 ways of being happy in life.

1. You are lucky, lika Donald Trump, priviliged, never had to work a day in your life cus you had money from your parents, or the state, or friends, or from crime whatever it is. You don't need to care.

2. You are intelligent and you fit in.
Intelligence is not everything, you can be super smart but if you live in a cave then nobody will know. There are movies like Batman and Robin, that people hate, but even if a million people could have made a better movie, it doesn't mean they had the opportunity to work and do so.
So you need some sort of stability in life.
If you have that, maybe cus your parents raised you properly or cus you are smart, then you have a chance.

If you are not lucky, or you are not someone who fits into the plan of society, then there is no hope for you.

Socialism could make you lucky, cus it gives you free money even if you fail but the world is moving away from that.
Religion could feel sorry for you cus at least that used to be about morality but the world is moving away from that too.
Art is only there if it makes money, and you may not afford to be a part of it, and people may neglect it regardless of how important it is for you. They might say there are more improtant things that needs attention.
Kindness isn't real kindness cus if strangers help you, then you are cheating. And people could just as easily feel sorry for the strangers, on a mass scale it doesn't work anyway.
Crime doesn't work, 99 out of 100 times it fails, the police catches you, and even if they don't morality will haunt you. people will dislike you, shame you, burn you, it's embarassing and it doesn't work. the system wins.


So the only realistic conclusion to life, is that you need to either be lucky or have some sort of safety net made cus of intelligence or connections. Cus if you end up on the outskirts then you are screwed.
There is no real solution that would win an argument in todays world, only SJW screaming for attention.

I saw an article about people driving away redugees into the desert cus nobody wants them.

That's life.
Your home is destroyed and nobody will take you in instead.

Cus there is no space for you.
 

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Well... that escalated kinda quickly.

Most countries have systems in place that help those that are born or raised in unfortunate circumstances.
Not everyone who is not smart becomes a criminal or a war refugee.

Of course some are born damn lucky. Nothing you can do about that.
 

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Been so pessimistic is going to ruin your life. It is important to be aware, but not be overpowered by evil.

Failures are important and they will make you stronger. True failure only comes when you give up. Otherwise failure is a stepping stone to success.

You can find solace and happiness if you have the perception to understand it. Been optimistic here helps.
 
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Life isn't fair, some ppl have birth advantage, socialism si not good, intelligence doesn't give you nothing by itself, and any other things you said are stuff that remainds me of nihilism. Idk if you are aware of it, but you seems never content of anything and you are looking at life through a narrow pesimistic pov.
Life is not fair? So what? Which is the unity to measure the life's fairness? Or the advantage or disadvantage for someone?
You think too abstract.
Do you really think that Trump never worked in his life? I can imagine him working like a slave, not sleeping and being stressed at maximum, more than a lot of workers in mines or other phisical hard workers you can imagine. I don't like the guy but he is not the lazy type. Be careful who you envy, you can make a huge mistake.

Your post it's too long to reply step by step.
Rohan told you a good piece of advice, I agree with him.
 

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Well , If there's no failures then there won't be a life either because failures are what teach us in life what to avoid if we want to achieve success next time .
and only thing we can do is learn from our failures and carry on without giving up and that's the secret of those who succeeded in life .
 
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Life sucks. you gotta kill and destroy, just to survive. also socialism doesnt really work as well as capitalism but capitalism feeds off the poor in developing nations, as those nations develop, their people will want better standards of living, and all prices will go up in our developed nations. either that, or machines will replace the vast majority of jobs leading people jobless. Capitalism is a time bomb.

knowing all this doesnt put food in you fridge though.

My parents were immigrants without any money. they were grinding, working low paying jobs for lots of hours and saved their money to work better jobs and to give their kids decent opportunities.

youre smarter than you give yourself credit for, Sdk. you just gotta work on yourself and use your time wisely pursuing something that would benefit you.
 
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Take the straightforward advice of Infinite.

Life itself is enraging, as it's fueled by the desires of other man. Think about it, our world's system is built upon the collective thoughts of the elites that decided that they wanted democracy, aristocracy or dicatorship. The present pillar of this seems, to the outsider, that it's attached to society, but that model only succeeds theoretically. In practice, the world is more-so governed by the elite few, with their selfish desires as the driving force for each amendment made to the current law. Similarly to select families, only their ideas are enforced. The child's wants and needs are mostly forgotten because they know better and secrets are kept from them for possible afflictions from them receiving said knowledge. Applying that to our world, there is knowledge only known by a few enlightened. This esoteric knowledge is kept under the rug, and is done that way to assume control of our actions. A child who doesn't know the motives behind knowledge that is induced to them will never question the basis of that knowledge and never abandons it in their adult lives. That's why our forefathers presented text-books to us, so we would assimilate subjective knowledge and never abandon it. You've never seen lava, but do you ever question its existence? To you, it's another ''given'' knowledge because you have grown with said thing being repeated as physically factual.

Point is, there is actually nothing you can change about beyond occurances, only the few life-close ones. The world itself began with them already ingrained. It is inevitable that there will be ideas that you will enforce on your offspring, as you may think it will only protect it. The government thinks in this mental condition. By taking some of man's labor with Tax and distributing it to the poor, it will be a benefit to the world, even if not all the money goes to society and rewards corruption. These ideas may appear in protection's guise, but everythig has personal motive behind it. You may purposely give your child ideas about becoming a doctor, because you might think it will be for him and not the prestige it might bring to the family name or the fulfillment of your shortcomings.
 
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The more I think about it, the more sad I get, but I can't find anything that convinces me the world is not horrible.

Maybe you grow up thinking mother nature, or God, or society or whatever you define the world as is good.

But it's a lie.


Cus your entire wellbeing is depending on the kindness of the adults around you. And so, if you are lucky you have a home, you have school, you have food and you have books to read or something.


But nothing about that is guaranteed. People may give that to you and you find yourself happy, but because you could never get this yourself or you can't be guaranteed these nice things it's a lie.


That's not life. That's a creation by adults, you had no control over, they made it that way.

Now you are an adult, and you want to do the same thing but how?

If you want nice things, then you need money.

To get money you need intelligence. Cus otherwise you can't work.

Even if you have intelligence a job is still not guaranteed either.

So then what do you do, cus maybe you don't have the connections or the intelligence to get a job?

Are you gonna live with your parents? That's not a guarantee.

Are you gonna feed off of the state? Other people's hard working money? Cus that's socialism, and the more you try to argue socialism the more you realize that you can't argue socialism.

Maybe a crisis happens and so you flee your country, but who says anyone will take you in?

You think that, socialism and taking in refugees are good things but they are not, they are selfish things from your perspective and you can't objectively argue it's a moral thing.

All you can do is believe and say you disagree but people will call you a moron.

So then do you resort to crime?

Cus people are not gonna feel sorry for you, at that point the whole world will look at you with contempt and whatever happens to you, it won't matter.

Do you resort to fiction?

Maybe you find comfort in escapism.

But that doesn't work either cus people will tell you it's nonsense and you need to grow up and be intellectual and you can't argue that something is art or important no matter how much it is that for you.
If other people don't see it like that and would rather have something academical then you can't win that argument cus it's all in your own head.

I only see 2 ways of being happy in life.

1. You are lucky, lika Donald Trump, priviliged, never had to work a day in your life cus you had money from your parents, or the state, or friends, or from crime whatever it is. You don't need to care.

2. You are intelligent and you fit in.
Intelligence is not everything, you can be super smart but if you live in a cave then nobody will know. There are movies like Batman and Robin, that people hate, but even if a million people could have made a better movie, it doesn't mean they had the opportunity to work and do so.
So you need some sort of stability in life.
If you have that, maybe cus your parents raised you properly or cus you are smart, then you have a chance.

If you are not lucky, or you are not someone who fits into the plan of society, then there is no hope for you.

Socialism could make you lucky, cus it gives you free money even if you fail but the world is moving away from that.
Religion could feel sorry for you cus at least that used to be about morality but the world is moving away from that too.
Art is only there if it makes money, and you may not afford to be a part of it, and people may neglect it regardless of how important it is for you. They might say there are more improtant things that needs attention.
Kindness isn't real kindness cus if strangers help you, then you are cheating. And people could just as easily feel sorry for the strangers, on a mass scale it doesn't work anyway.
Crime doesn't work, 99 out of 100 times it fails, the police catches you, and even if they don't morality will haunt you. people will dislike you, shame you, burn you, it's embarassing and it doesn't work. the system wins.


So the only realistic conclusion to life, is that you need to either be lucky or have some sort of safety net made cus of intelligence or connections. Cus if you end up on the outskirts then you are screwed.
There is no real solution that would win an argument in todays world, only SJW screaming for attention.

I saw an article about people driving away redugees into the desert cus nobody wants them.

That's life.
Your home is destroyed and nobody will take you in instead.

Cus there is no space for you.
You're an idiot and privileged yourself, thinking that. Just because you are born a millionaire doesn't make you a billionaire or the President it takes work HARD work. And with your "victim" attitude you DEFINITELY would not make it....just stay a millionaire and live off your parent's success.

LOl "your home is destroyed and no-one would take you in" so YOU SCREWED UP YOUR COUNTRY..THEN move on the next to leach off it and destroy it too? instead of fixing your shit.
 

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Life is what you make it, try your best & if you still fail in the end so be it. At least you’re at the end now and can rest.

Oh and yeah try not to compare situations. Not even the luckiest talented person in the world’s life is all smiles.
 
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