[Discussion] Level of shyness/maturity.

[BREAKD]

Wel I noticed allot when i encounter people I recently met, they seem to be
very shy at certain subjects (I am, ayes and i am sorry, mostly refering to the subject: intercource)

I am a rather very open minded about the subject and when I talk about it
I just cant help but to notice that many people have a hard time doing so
too.
Maybe cause they are not allowed by relatives? or by other close ones?
or something els maybe?

Opinions?



do the poll so we can see what NB thinks about it

 

[phantomlord22]

WTH
poll 3 ! LMAO

 

[Azearl]

That depends on the place you are having conversation

 

[BREAKD]

That depends on the place you are having conversation

I'm not referring to talking about it in church...
Just regular chilling with people. While having a drink for example

 

[Sublime]

Maybe because what somebody does in his bed is private and not others' business, especially as you recently met them ? and maybe they don't appreciate you informing them about what you do in your bed either, as it possibly causes an awkward feeling and they most probably don't care?

 

[Melly]

some people say i'm shy, but i'm really secretly judging them and thinking about where the hell is this world going :|

 

[BREAKD]

Maybe because what somebody does in his bed is private and not others' business, especially as you recently met them ? and maybe they don't appreciate you informing them about what you do in your bed either, as it probably causes an awkward feeling and they most probably don't care?

Its not like I ask him all about what he does in bed or tell him what I do.
Its just when you bring the subject up people rather get al blush or the guys
start giggling like little girls...

 

[Azearl]

Dude you about *** in church thats real cheap

 

[Uchiha Josephus]

Most people don't sit around and say "So ... how about that ***?". Most serious conversations on that subject are held in private or with a few close friends.

It's all about the situation you're in. You've got a brain, so use your own judgement

That said, there's always going to be at least one person that feels like bragging about his/her (exaggerated) *** life in every setting xd

Its not like I ask him all about what he does in bed or tell him what I do.
Its just when you bring the subject up people rather get al blush or the guys
start giggling like little girls...

... maybe if you're still in middle school ... :|

 

[BREAKD]

Dude you about *** in church thats real cheap

Please get lost if you're not gonna contribute any real and thought true opinion.
Sincerely, a man thats has already been true puberty.

 

[BREAKD]

Most people don't sit around and say "So ... how about that ***?". Most serious conversations on that subject are held in private or with a few close friends.

It's all about that situation you're in. You've got a brain, so use your own judgement

That said, there's always going to be at least one person that feels like bragging about his/her (exaggerated) *** life in every setting xd

I see where you're coming from. I might not have been clear enough on the background settings of the situation.
Anyway I don't see myself as THAT person that is always bragging (exaggerating) about his *** life.
I mostly see myself as a grown up man who can and has the ability to talk about any subject with anyone.
Cause aren't we all equals?

 

[Sublime]

Its not like I ask him all about what he does in bed or tell him what I do.
Its just when you bring the subject up people rather get al blush or the guys
start giggling like little girls...

Oh I see, well they just don't want to discuss it then ;p Each has their reasons ;p They are probably young, sounds like typical Junior High/ Highschool behaviour, so it might be immaturity too.

 

[Steaktacular]

Some people tend to be more reticent on that subject because it will eventually lead to really personal questions, in some cases.

You gotta read the situation and ask people who are more close to you, I guess.

Btw, lol @3rd option

 

[BREAKD]

Some people tend to be more reticent on that subject because it will eventually lead to really personal questions, in some cases.

You gotta read the situation and ask people who are more close to you, I guess.

Btw, lol @3rd option

lolling too mate, seems like I am deemed to a life in the
burning pits of fire for being honest ^^

 

[ProGun]

None of the above. I talk about intercourse with my dates very early on. I let them know I am a passionate guy and if our relationship is going to reach its inevitable imtimacy that will be part of it. Furthermore, I let themknow I have a pretty large appetite and that remains constant even in long term relationships. I tell them early on because if they are not open to the idea of ever going there, or have an incapatable passion thermostat setting (if I will get a wondering eye if not sated every 2-3 days, and she is a 1-2/month girl I will either be left unsatisfaied and tempted to look for another outlet OR she will feel burdened and obligated... that is no good for either of us. And it is eminently better to discuss all this as early as possible so that if there is a red flag we can say our goodbyes and move on...

 

[KiraGirl K]

Maybe because what somebody does in his bed is private and not others' business, especially as you recently met them ? and maybe they don't appreciate you informing them about what you do in your bed either, as it possibly causes an awkward feeling and they most probably don't care?

Sublime is just the BEST! xd

 

[YowYan]

intercourse? what's that? Some kind of intertwining race track?

 

[griems]

Well, personally I don't talk to others about the *** I'm having with my girl or the things we do and I think that should stay between her and me anyway. I get that some guys will tell stories to their friends about the amazing coitus they had but not me.

Tho if someone engages me in conversation about the subject as to preferences or something - although a bit awkward - I'll still answer.

Generally I'd prefer if people talked even less about it

 

[Escorpiius]

I love the 3rd poll's choice. xd

As for the question, well, I think it's not really about shyness. Shy or liberal, I don't think most people are really interested in a conversation about your *** life; where most often, it's someone bragging/complaining about it...

Personally, I don't like entering that part of subject because I like my own privacy and I won't try to know the under-sheets secrets of others as that would feel like being an infused voyeur.

 

[Prime Rib]

Being shy has nothing to do with it. Plus its a Convo that most people don't want to talk about