Kind of off topic,but I need advice

[startup97]

Seriously bro, if you hella like her and she doesn't like you.. it'll turn out bad. it's a very, very rookie mistake. we've all done it, and you'll find out why its a mistake, ur only 14 man, you'll figure things out eventually.

however, its interesting how you're describing her as an outsider and u two have a connection because of that. IF you were able to not like her in that way, that could be a solid basis for a good friendship. but, liking her like that... it ruins "friendships"

What this guy said.

 

[ObiFan]

This is aproaching friend zone 9000!!!!!!

And I'm still trying to figure it out

 

[NaruGoku]

Yes,I would have become friends with her!She is easy to talk with and not a "popular" girl.In my opinion,she is cute.But because of the things she likes and how she resembles me to an extent,I really want her and I to be friends or even more.

aiight then. like i said, if you still wanna be friends, go for it. just don't get ur hopes up that she'll start liking u. if you do.. ur in for some heartache bro. ur in for it anyway.. hanging out and being friends with a chick u like.. but hell, ur 14, go for it, be a little reckless. whatever happens, it'll teach you something

 

[Nasai]

LOL that's word. although if there's a girl in here with some real insight, that could help the kid too. sometimes its nice to hear a girl's perspective. in this case, since he ain't up on game, a girl with real insight and advice could be valuable..
Hint Hint ladies..

I would help.. Lel.. But I probably wouldn't know cause I'm 14....... And I've never had a bf or anything.. Idk. But it really depends! The girl might be into certain things and every girl is different with different opinions. Usually if you become best friends that's probably a really good sign that she's into you but maybe not necessarily romantically as they may be a tomboy sort of girl and hang out with guys more so than girls naturally. If you share the same hobbies and the same interests it is always good but communication is a really important thing in a relationship as well as respect and being able to handle any arguments and negotiating plus every now and then letting them know how you feel. Also, some girls may be looking for a particular thing in a man, for example: Christian, or trustworthy, or good looking or same interests or nice personality that is good to be around for example. It's really hard to say though and I'm not an expert or anything sooo yeah..

Also, it's best to start a relationship when you're ready and not at a young age. At 14, you're still growing and whether you know or not you still need maturing emotionally, physically and mentally up until you're 23 I think.. but yeah.. If you feel like she's the right girl than go for it but remember to treat her like you'd like to be treated and be yourself and don't let go of your own personality to be someone you're not! Good luck!

That's the best I could think of. If I knew her I'd probably be able to help more.. hope you can end up finding the right girl even if she turns out to not be the one anyway!!

 

[ObiFan]

aiight then. like i said, if you still wanna be friends, go for it. just don't get ur hopes up that she'll start liking u. if you do.. ur in for some heartache bro. ur in for it anyway.. hanging out and being friends with a chick u like.. but hell, ur 14, go for it, be a little reckless. whatever happens, it'll teach you something

You got it.I wanna live this out the way I want to.But getting some help along the way is also needed.I'm still young so let's see what will happen However,your advices are greatly appreciated

 

[ObiFan]

I would help.. Lel.. But I probably wouldn't know cause I'm 14....... And I've never had a bf or anything.. Idk. But it really depends! The girl might be into certain things and every girl is different with different opinions. Usually if you become best friends that's probably a really good sign that she's into you but maybe not necessarily romantically as they may be a tomboy sort of girl and hang out with guys more so than girls naturally. If you share the same hobbies and the same interests it is always good but communication is a really important thing in a relationship as well as respect and being able to handle any arguments and negotiating plus every now and then letting them know how you feel. Also, some girls may be looking for a particular thing in a man, for example: Christian, or trustworthy, or good looking or same interests or nice personality that is good to be around for example. It's really hard to say though and I'm not an expert or anything sooo yeah..

Also, it's best to start a relationship when you're ready and not at a young age. At 14, you're still growing and whether you know or not you still need maturing emotionally, physically and mentally up until you're 23 I think.. but yeah.. If you feel like she's the right girl than go for it but remember to treat her like you'd like to be treated and be yourself and don't let go of your own personality to be someone you're not! Good luck!

That's the best I could think of. If I knew her I'd probably be able to help more.. hope you can end up finding the right girl even if she turns out to not be the one anyway!!

I cant throw her away.Believe me,every single other girl is the same.Listening to the same music and acting way too cocky for my liking.I found somebody I really like,and stopped fooling myself with other girls who are way below me.So this is why I'm gonna try.

 

[NaruGoku]

I would help.. Lel.. But I probably wouldn't know cause I'm 14....... And I've never had a bf or anything.. Idk. But it really depends! The girl might be into certain things and every girl is different with different opinions. Usually if you become best friends that's probably a really good sign that she's into you but maybe not necessarily romantically as they may be a tomboy sort of girl and hang out with guys more so than girls naturally. If you share the same hobbies and the same interests it is always good but communication is a really important thing in a relationship as well as respect and being able to handle any arguments and negotiating plus every now and then letting them know how you feel. Also, some girls may be looking for a particular thing in a man, for example: Christian, or trustworthy, or good looking or same interests or nice personality that is good to be around for example. It's really hard to say though and I'm not an expert or anything sooo yeah..

Also, it's best to start a relationship when you're ready and not at a young age. At 14, you're still growing and whether you know or not you still need maturing emotionally, physically and mentally up until you're 23 I think.. but yeah.. If you feel like she's the right girl than go for it but remember to treat her like you'd like to be treated and be yourself and don't let go of your own personality to be someone you're not! Good luck!

That's the best I could think of. If I knew her I'd probably be able to help more.. hope you can end up finding the right girl even if she turns out to not be the one anyway!!

Mmm... didn't know u were 14... and that wasn't really advice for his situation.. that was general stuff that ppl say lol. This wasn't bad:
" If you feel like she's the right girl than go for it but remember to treat her like you'd like to be treated and be yourself and don't let go of your own personality to be someone you're not! Good luck!"
problem is, he "went" for it and got rejected.. so now it's 'lets be friends' and that can be a very bad thing. BUT he just now showed his resolve, he wants to do it despite the consequences, which at 14 is fine lol. no matter what happens, good or bad, it'll sure as hell be a life lesson never forgotten

 

[NaruGoku]

You got it.I wanna live this out the way I want to.But getting some help along the way is also needed.I'm still young so let's see what will happen However,your advices are greatly appreciated

LoL Anytime little bro. it's kinda a part of what I do.. For real, anytime man. u can feel free to ask me anything u want, vm or pm if u want to sometime, it's all good

 

[Lariatoo]

Since we are keeping the Obito theme, let me give you an example:
Obito always lovee Rin, but never mustered the courage to talk to her...
Wich made her only see him as a friend...
Is that her fault? Of course not!
Be direct and clear. It not only make it obvious if she is oblivious but also shows that youare outgoing, have a high self steem and can take risks. Chicks dig that.
But don't go out of your way if does not work out. You are 14. You have still a lot going for you, and in the end...
You still will keep an awesome female friend!

 

[Nasai]

I cant throw her away.Believe me,every single other girl is the same.Listening to the same music and acting way too cocky for my liking.I found somebody I really like,and stopped fooling myself with other girls who are way below me.So this is why I'm gonna try.

Ok well then I'm glad! If she really is that nice girl that you can't bear to throw away then she most likely is the one for you! Lol I sound like a matchmaker or something don't I? Haha but if this helps you can answer these two questions..

Would you see yourself with her for the rest of your life? If so then that's on the right track but if not or unsure than it usually means you're not ready for love just yet or it may possibly not be "true love" but a crush that you may get over with one day..

Would you do absolutely anything for her or even put your life on the line if it meant being with her? Tough decision but if so then definitely but if you wouldn't honestly care then you'd need to worry..

Also; just letting you know, when the time is right there will actually be no doubt about it and you'll know that she is definitely the one. As well as that, if she rejects you at all just never give up and keep trying cause who knows.. She may say no the first time but the second she may say yes. My older sister said no at first but after 8 months when my brother in law worked the courage to ask again she said yes and they have been married for two years now. (And are you sure it isn't just your school btw?! Not all girls are like that. Trust me. At least most of the people who I know are amazing. What I'm trying to say is there are a lot of girls out there that you most likely haven't even met.. But yeah, if you do get heartbroken there is no need to feel bad as long as there are always people by your side who can guide you or support you!)

From the sound of it, you seem to love her but then again I can never know cause I'm not you..but I think judging from what you've said about her, it seems like you know each other very well!

Good luck.. And remember to wait like a few months or even years or something cause if you are willing to just to get her that truly shows your feelings for her! :yayy:

:gn: I have to sleep lol! xD

 

[ᖇ α z m α η]

So,I like this girl,she's one year older than me

I'm 14 and she's 13 and know eachother

Seems legit .​

 

[Nasai]

Mmm... didn't know u were 14... and that wasn't really advice for his situation.. that was general stuff that ppl say lol. This wasn't bad:
" If you feel like she's the right girl than go for it but remember to treat her like you'd like to be treated and be yourself and don't let go of your own personality to be someone you're not! Good luck!"
problem is, he "went" for it and got rejected.. so now it's 'lets be friends' and that can be a very bad thing. BUT he just now showed his resolve, he wants to do it despite the consequences, which at 14 is fine lol. no matter what happens, good or bad, it'll sure as hell be a life lesson never forgotten

Yep I agree lol.. Yeah well it wasn't really advice cause I'd have no idea myself lol.. I actually just said it cause we were learning about what makes good relationships in HPE lol..xD

But yeah! To be able to work up the courage to even tell her is saying something! He just has to keep at it and never give up.. "Dattebayo!" xD If she really likes him she'll most likely say yes when she feels comfortable! I guess I can almost guarantee it! He just has to stay true to himself and its better trying than doing nothing at all.. As long as he tried, that's all that really matters and either way, he'll learn a great lesson that he will be able to remember! it's the thought that counts and girls really like that about a guy! It's very nice and appreciative of them and makes them feel special and loved. She will know just how much he loves her if he does it again but makes sure to say it at the perfect time as she will see his willingness in his heart and it shows a portion of just how much he loves her..:yayy:

Anyway goodnight lol..:0 and yes I'm 14 and I have to get up early tomorrow but its really late!! :nuts: :bye:

 

[solo king]

Stop giving him advice. This is a classic troll thread. You can find the same thing word for word on Google

 

[Natsu Shazneel]

I say have *** with her and get it over with. If she does not feel attracted to you after. Than shoot me.

 

[zeezzay]

dude how do u know she doesnt like you??? seriously guys are annoying??? go confess to her???? maybe she likes you,
if she doesnt so what there soooo many other girls have even talked to other girls????

 

[Zlatán]

Mods,I know this is out of topic,but I really need some help about this!


So,I like this girl,she's one year older than me and I already told her I'm attracted to her.But she just thinks I'm really funny and that she likes talking with me.We're good friends,we hug,we always talk,but she isn't attracted to me the same way I'm attracted to her!I don't mind being friends,because she likes the same stuff as me and we have a lot in common,but I want us to be something more.And each time I think of her I think of her as my girlfriend,even though she is my friend!Please help me,I really want us to have something-I'm 14 and she's 13 and know eachother for like a week.Again, please help

You need Maths :|

 

[ObiFan]

You need Maths :|

Oops I meant YOUNGER

 

[ObiFan]

Stop giving him advice. This is a classic troll thread. You can find the same thing word for word on Google

Hello,my friend.Let me clarify for you,as it seems you are in the dark: this is not a troll thread.I replied to everybody's opinion and respect the fact that they want to help me.Either help me or just go away,like the rest of you who think I'm fooling around.

 

[ObiFan]

Yep I agree lol.. Yeah well it wasn't really advice cause I'd have no idea myself lol.. I actually just said it cause we were learning about what makes good relationships in HPE lol..xD

But yeah! To be able to work up the courage to even tell her is saying something! He just has to keep at it and never give up.. "Dattebayo!" xD If she really likes him she'll most likely say yes when she feels comfortable! I guess I can almost guarantee it! He just has to stay true to himself and its better trying than doing nothing at all.. As long as he tried, that's all that really matters and either way, he'll learn a great lesson that he will be able to remember! it's the thought that counts and girls really like that about a guy! It's very nice and appreciative of them and makes them feel special and loved. She will know just how much he loves her if he does it again but makes sure to say it at the perfect time as she will see his willingness in his heart and it shows a portion of just how much he loves her..:yayy:

Anyway goodnight lol..:0 and yes I'm 14 and I have to get up early tomorrow but its really late!! :nuts: :bye:

Thanks!You seem to put a lot of time into your advice,so you're getting a rep I actually agree with you

 

[AlphaScythian]

So she's 13 and one year older then 14? Just what's wrong here?