Kids and Gender Neutral

Sakura Michiko

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If you guys ever have kids are you going to raise them gender neutral? Will you buy them "girl" toys and "boy" toys? When I have kids I will raise them gender neutral like my mom did me.
 

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Nope.
My boy is not playing with dolls.
 

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He's going to play with some mother****ing Legos like I did when I was a child, don't want him to stare at a tablet for hours like a zombie.
 

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I'd encourage them to play with things geared towards there gender. But if they are super not into it and into the opposite gender toy every time in multiple scenarios, I would let them play with opposite gender toys.

But the last thing on my mind I want to think about is kids, I'm good for a long while.
 

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If I have kids they won't be taught gender roles or seteortypes that you must follow because you're a girl or a boy.

I hate how it's no Indivuality in this world. You have to fit a specific norm. If you don't, you're weird.

They can play with whatever they're toys.
 

Sakura Michiko

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If I have kids they won't be taught gender roles or seteortypes that you must follow because you're a girl or a boy.

I hate how it's no Indivuality in this world. You have to fit a specific norm. If you don't, you're weird.

They can play with whatever they're toys.

This is how I feel.
 

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I used to play with Action men and my Elder Sisters dolls (barbie and wot not at the time), Didn't do me a bit of harm. I personally didn't see anything wrong with it and i still don't.

It's quite the myth that allowing Boys to play with "Girly" things or allowing him to wear "Girly" colours has big impacts on sexuality.

Pink used to be a masculine colour and Blue feminine. Funny how things changed huh
 

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Also i find it quite ironic that Allowing boys to play with half naked muscle men (Action man in my day or wrestling figures) was more masculine than playing with an Half naked (or completely naked) Doll based on the female body.

Strange how these things play out when you look at them properly XD
 
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