Here are some nice questions. :heh:
• Are you proud of your current status in life?
• Did you ever get depressed?
• Which one do you prefer: Coffee or Thee
• What was your very first reaction when you noticed your thread (the old JFK) was gone (deleted) ?
• Do you believe that when friends leave, they will eventually come back later?
• How can you help someone to stop smoking (weed) ?
• How can you advise someone to do her/his best in high-school/college?
And the last question: about myself. >_<
- Due my visits and addiction on NarutoBase I missed a lot of stuff in class by not focusing.
My grades are pathetically low and I haven't toid my parents about it nor am I planning to. In fact I told them they were great and there was nothing to worry about.
My teacher and I talked today and he said (, I quote his words): "I'm afraid you can't participate with the exams this year."
In other words: I have to do a year over. :/
But that's only if I not succeed. I still (or that's what I think and told him) can held my grades up again.
By making them over since our education rule says we can make the tests twice.
I know this a stupid question and this has nothing to do with you, but do you think I can do this?
That I can succeed? >_<
I already became less active as before on the base, but didn't change anything at all.
I made my English test a week ago and I'm shocked about the result and jealous about the other results. :/
I also don't feel like studying.. How can I change that? 'Cause I need to.
Thank you for your time! ^_^
EDITED:
I don't think that was actually a final question, after reading what I wrote. xD
I asked too much questions. :x
Damn, I aplogize.

Yes, I'm proud of my academic achievements and where I'm going in life. I'll be the first member of my family to get a PhD, which is kind of a big deal.
Yes, but never for very long.
I assume you meant "tea", not the "thee". I prefer tea, but I also prefer "thee" because I don't like coffee.
I felt sadness, and shortly after I felt relieved. The month I had off was a nice break.
I feel that they can and often do. However, I know fr experience that they sometimes do not.
You need to provide alternative means for whatever they are trying to accomplish by smoking. It also helps to provide positive stimuli when they don't smoke as well as negative stimuli when they do. Basically figure out what's going to work for operant conditioning of the individual in question.
Most people are capable of doing well in school. The thing that prevents it is a lack of motivation. People need to find a reason to care about school, which will motivate them to do well. For me, I like the sense of achievement, I enjoy learning new things for the sake of learning, and I know I need to do well to attain my desired career. Another person will likely have completely diffent motivators.
Well, to be honest it seems like you're in a pretty rough spot. If you try hard enough you can probably scrape by, but I don't know you well enough to know your academic prowess. Just try your hardest and stay off the base until your tests are done.
As to getting up the motivation to study, you should already have it. You don't want to repeat a year of school, and you don't want to disappoint your parents. You can try to make your studying more fun by doing it in different places (like the library, the park, or a coffee shop), creating mini rewards (like candy), and varying the kind of studying you do (flash cards, reading, problems, etc.).
Hope that helps, and best of luck to you!