Is she gone for good or naw?

[ITACHIUCHIA101]

I just had a bad conversation with my ex from about a week ago, we dated for like a year. Do you think she is completely done or just being spiteful?
Don't mind my name and I changed hers after the break up for lawls.

Spoiler

[6:48:05 AM] Toby Williams: Do you remember what I said last night?
[6:49:35 AM] Little Ms. Heart Break: Can you be a little more specific? |-(
[6:50:01 AM] Toby Williams: It was right before you fell asleep
[6:51:09 AM] Little Ms. Heart Break: No I don't/
[6:54:19 AM] Toby Williams: Ughhh
[6:54:53 AM] Little Ms. Heart Break: So tell me?
[6:55:15 AM] Toby Williams: Tonight? (kiss)
[6:55:54 AM] Little Ms. Heart Break: No.
[6:56:30 AM] Toby Williams: Whyuy
[6:57:11 AM] Little Ms. Heart Break: Because I am not waiting all damn day for you.
[6:57:25 AM] Little Ms. Heart Break: Now or never *****.
[7:07:50 AM] Toby Williams: It was about usssss
[7:08:45 AM] Little Ms. Heart Break:
[7:08:59 AM] Little Ms. Heart Break: I don't care , Now or neverrrrrrrrrrr.
[7:24:57 AM] Toby Williams: I said something like this: I love you, I know you hate me for what I did and you won't be able to ever get over it and you think we should move on. But if we stay like this we really aren't going to move on. And I don't want to. And I hope that somewhere deep inside you still don't want to move on either. I know it's hard to work us out but I need you. You got upset when I was going to delete everyone, I just wanted to prove it instead of saying I don't need anyone else. I'm not saying we should go out again soon but I definitely don't like the idea of us moving on.
I started getting emotional so I stopped and you had fell asleep.
Or something like that
[7:26:27 AM] Little Ms. Heart Break: Well we can talk about it. But my decision is the same. I'm not dating you again.
[7:27:17 AM] Toby Williams: Ughhhh
[7:28:31 AM] Little Ms. Heart Break: Sorry.
[7:29:31 AM] Toby Williams: Is there no changing talking to other people, at least for now
[7:30:24 AM] Little Ms. Heart Break: What
[7:30:41 AM] Toby Williams: To which part
[7:30:46 AM] Little Ms. Heart Break: Alllllll
[7:32:07 AM] Toby Williams: You said you're talking to other people, right?
[7:32:46 AM] Little Ms. Heart Break: Yeah?
[7:33:51 AM] Toby Williams: It was about that
[7:34:29 AM] Little Ms. Heart Break: That doesn't explain it but okay.
[7:35:09 AM] Toby Williams: I was asking if there was any changing that
[7:35:57 AM] Little Ms. Heart Break: What would I change it?
[7:36:00 AM] Little Ms. Heart Break: Why*
[7:36:37 AM] Toby Williams: I was just asking, I don't have a good reason...
[7:38:25 AM] Little Ms. Heart Break: Oh well then no.
[7:39:28 AM] Toby Williams: Alright
[7:40:04 AM] Little Ms. Heart Break: k
[7:40:31 AM] Toby Williams: Yeaaaaahhh...
[7:41:03 AM] Little Ms. Heart Break: Ugh I'm gonna go. Bye
[7:41:23 AM] Toby Williams: Why?
[7:41:35 AM] Little Ms. Heart Break: This conversation sucks.
[7:41:43 AM] Little Ms. Heart Break: And it's annoying.
[7:41:54 AM] Toby Williams: Why is it annoying?
[7:47:49 AM] Little Ms. Heart Break: Because
[7:48:48 AM] Toby Williams: Wanna start it over?
[7:49:08 AM] Little Ms. Heart Break: No.
[7:49:35 AM] Toby Williams: So you wanna just message me later?
[7:49:50 AM] Little Ms. Heart Break: I want you to stoppppp.
[7:50:02 AM] Toby Williams: Stop what exactly?
[7:50:29 AM] Little Ms. Heart Break: I don't know! Just stop
[7:53:13 AM] Toby Williams: I tried, I really did.
But last night when we were talking I thought we were doing okay and it reminded me of what I lost. And I lost so much. I could barely even look at you without wanting to cry last night. That's why I wasn't watching, I had to distract myself.
[7:54:01 AM] Little Ms. Heart Break: Good.
[7:54:23 AM] Toby Williams: Good?
[7:54:33 AM] Little Ms. Heart Break: It sucks that you're hurt but now you now how it feels.
[7:55:36 AM] Toby Williams: And if I could go back and change it I would. I would change everything. But I can't, so I'm sorry. ;(
[7:56:06 AM] Little Ms. Heart Break: I'm sorry too.
[7:56:30 AM] Toby Williams: This isn't hard for you?
[7:57:50 AM] Little Ms. Heart Break: Seriously? I cried for like 5 days straight and that is exactly why I'm never dating you again. I'm over this.
[7:59:39 AM] Toby Williams: I didn't want it to go the way it did, I wanted is to still be friends to be able to talk about it.

You think I didn't cry too?
[8:00:39 AM] Little Ms. Heart Break: We are friends now, But that's not good enough. Nothing ever is for you.
[8:01:06 AM] Little Ms. Heart Break: I could care less if you did. You caused so I'm not giving you pitty.
[8:01:26 AM] Little Ms. Heart Break: it*
[8:02:06 AM] Toby Williams: Right now, it is good enough. I just dread the day where I have to stop saying I love you.
[8:02:53 AM] Little Ms. Heart Break: Well it's coming so prepare yourself.
[8:03:26 AM] Toby Williams: Only because you want it to
[8:04:21 AM] Little Ms. Heart Break: Yeah because I met someone and I think it's working out pretty well.
[8:04:51 AM] Little Ms. Heart Break: I also care enough to tell you that.
[8:12:48 AM] Little Ms. Heart Break: Uh hellooooo?
[8:15:21 AM] Toby Williams: I had to get my pills
[8:15:39 AM] Little Ms. Heart Break: k
[8:15:53 AM] Toby Williams: I guess as long as he makes you happy..
[8:17:13 AM] Little Ms. Heart Break: Yeah a lot more than you. He actually makes me feel good about myself instead of talking to other girls behind my back.
[8:17:48 AM] Toby Williams: Why are you still doing this..
[8:18:26 AM] Little Ms. Heart Break: Doing what?
[8:18:38 AM] Toby Williams: Still making me feel like shit
[8:19:11 AM] Little Ms. Heart Break: You are not a ****ing victim. Stop acting like you are, It's pathetic.
[8:19:26 AM] Little Ms. Heart Break: Maybe I'm letting you know how it feels.
[8:20:45 AM] Toby Williams: Well, you just said that you met a guy and it's going pretty good and that he's better than me. Do you really have to keep going, like calling me pathetic?
I'm going to stop, just please..
[8:21:35 AM] Little Ms. Heart Break: Did you stop? Oh you did, Because she woke up.
[8:22:00 AM] Little Ms. Heart Break: Honestly you can just get out of my life.
[8:26:33 AM] Toby Williams: Okay.
[8:27:17 AM] Little Ms. Heart Break: This time you block me so I don't just unblock you.
[8:27:43 AM] Toby Williams: But then I would just unblock you...
[8:27:55 AM] Little Ms. Heart Break: Don't?
[8:28:20 AM] Toby Williams: If it was that easy you wouldn't be worried about yourself doing it?
[8:28:52 AM] Little Ms. Heart Break: Yeah because I'm an idiot.
[8:29:16 AM] Little Ms. Heart Break: I wanna feel better and be happy. So please
[8:29:41 AM] Toby Williams: BUT I'M ****ING RETARDED
[8:29:45 AM] Toby Williams: Sorry caps lock..
[8:30:01 AM] Toby Williams: I'll block you on Facebook if you get Skype..
[8:30:18 AM] Little Ms. Heart Break: Okay.
[8:30:57 AM] Toby Williams: Bye, I hope this doesn't upset you but I will always love you and if one day you want to talk I'll be here..
[8:33:01 AM] Toby Williams: I can't block you until 48 hours after unblocking you so I'll do it tomorrow..
[8:33:47 AM] Little Ms. Heart Break: I hope you can meet a girl who fits your standards and makes you happy. I'm sorry I wasnt good enough but hopfully you know that you can't do that stuff with it going unpunished. It's gonna take me a really long time to get over this but I gave you chances to prove me wrong and It didnt work out so now I have to say goodbye. I love you.

 

[Jack Spicer]

Did you threaten to block her over her getting skype?

WOW.


And I agree with her, the conversation sucks.

 

[ITACHIUCHIA101]

Did you threaten to block her over her getting skype?

WOW.


And I agree with her, the conversation sucks.

No?
She wanted me to block her on everything but I compromised and said that I'll do Facebook if she did Skype?
I never threatened anything like that .-.

 

[Xirenji]

I don't think anyone here can answer you. Firstly, we don't know the backstory - more importantly what caused this argument to begin with.

Secondly, no one here actually knows her, so I don't think anyone can give you an answer regarding what she's thinking.

In fact, I don't think anyone but her can give you a definitive answer. She's the one who knows her boundaries best.

Now that that's out of the way, I don't think it's a good idea to post matters like these on a forum. I personally think relationship problems should stay between the two people involved, but to each his own I guess.

 

[ITACHIUCHIA101]

I don't think anyone can answer you. Firstly, we don't know the backstory - more importantly what caused this argument to begin with. Secondly, no one here actually knows her, so I don't think anyone can give you an answer regarding what she's thinking.

In fact, I don't think anyone but her can give you a definitive answer.

Now that that's out of the way, I don't think it's a good idea to post matters like these on a forum. I personally think relationship problems should stay between the two people involved, but to each his own I guess.

But there is no relationship anymore D:

Back story:

Spoiler

We were doing great, at least I thought so, but then about 4 weeks ago she stopped talking to me and she said she was really busy. So I said okay, after all she can't help it, right? That went on for about 5 days with practically no talking. On the 4th day I had asked what she was so busy with and she said she didn't feel like explaining. But eventually she had said that she was avoiding me because she doesn't feel as strongly anymore and then said I was annoying her by asking so I said I'd give her space. About 3 days later I messaged her and she said she was still mad so I said okay so that was it. Then the next day she asked if I wanted to break up and I told her no but when I asked her if she wanted to she wouldn't answer me and just left. So two days after that I went to her house so we could talk about it and I asked her what she wanted to do and she said "I don't know, Toby. You figure it out." Then she said I should leave. So, I did. The day after she messaged me saying Hey and about 30 minutes after a weird conversation which was super awkward I asked if she still loved me and she had said no, then I asked if she would cry if we broke up, again, a no. So that night I said we should be just friends. She got really mad, saying that she should have broken up with me way before and she was just super angry. I could PM you that whole thing if you want. Then she said that she never wanted to talk to me again then she blocked me. Two days ago she messaged me saying hey and stuff we started talking to again but just about every day she would start screaming at me and crying, it was a mess. And I think that is pretty much it.

 

[Xirenji]

But there is no relationship anymore D:

Back story:

Spoiler

We were doing great, at least I thought so, but then about 4 weeks ago she stopped talking to me and she said she was really busy. So I said okay, after all she can't help it, right? That went on for about 5 days with practically no talking. On the 4th day I had asked what she was so busy with and she said she didn't feel like explaining. But eventually she had said that she was avoiding me because she doesn't feel as strongly anymore and then said I was annoying her by asking so I said I'd give her space. About 3 days later I messaged her and she said she was still mad so I said okay so that was it. Then the next day she asked if I wanted to break up and I told her no but when I asked her if she wanted to she wouldn't answer me and just left. So two days after that I went to her house so we could talk about it and I asked her what she wanted to do and she said "I don't know, Toby. You figure it out." Then she said I should leave. So, I did. The day after she messaged me saying Hey and about 30 minutes after a weird conversation which was super awkward I asked if she still loved me and she had said no, then I asked if she would cry if we broke up, again, a no. So that night I said we should be just friends. She got really mad, saying that she should have broken up with me way before and she was just super angry. I could PM you that whole thing if you want. Then she said that she never wanted to talk to me again then she blocked me. Two days ago she messaged me saying hey and stuff we started talking to again but just about every day she would start screaming at me and crying, it was a mess. And I think that is pretty much it.

She sounds like she was already mad at you when she first stopped talking to you. There's gotta be a reason for that.

 

[NarutoB]

But there is no relationship anymore D:

Back story:

Spoiler

We were doing great, at least I thought so, but then about 4 weeks ago she stopped talking to me and she said she was really busy. So I said okay, after all she can't help it, right? That went on for about 5 days with practically no talking. On the 4th day I had asked what she was so busy with and she said she didn't feel like explaining. But eventually she had said that she was avoiding me because she doesn't feel as strongly anymore and then said I was annoying her by asking so I said I'd give her space. About 3 days later I messaged her and she said she was still mad so I said okay so that was it. Then the next day she asked if I wanted to break up and I told her no but when I asked her if she wanted to she wouldn't answer me and just left. So two days after that I went to her house so we could talk about it and I asked her what she wanted to do and she said "I don't know, Toby. You figure it out." Then she said I should leave. So, I did. The day after she messaged me saying Hey and about 30 minutes after a weird conversation which was super awkward I asked if she still loved me and she had said no, then I asked if she would cry if we broke up, again, a no. So that night I said we should be just friends. She got really mad, saying that she should have broken up with me way before and she was just super angry. I could PM you that whole thing if you want. Then she said that she never wanted to talk to me again then she blocked me. Two days ago she messaged me saying hey and stuff we started talking to again but just about every day she would start screaming at me and crying, it was a mess. And I think that is pretty much it.

We don't love these hoes

 

[Jenga]

Move on my man...stop chasing. it's over.

 

[ITACHIUCHIA101]

She sounds like she was already mad at you when she first stopped talking to you. There's gotta be a reason for that.

I've asked and afterwards she said it was because she was on her period. I swear, I'll go find it if you want xD