Yeah, he did what he did because he believed that Jiraiya was right about the child the sage told him about. Minato gave Naruto the power that he knew his son would grow up to control and save the world.
Died protecting his son, deeply cared for his wife to the extent where he crushed his own student to do both, saved his son from being absorbed by the Nine Tails and dying, didn't beat the shit out of his son when he punched him....I'd say he's a good dad.
Minato was a huge part of the reason Naruto has made it this far. Minato saved Naruto from many occasions and left enough chakra to explain himself to Naruto so he would understand that his father was always there for him. His mother put her life into Naruto so she could help him tame the Nine tails and use it's power. She as well put enough so they could talk. So with both parents explaining themselves and helping him get better. Just with that Naruto felt it all to be worth it. He just wanted to meet his parents, and he did. So emotionally they were amazing parents.
No. I wouldn't care for the stupid village if it meant me keeping my child from having such a horrible childhood. Also, he believed Obito would be back for Kurama and he still sealed it in Naruto...basically further putting his child in danger...so no.
i dont think goku was but he saved the world,thats the diffrence in this series gohan(or naruto in this case) saves the world without his dad ever being there or mom.lol.but bad parents them anime producers are producing.lol.makes me the reader want to leave my child as soon as i have one.thankfully for that ****er he wont be ignored for another 10 years when im 30.lol