[Discussion] Is it wrong to be a friendly person ?

Namar

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Why do most people react in a negative manner to simple, but friendly approaches ?

Why do they treat it like desperation or thirstiness ? :wut:
 

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If you're friendly to everybody then its ok.
If you are however overly friendly to a single gender then I guess that's a bit weird.
 

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How friendly? Do you need directions friendly? Or can I get a feel friendly.
 

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If you're friendly to everybody then its ok.
If you are however overly friendly to a single gender then I guess that's a bit weird.

I'm treating all the same. And ask all how they feel or how was their day and if we can be friends. What's wrong with that ?
 

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Being friendly doesn't mean you can't come off as a creep. You might be doing something you're not aware of if that's the response you are getting.

Asking if you can be friends after meeting them is a bit weird.
 

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The world has turned into a place where edgy tough guys is the new cool. You keep doing you

Edit: Just as long as you don't straight up repeat your sig to a stranger tho....
 

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If you're friendly to everybody then its ok.
If you are however overly friendly to a single gender then I guess that's a bit weird.

Like my p.e teacher?
 

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I suppose that depends on what you consider friendly. Everything is fine to some extent.
 

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I only have 4 friends the rest are people i know. I treat people how they want to be treated. If a hoe is a hoe i treat er like when if a lady a lady i tret her like one if a ***** a ***** then i treat her like one. I only treat moms like a queen.
 

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I only have 4 friends the rest are people i know. I treat people how they want to be treated. If a hoe is a hoe i treat er like when if a lady a lady i tret her like one if a ***** a ***** then i treat her like one. I only treat moms like a queen.

Yea, nice.
I'm not only talking about being friendly as intimate. More like friendy as friends that chat random stuff. So, idc if it's female or masculine just friends.
 

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Yea, nice.
I'm not only talking about being friendly as intimate. More like friendy as friends that chat random stuff. So, idc if it's female or masculine just friends.

If it's just to chat then yeah i suppose i could, when i have time. In that case no it's not really wrong.
 

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If been too friendly it's gonna be suspicious and might even seem like you want something from them .
 
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People usually have ulterior motives, people who are (too) friendly become suspicious to me. I'd imagine women feel the same way when men approach them.
 

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depends on the other person you're being friendly with
 

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Too much friendliness is creepy. Maybe it's just that?
 
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