Is it racist If I Refuse To Date Other Races? How do i tell this black girl so?

[gerizzyYMcrew]

sounds like your pretty racist to me

 

[GreyWizard93]

I only date white girls. My children will too.

 

[MickNerks]

I only date white girls. My children will too.

The funny thing is that you think you can CONTROL who your children will fall in love with. How are you gonna respond if they come with someone who is:

Latino American
African American
Asian American
Arab American

 

[GreyWizard93]

The funny thing is that you think you can CONTROL who your children will fall in love with. How are you gonna respond if they come with someone who is:

Latino American
African American
Asian American
Arab American

Kick them out and it's not controlling it's persuading. Through out there lives ill say how they can only date white people and that'll be there way of thinking.

 

[YowYan]

Kick them out and it's not controlling it's persuading. Through out there lives ill say how they can only date white people and that'll be there way of thinking.

Reminds me of my Russian friend. He only digs black girls and his family can't stand that. They are anti-interracial marriage.
Simpletons such as yourself should just refrain from reproducing

 

[Satoshi Uchiha]

Kick them out and it's not controlling it's persuading. Through out there lives ill say how they can only date white people and that'll be there way of thinking.

This is racist. Why would you force them to make decisions then make them feel degraded if they chose not to. That's not persuasion. Definitely a racist.

 

[CodeineUchiha]

If your not racist dont ever say somebody is pretty for a black girl. Thats basically saying its unusual for black girls to be pretty. Coming from a black male.

 

[GreyWizard93]

Reminds me of my Russian friend. He only digs black girls and his family can't stand that. They are anti-interracial marriage.
Simpletons such as yourself should just refrain from reproducing

This is racist. Why would you force them to make decisions then make them feel degraded if they chose not to. That's not persuasion. Definitely a racist.

Not at all. It's a preferred choice and due to many, many experiences in my life being bad with black people. It's the whole "I'm not racist because I have black friends" which I do so I will have my children share the same view.

 

[nightwolf888]

no. no its not. I know black guys that won't black girls

 

[Satoshi Uchiha]

Not at all. It's a preferred choice and due to many, many experiences in my life being bad with black people. It's the whole "I'm not racist because I have black friends" which I do so I will have my children share the same view.

Your grouping all black people into the same category and generalizing them as being all the same. You're not only a racist in denial but very close minded. You must be a teenage kid.

 

[Loki d]

You come off as a bit racist. You're excluding a whole ethnic group without knowing all of the people that belong to that group. You never know when a girl who is black, asian, etc will come around and change your world.

 

[Honord Sage]

Your personal tasted in Women is your own concern,how their is no such thing as race with Humans today or for the last forty thousand years. Every Human being is of the same race, skin color is an adaptation to environmental conditions were your ancestors were for Ice age Europe is not a place to get and keep a tan. Last time two different races existed together was us and Neanderthal man the original white boy.

 

[shadedwonder]

Kick them out and it's not controlling it's persuading. Through out there lives ill say how they can only date white people and that'll be there way of thinking.

It'd be one thing if your children were old enough to just leave home and take care of themselves because they disagree with you. It's another thing to use your young children's dependency to project your prejudice into their minds.

I actually had that experience when I was a teenager: met a girl at my (then) church that I was really interested in, but her father "persuaded" her by taking away privileges one by one until she broke things off-- and the father didn't even take the time to get to know me. Didn't do drugs, wasn't associated with shady people, law abiding, good grades... I'm black and that's all he needed to know lol. We can all worship God together because we're fellow Christians but I couldn't date his daughter because of my skin color... lol

Being adamant on kicking your kid out solely because they're into someone who is other than white... that stems from fear and/or hatred brought on from past experiences.

 

[shadedwonder]

Not at all. It's a preferred choice and due to many, many experiences in my life being bad with black people. It's the whole "I'm not racist because I have black friends" which I do so I will have my children share the same view.

Paraphrasing what you're saying:

"I will have my children share the same view [because of] experiences in my life being bad with black people."

"Will have" is a verb tense. You're literally saying you intend to manipulate your child's mind to share your hatred and/or fear.

listen to yourself -_-

 

[SilverfoxUchiha]

It's not racist. I am a black guy and i wouldnt date white girls. i like my naturally sunkissed ladies way too much, they remind me of the ancient egyptians (other black people) in both how they look and the fact that our culture is often very deep.

Re. white girls... i find they are culturally too different and i do not find them as attractive.

 

[shelke]

What is so wrong in wanting to keep to your race? I don't look down on black women or men or see them as any less capable or inferior i am just not interested into race mixing. The girl is very attractive for a black person but i rather date within my own color.

because she is very pretty for a black girl.

You sure are painting yourself as one. Anyhow, if you are not interested then coming across as aggressively cold would hurt her feelings. Try to pass on little hints here and there that you like being friends and that that is the future you see for this relationship etc.

If she still continues on with the advances, then have a sit-down and ask her in a polite manner that YOU think she's sexually interested in you. Proceed in a manner that, 'you might be wrong but that's the feeling that you get'. Throw the ball in her court rather than yours. See what she has to say.

If she says that she is, then turn her down politely that you are interested in someone else (you don't have to be), and that you have always considered her a great friend and that feeling won't change. Don't bring out the 'you date only your own race' card. That would be extremely condescending and a very prickish attitude. Play it slow, and let it sink in without coming across as an *******. I am sure she will understand.

Good luck!

 

[the last uchiha]

nope. it means your missing out...

 

[the last uchiha]

I only date white girls. My children will too.

something tells me your wrong

 

[the last uchiha]

Kick them out and it's not controlling it's persuading. Through out there lives ill say how they can only date white people and that'll be there way of thinking.

quick way to end up a lonely old man ... oh wait ... your lonely madara uchiha lol

 

[GreyWizard93]

I can't believe so many disagree with me. I am not young nor stupid. Yes I've had many bad experiences and some say I shouldn't allow that to decide on what goes on with my children but it will. You all mistake I'm not hating and degrading ill just say how I don't agree with it. I fear what black people can do because 99% of the time it's a black person. The chavs, stabbing, robbing and dealers are black. Some think it dome say it.