Is it racist If I Refuse To Date Other Races? How do i tell this black girl so?

[Pride]

First of all i would like to say that i am not racist or bigoted, but i would rather date my own race which are white europeans. I have black friends but i think this black girl is coming off on me how do i let her down easy and tell her i am not interested? I dont want to come of as a **** or racist or anything but its just a personal preference of mine not racism.

 

[xboxfan65]

just tell her you're not interested while not bringing up race. It should be easy if you're not really a racist

 

[ahmo]

You just let her know you're not interested as you would a "white european girl". Less you tell her its about her race and there's going to be disaster.
I don't think refusing to date others from other races should be considered being racist, its a choice, but best if you keep it to yourself

 

[Cooh]

You're just not attracted to black girls, why would that be racist? I don't get it. Just tell her you don't like her the same way you would tell a white girl that you don't like her.

 

[Ciao]

its not racist but i wouldn't tell anyone else unless you really trust them
also if you reject a girl don't tell them its because of their race

 

[Pride]

just tell her you're not interested while not bringing up race. It should be easy if you're not really a racist

I am not a racist, i have black friends. However i don't like race mixing and prefer to stick to my own race. How is that wrong?

You just let her know you're not interested as you would a "white european girl". Less you tell her its about her race and there's going to be disaster.
I don't think refusing to date others from other races should be considered being racist, its a choice, but best if you keep it to yourself

I understand but i don't want her to feel like she is not pretty or beautiful because she is very pretty for a black girl. I am just not into that.

 

[CrimsonReaper]

no, not at all. Just confront her and tell her that you're not interested.

I understand but i don't want her to feel like she is not pretty or beautiful because she is very pretty for a black girl. I am just not into that.

tell her you consider her as a sister and you would like to stay friends.

 

[Pride]

no, not at all. Just confront her and tell her that you're not interested.

What reasons shall i then make up to her? I already told her i am single and that she looks good. I didn't know she thought that i was interested in her.

 

[Itachi Edo]

just tell her you're not interested while not bringing up race. It should be easy if you're not really a racist

This. There's nothing wrong with having a preference. BTW, it's ethnicity. We're all human, but we come from different ethnic groups. Sorry had to throw that in, people using race in the wrong way is a HUGE pet peeve of mine. I'm an equal opportunity dater, but if it were me, I'd just say "Hey, thank you for *whatever compliment she gives or if she asks you out*, but I'm really not interested in you like that. Sorry."

Say that and it won't be a problem.

What reasons shall i then make up to her? I already told her i am single and that she looks good. I didn't know she thought that i was interested in her.

Don't make up reasons. You said she looks good, so just leave it at "I think you look good, but I'm just not interested in you like that."
I've turned down my share of girls/women and have been turned down enough to be an expert at this.

 

[CrimsonReaper]

What reasons shall i then make up to her? I already told her i am single and that she looks good. I didn't know she thought that i was interested in her.

maybe ask her about girls you find attractive? are you good friends?

 

[Natsu Shazneel]

Tell her you wanna date Hello Kitty.

 

[Ryu Kishi]

if shes hot just hit it and quit it

 

[TenseiganFTW]

First of all i would like to say that i am not racist or bigoted, but i would rather date my own race which are white europeans. I have black friends but i think this black girl is coming off on me how do i let her down easy and tell her i am not interested? I dont want to come of as a **** or racist or anything but its just a personal preference of mine not racism.

People have different taste.
You have nothing against her.But you don't have taste for other races.No racist confirmed!

 

[To Whatever]

just tell her you're not interested while not bringing up race. It should be easy if you're not really a racist

common sense

 

[sasukesworld]

Why should it be racist, that's just normal.

 

[Dantee]

Obvious racist is obvious.

 

[TenseiganFTW]

Obvious racist is obvious.

How can you call a situation like this racist?
Many white boys don't like many white females.
It doesn't means you are racist if you don't like a women LOL.

 

[Dantee]

How can you call a situation like this racist?
Many white boys don't like many white females.
It doesn't means you are racist if you don't like a women LOL.

Im just kidding OP should just tell her he's not interested. It shouldn't be hard.

 

[BlacLord™]

I am not a racist, i have black friends. However i don't like race mixing and prefer to stick to my own race. How is that wrong?

It's not racist, however I am curious to know why you don't like mixed ethnicities. It is beneficial to a child if you were to ever have one.

 

[Troyg39]

You sure it's because you don't date outside your race of because she just not the right type of girl you would date who happens to be outside your race?

If you serious then just tell her its always better than making some shit up. Trust me bro don't feel bad we all have different preferences. There aren't many white girls I'm really attracted to. And I don't really give too much thought on dating straight up Africans either. It's even some black girls I don't rock with. I can't stand a ratchet ass black girl. A little rachet? Yea that's cute, but **** all that other bullshit.

Ima keep it 100 with you I like what I like. But I can't say I wouldn't date a white girl or black girl or African, Indian, you get the point, because I know there are some attractive ones out there, and if I can be attracted to them, then I probably would consider dating them depending on the circumstances. Repeat after me. "I am a man, and I have preferences. I'm attracted to certain things, some more than others. Nothing against you, I just not attracted to you." Nothing racist about that.

Now this is why I asked you are you sure you don't date outside your race? Because if you feel more like what I mentioned earlier, you can use that quote and wouldn't need to explain yourself. But if you really are against dating someone simply because they can be considered "outside of your race", then just know I'm praying for you fam. It is not gonna be pretty when you tell this chick that