I'd like to know if you all think its out of line to ask a girl to get a full std test done before you all date/have ***? At their request you'd also get one. I don't think its out of line myself because nobody wants an std and its the best way. Id rather be safe then rush into it and be sorry.
Well - if you're going to request such a thing - then utilizing tact is advised.
That said - it isn't entirely out of line. There are plenty of cases where diseases have been passed along without the individuals showing clear indications of having the disease at the time.
Though, like I said, that one has to be approached with a bit of tact. Going about it the wrong way will give the implication that you don't trust her or that you believe she is 'dirty' or that she was not responsible/discerning with any of her previous relationships.
Perhaps the best way to go about it would be to say something along the lines of:
"So, I was thinking - and before we make the beast with two backs, I wanted to give you peace of mind by going through a full STD screening so that you don't have to worry about gifts that keep on giving."
Chances are, if she's a decent human being, and you affirm your resolve to be screened - she'll offer to be screened, too. If she doesn't - you need to consider why and if she's really the type of person you want to be getting intimate with.
She could just be socially awkward and not gaheet it... or it could be that she doesn't care....
If neither you nor her care about such things - then have at it and let the coins fall how they may.
