Is it good or bad?

[Donald J Trump]

When I meet people I talk to them as if i have known them for my whole life. This doesn't mean I'm rude to them or throw offensive banter around but I'm really relaxed and keep the conversation flowing really well and don't hold back my personality. Just about everyone iv spoken to holds back their personality and as the time goes on they slowly open up. 4 people have already come up to me and asked me how I know everyone at my "School" but Iv only known people for like a week it's just that the way I talk makes it seem like Iv known them for a while.


I was wondering if this was a good or a bad thing? I can't help but do it because I'm really not a nervous person.

 

[Mari Makinami]

Well, I suppose it's better than the autistic behavior when a person looks like he/she met a ghost whenever they talk to someone new irl. In any case, don't worry about it, it's fine unless you're having trouble because of it.

 

[Sagebee]

I think there's a difference of just being friendly and being too comfortable, you shouldn't be saying things that pass boundaries to people you don't know.

 

[Pumpkin Ninja]

I can't imagine it being a bad thing, other than some people not liking you but other than that, it's a good thing. I can never tell if you're trolling or not though.

 

[Donald J Trump]

I can't imagine it being a bad thing, other than some people not liking you but other than that, it's a good thing. I can never tell if you're trolling or not though.

I know what you mean man. I'm not trolling right now Tho. One person told me irl that it was fine. It may sound good on paper but maybe it's not good irl. For you notice I'm not akward and showing my personality doesn't mean I say weird stuff. It's just that I envelope 97% of the people I talk to and lead the conversation. Even people's names I don't know, when they ask me something I start talking to them like I know them. It's really weird I wish I got an opinion on it. I think I'm going to ask tommorow .... :/

 

[Donald J Trump]

I think there's a difference of just being friendly and being too comfortable, you shouldn't be saying things that pass boundaries to people you don't know.

what kind of things would be too comfortable for you?

 

[chopstickchakra]

Well, I suppose it's better than the autistic behavior when a person looks like he/she met a ghost whenever they talk to someone new irl. In any case, don't worry about it, it's fine unless you're having trouble because of it.

Make you feel like a big man taking pot shots at autistics?

 

[Chikombo]

Well, I suppose it's better than the autistic behavior when a person looks like he/she met a ghost whenever they talk to someone new irl. In any case, don't worry about it, it's fine unless you're having trouble because of it.

You had studies psychology right? So you should know about this then.

 

[Sagebee]

what kind of things would be too comfortable for you?

It comes down to how you talk to the person or what you say some things people might take rude or be uncomfortable with if you don't have certain filter with strangers than people can find it off putting

 

[Mari Makinami]

You had studies psychology right? So you should know about this then.

I'm a teacher of psychology, yes. And yes, I do. It doesn't mean that I'm supposed to always be serious regarding everything that concerns my profession, though kun:

Make you feel like a big man taking pot shots at autistics?

Did I hurt your feelings? Sorry then

 

[Sagebee]

I know what you mean man. I'm not trolling right now Tho. One person told me irl that it was fine. It may sound good on paper but maybe it's not good irl. For you notice I'm not akward and showing my personality doesn't mean I say weird stuff. It's just that I envelope 97% of the people I talk to and lead the conversation. Even people's names I don't know, when they ask me something I start talking to them like I know them. It's really weird I wish I got an opinion on it. I think I'm going to ask tommorow .... :/

Some people also might not like talking over a discussion as long to a degree your considerate and mindful in conversations you should be well received

 

[DominiqueX]

I prefer speaking with other people in a comfortable way too. In the german language there are basically two ways of approaching a person. You have the words "Sie" (which is referring to a person in a distant, impersonal way and is often used when talking to authorities or older people) and "Du" (which is basically "You" that is casually used for friends, family etc.).

And I really dislike when someone talks to me using "Sie". Doesn't matter if the person who uses it doesn't know me. I don't like this artificial distance between people. We are all just humans, one's job or position in society doesn't matter. That's why I prefer using the casual "Du" and always say that other people should use it when they are talking to me.

So it's a good thing.

 

[Lyke]

As long as you arent a fgt with social anxiety its alright

 

[NineSNS]

Just sounds like the behavior associated with self-confidence and extroversion.

Not everyone is comfortable enough to do that due to their preference for privacy.

 

[Natsu Shazneel]

Maybe your hotness makes them feel cooler while speaking with you. I am sure a female like you can cheer any man up.

 

[Legendary Saiyan]

Nothing wrong.

 

[Donald J Trump]

Maybe your hotness makes them feel cooler while speaking with you. I am sure a female like you can cheer any man up.

kun:

 

[scorezor]

is a good thing sometimes i'm like that as well.

 

[demon of the leaf]

Well, I suppose it's better than the autistic behavior when a person looks like he/she met a ghost whenever they talk to someone new irl. In any case, don't worry about it, it's fine unless you're having trouble because of it.

I prey you never have a child with autism because you clearly do not know anything reguarding the disorder

 

[Mari Makinami]

I prey you never have a child with autism because you clearly do not know anything reguarding the disorder

Right, I certainly don't know anything about it, being a psychologist :elmo: Get some sense of humor, you need it, deadly.