Is it bad to date younger girls?

[LeafSpirit 20]

I have a friend who is in love with a 15 yr old girl, but is depressed and beats himself up because he is 19 and he says that age does matter. Last year when I was 20 I shortly had a thing for a 16 yr old girl, and now that im 21 I kinda like a 17 year old girl. What do you think

 

[narutorikudoumode]

thats rape

 

[Cosmic Path]

well it depends though

 

[RekeHavoc]

Yes, maturity levels can be different and what you want from the relationship maybe different from what she wants.

 

[N A R U T O]

if shes under 18 shes too young for you bro

 

[LeafSpirit 20]

thats rape

I dont get how you can call something rape if you dont have *** with a person....

 

[Dratasy]

Never dated anyone younger than myself so no clue, I'm 20 and dated someone who's 30 though, lol.

 

[LolaxXx]

Dude. find a girl your own age, not someone who's naivety u can take advantage of. smh.

 

[Ultimate Beast]

thats rape

This

 

[LeafSpirit 20]

I dont get why its okay for guys in their 50s to be dating girls in their early 20s, but a guy that is a young adult, or teen adult as i like to call it ( 19-22) cant date a girl 4 years younger..

 

[Q of the Sharingan]

Well for one that is illegal if she isn't 18 yet. I have personally had a 3 year limit with younger girls but prefer it to be two; and now need them to be 18 or up. I think it is a bit weird for someone to be of college age dating their equivilant in high school, like college sophmore with high school sophmore. All in all it just goes to what you feel but for legality stick to a 2-3 year difference. I think in Texas (from there too) you can bypass the 18 year old thing is you have known each other for a certain amount of years or went to high school together, something like that

btw I am 20

 

[Trendy]

lol the pedobear strikes agian!

 

[Killahkels]

It kind is you should find someone over 18 years old. When youre under 18 ur still a kid no matter how mature you think you are and for that matter some girls over 18 are still kids smh.

 

[Typhon]

I dont get why its okay for guys in their 50s to be dating girls in their early 20s, but a guy that is a young adult, or teen adult as i like to call it ( 19-22) cant date a girl 4 years younger..

Well the idea is that at certain ages you're not informed/responsible enough to make certain decisions, one of which is ***. The laws are there to protect young people from being taken advantage of.

My suggestion, find a new girl.

 

[izinagi54]

umm depends if i date i women a like it be at least 3 years age differnce
like i'll be 17 this year so 14 to 20 but for many other people my age im more mature when it comes to love or ***....

 

[LeafSpirit 20]

But a person in their early 20s can have good pure intentions( not thinking about ***) and a guy the same age as the younger girl can have bad intentions with her unlike the older guy. Plus some guys maturity are not in the same level as their age (Hmmmmm..)

 

[Smirk]

I dont get how you can call something rape if you dont have *** with a person....

he's a hater, 17 their allowed to give consent so your good money lol
just make sure she acts older than what she is cause you dont want to get tied up in anything , if u know what i mean

 

[ReapTermin]

1. If you are under 18, you can date someone under 18 as well. But if you're 17, you can't date someone who's 13.

2. If you're older than 18, you can date someone who's older, too. But if you're older than 18, you can't date someone who's 13.

It really depends on how old you are. If I were you, I'd keep the age limit to or above 18. Some 17 olds are mature, but legally it's still considered Statutory Rape. In my state anyways.

 

[Lt Fresh]

If he is 19 then 15 is to young. I think the youngest he should and could go is 17 and thats a tough one. Or he could wait till she is 18

 

[Colonel Armstrong]

if you dating under 18 and your over 21....its not a good look
but he better be careful