I'm so confused. Someone please help, any advice is appreciated

[HiddenShadowNinja]

Yes, I'm turning to the internet for relationship advice. At this point, I am that desperate to figure out what to do.

So here's the situation. There's a girl that I'm really into, and we talk all the time. I get the feeling that she likes me as well, but she may or may not be moving soon.

Her dad wants to move and live somewhere near the beach, but they're having trouble selling their house. They've been saying that they'd be moving for almost 2 years now, but so far they haven't. Her dad is currently moved away for his job, but is now trying to find a job where we are. However, he only plans on keeping it until the house sells if he gets it.

I want to ask her out and spend as much time with her as I can, but I don't have no idea how long it will be before they move, if they do at all. Should I go ahead and ask her out, or would that not be fair to anyone considering that her moving is a strong possibility? Would it be better to get my feelings for her out in the open, or just "stay friends" so it wouldn't be like taking something away right after getting it if they do move soon?

I just don't know what to do. Any advice is appreciated, but please, no flamers or off-topic posts. I'm really not trying to deal with that right now.

 

[Ragnaroc]

Re: I'm so confused. Someone please help, any adivce is appreciated

dude go for it...you never know what might happen, but make sure you have the proper "protection"

 

[Typhon]

Re: I'm so confused. Someone please help, any adivce is appreciated

You're young yet, have fun while you can. If you like her and she likes you then go for it. Have fun while shes around then if she ends up leaving decide where to go from there. You could try the long distance relationship, or just end it as is. You or her might be upset for a little, but you'll get over it and eventually find someone else.

 

[steezygezzy]

Re: I'm so confused. Someone please help, any adivce is appreciated

ok dude ill give you some real advice man. it depends how old you are and how far the beach is man. depending on the right circumstances you should go for it. but if its to far away dont waste your time because that just means the right girl is still out there

 

[-The Agent-]

Re: I'm so confused. Someone please help, any adivce is appreciated

I say go for it. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. If you don't ask her and she moves you will always wonder "what if" ... What if I did ask her? what if we did get together? So just go for it you don't really have anything to lose.

 

[Fallen1]

Re: I'm so confused. Someone please help, any adivce is appreciated

go for it dude, you never know what may or may not happen

 

[Uchiha Riyo]

Re: I'm so confused. Someone please help, any adivce is appreciated

you don't to have a failed attempt so don't make crazy thoughts,ask her if she likes,if she does,then don't ask her out,if she doesn't then don't ask her out.If she's really your friend then you should know that she will be thinking of you all day when she moves,that will make her sad and she might find it difficult to move forward,she will never be able to talk to you as much so maybe you should just stay friends.Even if you are able to contact her much,she will still hardly ever see your face and if you guys start going out you will have a communication type relationship.But follow your heart.

 

[BlacKing]

Re: I'm so confused. Someone please help, any adivce is appreciated

Question

Will u regret not asking later on n life. If so. U have ur answer.

 

[Hot.Tendo]

Re: I'm so confused. Someone please help, any adivce is appreciated

Do what your heart(and brain) tells you... ^_^

 

[aishwary]

Re: I'm so confused. Someone please help, any adivce is appreciated

like they already said- tell her....
u feel better no matter what she says...

 

[Karmolo]

Re: I'm so confused. Someone please help, any adivce is appreciated

You're young yet, have fun while you can. If you like her and she likes you then go for it. Have fun while shes around then if she ends up leaving decide where to go from there. You could try the long distance relationship, or just end it as is. You or her might be upset for a little, but you'll get over it and eventually find someone else.

Danzo has solve your conclussion.

 

[Creeper]

Re: I'm so confused. Someone please help, any adivce is appreciated

Well you seem like a complete lame with no game at all just knock the bitch down, imbecile ._.

 

[Kushan]

Re: I'm so confused. Someone please help, any adivce is appreciated

I think the old saying "It's better to have loved and lost than not to have loved at all" fits perfectly in your situation. What you need to figure out if you can be happy and live with yourself if you don't tell her how you feel, what happens, happens you shall cross that bridge when you come to it my friend.....

 

[Flaw]

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well you seem like a complete lame with no game at all just knock the bitch down, imbecile ._.

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[Scary Yamato]

Re: I'm so confused. Someone please help, any adivce is appreciated

go for it. if she rejects you then just avod her till she moves :3

Make it simple. movie date, if things go well (arm around shoulder... stuff like that) then get dinner or drinks afterward

 

[Crutch Kaguya]

Re: I'm so confused. Someone please help, any adivce is appreciated

Grow some nuts while your at it. No offense, but seriously. -smh- Seriously.

 

[Caliburn]

Re: I'm so confused. Someone please help, any adivce is appreciated

I say go for it. If you really like her and you aren't going to try it, seriously you're going to regret it later. Also you can never know what happens in the future. What if eventually she doesn't move and someone else did try and succeeded? If she doesn't move and you tried and it worked out, good for you and in the case she does move and you succeeded at least you had a good time for a certain period. Better than nothing.

I say it again you're going to regret it if you don't try, well at least that's the case if you truly like her.

 

[Creeper]

Re: I'm so confused. Someone please help, any adivce is appreciated

Plus you could get her pregnant then she's stuck with you

 

[Hammy120290]

Re: I'm so confused. Someone please help, any adivce is appreciated

You like her ask her out have a good time say goodbye when she moves.

If it turns into "love" (Im using " because I dont know how old you are and love is something that is very different when you get older) then you wont mind having a LTR with her.

Also as SY said if she rejects you hey who gives a **** b*tch moving anyway.

 

[BlacKing]

Re: I'm so confused. Someone please help, any adivce is appreciated

To who is creeper. Son is hilarious. Lol. What's messed up is the truth behind his words. Lol