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kiriahatake

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I can't believe i'm doing this agains but here's the story:
so bout two months ago i got a boyfriend . Not one fight, or down side bout him. I really do love him But every time i'm with him something feels well wrong... I keep telling myself that i think he's Mr.Right but my heart tells me other wise. My heart keeps telling me this not who or what i want.... While my head says your fine this is who you'll end up with..

Should i go with my head or heart? If so on ethier why? Have you ever had this problem?
Thanks for your Advice. + rep to those who give me very good reasons and advice.
 
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If you have any second thoughts at all, dump his ass.
 

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I can't believe i'm doing this agains but here's the story:
so bout two months ago i got a boyfriend . Not one fight, or down side bout him. I really do love him But every time i'm with him something feels well wrong... I keep telling myself that i think he's Mr.Right but my heart tells me other wise. My heart keeps telling me this not who or what i want.... While my head says your fine this is who you'll end up with..

Should i go with my head or heart? If so on ethier why? Have you ever had this problem?
Thanks for your Advice. ***** to those who give me very good reasons and advice.

i dont get the last sentence
 

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I can't believe i'm doing this agains but here's the story:
so bout two months ago i got a boyfriend . Not one fight, or down side bout him. I really do love him But every time i'm with him something feels well wrong... I keep telling myself that i think he's Mr.Right but my heart tells me other wise. My heart keeps telling me this not who or what i want.... While my head says your fine this is who you'll end up with..

Should i go with my head or heart? If so on ethier why? Have you ever had this problem?
Thanks for your Advice. + rep to those who give me very good reasons and advice.

Honestly life is about taking chances and doesn't matter what happens a fight or break up the thought is at least you gave it a shot don't live life with regrets, always get the best of us but life is short so take the chance
 

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Well its only been two months maybe you don't know everything there is to know about him yet.
It takes alota time to know someone esp. if you want them to be the 1 you end up with.
If you are having second thoughts then maybe he's not the one 4u.
You can either stay with him and see how it goes or leave him and find someone else
 

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This is easy, always go with your heart when making relationship decisions. Your heart tells you the truth, but your head will try to justify the situation. I'm pretty much constantly in this situation, it's Ok to casually date, as long as everyone is having fun. Good luck.
 
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I can't believe i'm doing this agains but here's the story:
so bout two months ago i got a boyfriend . Not one fight, or down side bout him. I really do love him But every time i'm with him something feels well wrong... I keep telling myself that i think he's Mr.Right but my heart tells me other wise. My heart keeps telling me this not who or what i want.... While my head says your fine this is who you'll end up with..

Should i go with my head or heart? If so on ethier why? Have you ever had this problem?
Thanks for your Advice. + rep to those who give me very good reasons and advice.

I agree with Wang. Your heart is who you are. If it doesn't feel right, it isn't. I think you should see what happens, but don't like propose or anything major like that. I know it's only 2 months, but just saying xd


I've never had the problem, but I hope yours clears up.
 

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Well in times like these I always remember something that somebody said to me. "You can change your mind, But you cant change your heart." So if you heart says yes then its all good, but if your mind says yes then you should probably reconsider him. Hope this helps-
 

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If you have any second thoughts at all, dump his ass.
Wow... just wow :|

@OP: Anyways, well sometimes your head can be wiser than your heart, but it's all dependent on how you feel and the situation
I'll give you a scenario (in a nutshell), I met this girl and she liked everything I like all though some of her views were different from mine, it didn't bother me (much). So anyway, she was a freak and she told me she was frisky with guys that she hung with but she said she liked me. So my heart was telling me that she wouldn't be loyal and not be frisky with other guys while my brain (common sense) told me to drop her and leave before I got heart. Followed my heart and what happened? She found another

In layman's term do whatever you think will make you happy and comfortable. We cannot, tell you what to do (although we can advise you). But if you want my advice, follow what makes more sense to you
 
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You're only for two months together so that's not that long yet, but if you don't feel comfortable anymore, then I suggest you break up.
There is no need to stay together with someone when you feel that something is wrong or if you're uncomfortable. That will only end badly in the long run
 

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This is easy, always go with your heart when making relationship decisions. Your heart tells you the truth, but your head will try to justify the situation. I'm pretty much constantly in this situation, it's Ok to casually date, as long as everyone is having fun. Good luck.


This right here.


Though you can give it some more time to see if your feelings change, just remember it's not best for either of you if you fake your feelings. Though, it's up to you really. ^^
 
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