I need some Life Assistance

[Sterling Malory Archer]

Hello everyone...So yes here's the situation:

So, ever since the 14th of April (Long Story), my life has been going downhill. I have been regretting a lot of things ever since. I would end up realizing when it's too late, that I should have done something which obviously I didn't at the time.

So last night I was with this girl I currently have a thing with. We kissed. It was actually her and her Bf's 1 year anniversary last night >_>. So now, there's something eerie between us, small but I can still sense it there. So now I'm regretting actually DOING something...

So I regret my decision when I DON'T do something, and I still regret my decisions when I DO, do something...Wtf does LIFE want from me O_O?

any advice?​

 

[Sasunarufan13]

I suppose life wants to teach you lessons and expects that you learn from them ^^; But everyone makes mistakes; making mistakes is normal after all.
But it sucks to hear that though. Maybe you should try talking to that girl and find out what she thinks of this whole situation?
Sorry, this probably wasn't good advice

 

[ShishaMastah420]

Hmm i was just looking at this picture;

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Seems fitting, no?

As far as having troubles with your decision making, be sure to consider EVERY outcome before choosing a decision, i know looking at EVERY outcome might end up depressing you and making you not want to choose but life doesn't have a rewind button, so make it count the first time.

 

[Sterling Malory Archer]

I suppose life wants to teach you lessons and expects that you learn from them ^^; But everyone makes mistakes; making mistakes is normal after all.
But it sucks to hear that though. Maybe you should try talking to that girl and find out what she thinks of this whole situation?
Sorry, this probably wasn't good advice

I think I learnt enough life lessons for someone at my age lol...I understand that everyone makes mistakes...but it more like I'm on a Mistake streak ~_~* . She just as confused as I am...

Your advice is fine​

Hmm i was just looking at this picture;

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Seems fitting, no?

As far as having troubles with your decision making, be sure to consider EVERY outcome before choosing a decision, i know looking at EVERY outcome might end up depressing you and making you not want to choose but life doesn't have a rewind button, so make it count the first time.

It not really decision making like Go Left or Go Right...If I look back to an event, it's more of a choice, but when I'm in the situation it wouldn't seem like it's actually a choice...Get what I mean?

 

[ShishaMastah420]

I think I learnt enough life lessons for someone at my age lol...I understand that everyone makes mistakes...but it more like I'm on a Mistake streak ~_~* . She just as confused as I am...

Your advice is fine​

It not really decision making like Go Left or Go Right...If I look back to an event, it's more of a choice, but when I'm in the situation it wouldn't seem like it's actually a choice...Get what I mean?

Seems like your not aware of your actions?

Do you part-take in the recreational usage of alcohol or drugs?

 

[-Jiraiya-]

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jk
Just her... and run without turning back...!xd

 

[Sterling Malory Archer]

Seems like your not aware of your actions?

Do you part-take in the recreational usage of alcohol or drugs?

nah lol. I'm clean.

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jk
Just her... and run without turning back...!xd

xd mademe laugh hahahaaaa

 

[UchihaBrat]

Thread with care and do consider the things you usually get to hear such as proverbs and other sayings, because they can be quite useful.

 

[EliteKakashi]

Why do people always get involved with people who are in relationships already? There isn't a much dumber move to make than that, don't care how much you like that person.

 

[mcchikeneater]

Stop whining and get over it whats done is done.

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[omgwthisgoingon]

Move on and do the business with your willy

 

[Uchiha Riyo]

Don't over think it.

 

[Sterling Malory Archer]

Why do people always get involved with people who are in relationships already? There isn't a much dumber move to make than that, don't care how much you like that person.

When I was involving myself with her, I was unaware of her relationship status ~_~...

Stop whining and get over it whats done is done.

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okay

Move on and do the business with your willy

:ice:

Don't over think it.

Yeah i probably am...Dammit >_>

 

[Rorasa]

imo she's not worth it..if she did that to her bf then what makes you think she won't do the same to you?

 

[Sterling Malory Archer]

imo she's not worth it..if she did that to her bf then what makes you think she won't do the same to you?

Yeah, that's sitting on my conscious to

 

[Ebottif]

Don't listen to the people that say you're whining. We all have problems. And even if others have it worse, that doesn't mean you're unfeeling and don't need to reflect sometimes.

My advice is this- if she's really special, you'll know. You don't need anyone on this thread to tell you. If she is, fight for her while you have the chance. And if not, let her be happy with someone else.

 

[Sterling Malory Archer]

Don't listen to the people that say you're whining. We all have problems. And even if others have it worse, that doesn't mean you're unfeeling and don't need to reflect sometimes.

lol I knowxd :ice:

My advice is this- if she's really special, you'll know. You don't need anyone on this thread to tell you. If she is, fight for her while you have the chance. And if not, let her be happy with someone else.

Yeah, that's my P.O.A. (Plan Of Action)...Thanks

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I actually created a thread to get more of a neutral view...Since everyone I know, knows about us so it not exactly an un-bias opinion xd

 

[Breed]

Listen to me, don't listen to stupid statements like "Be happy" or "Everything will be alright". There's a time for everything, now it's time to live in sorrow. I have gone through this kind of experience too, soul ache. If you rush over things and try to be happy, you will do nothing but fake yourself. Time to live in sorrow and there's nothing wrong with it. Hang on. Everybody hurts.

 

[Sterling Malory Archer]

Listen to me, don't listen to stupid statements like "Be happy" or "Everything will be alright". There's a time for everything, now it's time to live in sorrow. I have gone through this kind of experience too, soul ache. If you rush over things and try to be happy, you will do nothing but fake yourself. Time to live in sorrow and there's nothing wrong with it. Hang on. Everybody hurts.

Yeah...It hard living in sorrow at this time, when my mother relies on me since my father passed away recently and my older brother a complete d*ck and it's hard cause my normal nature is being cheerful, so it's obvious when I'm sad so people ask questions and I'm not in the mood for that >_> Yeah...Life

 

[Breed]

Yeah...It hard living in sorrow at this time, when my mother relies on me since my father passed away recently and my older brother a complete d*ck and it's hard cause my normal nature is being cheerful, so it's obvious when I'm sad so people ask questions and I'm not in the mood for that >_> Yeah...Life

I was cheerful too, but it all changed since I was into "sorrow-period". Don't forget that it's better this way, to feel this pain. Don't let yourself fade away, live with yourself, live the moment. If it's sad then sad, if it's happy then it's happy. Carry on. No one has the answer but you. I said what I said though the real worthy answer is inside you.