I need some help.

[Arcaneos510X]

Well people im back i know that most of you find me hard to deal with or depressing so if you are like various other people do not post here, simple you can click away at anytime.
My problem is that i am trying to hide the scars on my wrists and to do so i have been wearing support bandages and people keep asking why i wear them and i usualy reply, they are for my points or they are just to support my arms but that story seems to be wearing thin so i need a new way to hide my wrists.
not even my own mother knows this so i would respect a seirous answer and people not to claim that i want smypathy frankly everytime someone says that to me the thought disgusts me that people actualy do that.
This is a seirous thread and i do need help with this problem.
And jut to make this extra depressing for you a way that i could avoid mirrors or looking at my hands would also help but those are two things that no matter what you will always come across. also a way to hide my eyes without wearing shades 24/7 like a giant douche would be great !
And i know posting this on the internet is pretty much a "come hate me " sign, but if anyone else has had these problems or could offer advise i would appreciate it a lot.

 

[Wang]

Don't worry, I'm on it: There's obviously a lot to address here, let's start w/ the wrists. So, you have visible scars, you need to cover them up for 2 reasons, you don't want others to ask questions, & you don't want to look at them. Here's what you need, a combination of wrist accessories that can cover the area & fit your personality so as to not attract attention. Am I understanding this correctly so far? Where exactly are the scars?

 

[Arcaneos510X]

Don't worry, I'm on it: There's obviously a lot to address here, let's start w/ the wrists. So, you have visible scars, you need to cover them up for 2 reasons, you don't want others to ask questions, & you don't want to look at them either. Here's what you need, a combination of wrist accessories that can cover the area & fit your personality so as to not attract attention. Am I understanding this correctly so far?

yes but what kind of wrist accessories cover a area that wide ?

 

[Germanicus]

Quite honestly, be less hard on yourself bro. That will help light years.
Have you thought of a large wristband? I don't know how big the scars you have are, but if you could find some big enough, you could pass it off as a style phase. (unless that's what you meant by 'support bandages' which I don't believe you do.) As for avoiding mirrors...I guess just don't look at them, use will power, but that seems not so plausible. As for your eyes, you could wear a low fitting cap close to your eyes. But shades are the only sure way.

Dunno what's up, but honestly, coming clean with all of that might be best. You seem to be standing on a petite amount of a slippery surface.

 

[Shinobi Train]

Quick question, why do you have the scars exactly? You might have said something about them earlier and I just can't remember.

As for covering them up I have to ask just how bad they are. Scars can be sexy at times, it makes you look serious. Of course, that's coming from an optimist. xd

 

[Wang]

yes but what kind of wrist accessories cover a area that wide ?

Relax, we'll get there. The point is, it has to fit in w/ your style so it doesn't draw more attention. I need to understand the area: What do you mean by wide? Are we talking low on the wrist or higher up? The scars go across, right?

If it were me, I'd wear long sleeve shirts that covered my wrists which I normally wear anyway, but for accessories I'd go with a watch & and a golf magnetic bracelet or a few friendship bracelets. But this might not fit well for you, which is what we need to determine.

Quick question, why do you have the scars exactly? You might have said something about them earlier and I just can't remember.

As for covering them up I have to ask just how bad they are. Scars can be sexy at times, it makes you look serious. Of course, that's coming from an optimist. xd

Attacked by a tiger.

 

[HiraishinFTG]

If you wanna cover it up in the short term, do what these guys said in the comments.

I don't know, maybe I'm overstepping it here with this advice, but the long term solution seems to me that you gotta find a way to stop your self destructive behavior. Only do it alone if you're sure you can. Look, I don't know you're situation, but whatever you can do to find value in life, do that. I have friends who have been in your exact situation and turned it around, they are great now. I'm not trying to judge you or push you to anything, only telling you my experience and what you can maybe do to make stuff better. Better is best right? xd

 

[Rorasa]

depends on your style maybe some gloves like these would help

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[Ldude]

I know someone who wears long sleeves for that. And other people who wear a shit load of bracelets. As for the eyes, though I'm sure why you'd need to cover them, you could try growing long bangs...

depends on your style maybe some gloves like these would help

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Those gloves are super cute... O_O Me want.

 

[Wang]

depends on your style maybe some gloves like these would help

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Those gloves would be helpful if he was a 12 year old girl.

I know someone who wears long sleeves for that. And other people who wear a shit load of bracelets. As for the eyes, though I'm sure why you'd need to cover them, you could try growing long bangs...



Those gloves are super cute... O_O Me want.

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