You're joking right? His mother died at birth and he was told by his uncle (who by the way was trying to assasinate and then suicide bomb him) that his mother died cursing him and despising him. His own father was the one who sent his uncle to assassinate him, amongst countless other assassins that were sent after him. And you gonna come here and spew that shit? Naruto had the Ichiraku's, Iruka, and Sandaime looking out for him, he wouldn't have survived a single day in Gaara's shoes, literally, he would have died in the first assassination attempt