I couldnt ask this grl out cause i was nervous...

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You were exchanging gifts? Okay, I'm out of this thread.
 

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I don't really get you people and your "You need to get to know her first before you ask her on a date". Like, people use first dates to get know someone all the time. The point of most first dates are to get a handle on whether or not you would like to keep this thing going.
 

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Save the rest of your life the trouble and DON'T RUSH THINGS. okay?? play it cool and go with the flow, DON'T BE PUSHY, the media and society makes it look that what makes a successful relationship/companionship is being pushy and sucking up to her, that's a lie from what I like to call, LADY-HELL, Lol, usually ignore her and follow the first steps

she will come along if she is really interested in you, what makes a relationship is NOT the guy doing all the work and she don't, that's not a relationship, that"s MATING SEASON, both boy and girl WORK together and WANT each other

and if she don't come along, then fudge it, there is a whole lot of ladies out there
 
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She wants the D. :cool:

Seriously though, based on what you're saying it seems like she might be into you... or something. Just try to "casually" ask her out and tell her you want to get to know her better.
 

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Alright real talk. Find a situation in which you can bring up a conversation. Leave all thoughts of doubt and weakness out of your head. Think your both people and you both need something to offer its not just on the guy. Talk to her crack some stupid jokes ease the tension get her to notice you. Make her realize ur interesting. Then from there get her number. And flatter the he'll outta here tell her cheesy thongs like she is beautiful and dont just say she is tell her why she is. She will need you not just want you.
 

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Because the key to the heart is the mind. Visual if she likes what she sees smell if you are putting off the right smell. Sound. If you use the right words. Touch is later but that's the final effort and the deal sealer you gotta know how to treat her like you want her. Like she is the only one. Because once u do that its done. Not talking in vain for its proven 100 percent success
 

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Go online, find one of those sites that deliver chocolate with, like, custom writing on them. On it, have them write "You're sweeter than chocolate. Wanna go out?" Use this 2 weeks to your advantage as delivery time. Then, give it to her and say "I forgot this part of your present". Then, on the back, have "This isn't the only bar going into your mouth, and it's not the only thing getting eaten" written on it. Drives b*tches crazy.
Rickerslade, smooth as F***

OK, now, you go up to her after school ( or whenever she's alone, private moments are the best ) buy flowers/chocolate and hide it behind your back.

Approach her and tell her: Look, I know this sounds crazy, but will you go out with me.... Then take out the flowers.

While on the date, don't be nervous if she's late, girls do make up and shizz. And don't be silent/hesitant with her, be open with her. And dont be cheap, get her flowers on the date and invite her to a good resturant or place.

And the golden tip: Always, like always expect denial. If she doesn't like you, get over her, find another.

And thats all I can really give you.

And dress neat, let your mom pick your outfit. She's s girl, so she knows what girls like. And put perfume on, get a haircut if needed ( you do all of the following steps in the case of acceptance )
 
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your going to have to get over your nervousness
walk up to random girls or groups of people you don't know and talk to them until you don't get nervous anymore, then ask the girl out,girls can tell if your nervous
 

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We can't help you. It's just humankind. While I could easily, for instance, ask her, you couldn't, because our characters are different. I dunno, have you tried catching her alone and asking her? Why do you need to wait 2 weeks? Don't you live in the same city or something? Does she have facebook / Skype / twitter whatever where you could chat?
 

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Carpe Diem, dear X) Like my AP English teacher has says, "If your going to do something, at the least do it well."

So perhaps practice is in order to help with your nervousness.

Be kind, communication is key, don't be afraid or sad if she says no, No is no, it won't kill you or keep you from seeing anyone else. You got dis >: P
 
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We can't help you. It's just humankind. While I could easily, for instance, ask her, you couldn't, because our characters are different. I dunno, have you tried catching her alone and asking her? Why do you need to wait 2 weeks? Don't you live in the same city or something? Does she have facebook / Skype / twitter whatever where you could chat?

Well i could try and get in contact with her through facebook.
 
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Carpe Diem, dear X) Like my AP English teacher has says, "If your going to do something, at the least do it well."

So perhaps practice is in order to help with your nervousness.

Be kind, communication is key, don't be afraid or sad if she says no, No is no, it won't kill you or keep you from seeing anyone else. You got dis >: P

Ok i'll try to ask her out.
 

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On some real shit just go and ask, just completely annihilate every f*ck to give in your body and do it, and if she says no be like "aight" and walk away.

Tbh judging by your story she either wants your **** or wants you to be friends with her.
 

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listen here is my story i was like you shy to talk to girls and didn't know how to act in front them but i know how to threat them nicely i don't shout on them and don't act highly and mighty in front of them
in the last 6 month every weekend i go out with group of friends boys and girls of course and there was a girl who was beautiful and sweet at the same time and she treated me nicely and helped me a lot of staff like teach me about the college studies of course i was shy around her because he always hugged me and my friends boys always teased me because of it although they have their girlfriends already anyway i have a really close friends we spend from grade 6 until now and he still my friend and like i said he had his girlfriend i went to get his advice he told me to get out of my shyness and confess my love to her and like your situation we had a holiday
i decided to confess on the first day of the holiday although my family had a party with my mother relative that day so i call her before the first day of the holiday i told her i have something to tell tomorrow can we meet she said yes than the next day we met and i confess and she said yes later that night we split up and i was relieved that she she yes and she became my girlfriend and i call my mother to confirm if the party didn't end and when i hear that it didn't end i went to my mother relative house and they told me where have you been because they noticed i was unusually very happy and smiling i told them that today i got a girlfriend they begin teasing and congrats me at the same time
listen like me friend said to me get out of your shyness and confess if you don't get out and take a decision you will never move forward and you will regret it much more than when you will get dumped by her believe me until now i thanks god i confess to my girlfriend
 
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