Well, look at this... Let's try to see if my favorite element comes along.
I have a closed personality but I'm an open person when I'm around friends/family. I can get very mad, but I can never really hold a grudge. It always slowly fades. I'm quite lazy, but I can work if I really have to.
Don't want to break the topic...
but I aways thought about the elemens as Zodiacs...
Since I'm LEO, and ascendent on AQUARIUS, my elements would be first FIRE and second WATER