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i am married and i obviously live with my Husband but we are also have his brother who wont go he stubborn and he is also lazy, he also acts useless and when you clean the house within a week roughly it is messy again and i am sick of him but since he is family it is hard to make him leave.
 

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Your house stays clean for a whole week O.O im lucky if mine can stay clean for a day lol
(i have 5 other siblings,lol)

Well tell your husband and ask him to talk to him about it
 

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Talk to your husband about it and/or help him get his own place. Don't be too hard though because it's hard these days.
true it is hard these days thanks for your idea

Your house stays clean for a whole week O.O im lucky if mine can stay clean for a day lol
(i have 5 other siblings,lol)

i have 3 siblings 2 of them live on there own and one still lives at home
 
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. Talk with your husband about his laziness, then both of you talk to him about his laziness.

I know times are hard but does not give him the right to take advantage of your hospitality. I couldn't tolerate it, especially if they have no job they can at least help with house work.
 

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. Talk with your husband about his laziness, then both of you talk to him about his laziness.

I know times are hard but does not give him the right to take advantage of your hospitality. I couldn't tolerate it, especially if they have no job they can at least help with house work.

thank you for your opinion we have done the first part already loads of times it just trying to find the wright way to talk to him because he will lash out if you go about it the wrong way i dont want to raise kids with him around i dont have any yet but he would be a bad influence on them
 
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