How to be happy ?

[Zook1]

Lately I've been feeling like pure sh-t. My parents are divorcing my friends are bulling me IDK what to do . .

Is there anyway to feel happy.

 

[Laraib]

Try to resolve the dispute between your parents.......If it's not possible spend more of your time here....We are a family you know!

 

[uchihamad]

I' have bullied a lot of time by my friends...Yea I spend a lot of time here. It works

 

[Zook1]

Try to resolve the dispute between your parents.......If it's not possible spend more of your time here....We are a family you know!

Thanks for atleast responding +rep

 

[Zook1]

I' bullied a lot of time by my friends...Yea I spend a lot of time here. It works

Thanks I can't wait until I leave my crazy family

 

[Fuzzy Panda]

I can't really give you the best advice but just remember that everything that's happening to you now will eventually go away. It's temporary. Sometimes thinking about how much harder some people have it in the world and being genuinely grateful for all the things you have now can make you happier. Oh and I strongly suggest you check out the book 'The Power of Now' by Eckhart Tolle. Trust me, it's awesome and I think it will definitely help you when you're upset/stressed (like it helped me in situations).

Remember to just smile a lot too. Haha just smiling sometimes helps increase your happiness since it's like a feedback loop (happiness causes smiling, so smiling reinforces happiness). It might be hard sometimes but just doing that will elevate your mood. Lol and get better friends, cause the way you described them seems like they aren't even your friends.

Anyway, hope you feel better dude! Watch some Naruto

 

[sharingan67]

Do you believe in God?

 

[Zook1]

Do you believe in God?

I guess I'm agnostic

 

[Zook1]

I can't really give you the best advice but just remember that everything that's happening to you now will eventually go away. It's temporary. Sometimes thinking about how much harder some people have it in the world and being genuinely grateful for all the things you have now can make you happier. Oh and I strongly suggest you check out the book 'The Power of Now' by Eckhart Tolle. Trust me, it's awesome and I think it will definitely help you when you're upset/stressed (like it helped me in situations).

Remember to just smile a lot too. Haha just smiling sometimes helps increase your happiness since it's like a feedback loop (happiness causes smiling, so smiling reinforces happiness). It might be hard sometimes but just doing that will elevate your mood. Lol and get better friends, cause the way you described them seems like they aren't even your friends.

Anyway, hope you feel better dude! Watch some Naruto

Thanks man I appreciate it *smiling*

 

[Scooby Doo]

As always, Wikipedia helps.

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[Lyke]

My "friends" are bullying me... "Friends"

Btw this will help:

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[Keyboard Uchiha]

Always think rationally, and find new ways to solve your problems.

 

[Zook1]

My "friends" are bullying me... "Friends"

Btw this will help:

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I'm sorry what ?

 

[Zook1]

Always think rationally, and find new ways to solve your problems.

More easy said than done I'm tired of feeling numb and being desensitized.

 

[Hexuze]

Your "friends" are bullying you? How? Verbally? Physically? Are they making fun of your parents getting divorced?

 

[Zook1]

Your "friends" are bullying you? How? Verbally? Physically? Are they making fun of your parents getting divorced?

Friends -Verbally (a lot )
they don't know about my parents divorcing

 

[Scooby Doo]

On a serious note, human relations play an important role in our life, despite it's a popular slogan nowadays to say things like "I don't need others to be happy" , or "I don't care what others think of me".

We are social beings, and our interactions very much affect our mood, stress level...etc. So somehow you should resolve things with friends, at least. Parents' divorce may be tough, happened to me as well. At the same time when my grandma died...so yeah I was depressed for quite a while.

Try to hold on to something...there must be a friend who doesn't bully you and will listen. Or a hobby that can distract your thoughts.

In the end, things will get better. Try to use this time to know yourself and others better. You can learn from this experience.

I hope I could help a little .-.

 

[Hexuze]

Friends -Verbally (a lot )
they don't know about my parents divorcing

What do they say, if you don't mind me asking? They could just be trolling you.

 

[Aoihime]

If they are bullying you then they're not your friends. Approach them about it, if you don't want to do that go to your head master or your teacher ect. About your parents I don't know about that, I've never been through that so I don't know. If you can't find yourself being happy enough you might fall into depression that would be bad rather take anti depressants to make you feel better if that happens and you mustn't be sad if they bully you you must bully them back tbh. People used to bully me about stuff like my glasses (which I stopped wearing because of that.) and also about my hair and the fact that I liked anime. This was in 4th 5th and 6th grade but now I'm in high school and I moved away so now I've got nice friends. And if anybody bully's me I would do it right back to them.

 

[Zook1]

On a serious note, human relations play an important role in our life, despite it's a popular slogan nowadays to say things like "I don't need others to be happy" , or "I don't care what others think of me".

We are social beings, and our interactions very much affect our mood, stress level...etc. So somehow you should resolve things with friends, at least. Parents' divorce may be tough, happened to me as well. At the same time when my grandma died...so yeah I was depressed for quite a while.

Try to hold on to something...there must be a friend who doesn't bully you and will listen. Or a hobby that can distract your thoughts.

In the end, things will get better. Try to use this time to know yourself and others better. You can learn from this experience.

I hope I could help a little .-.

Thank you really