How should I act...

[Hassj168]

So I study in a university in UK

So one day at night, my 11-year old sister calls (My sister is a very naive and overweight girl that has extreme feelings, meaning if she was angry she would bang doors and call my mum names. She is also bad in school with below average grades)

Anyhow, she was crying. She told me that our mother had had enough of her and she told her school about the problems she causes. Now she has to stay with the principle all day and they will constantly call my mum and tell her how she is doing.

She said she was shouted at by the priciple and she started crying in front of him.

The fact that she was crying broke my heart, as I knew her as a often happy girl.


Now I feel really mad towards my mum. What should I do? How should I act towards my mum? What can I tell my sister?

Thanks for taking your time to read

 

[Marin]

Well, did she do anything in school to deserve that?

 

[Gerkak]

I think you should have a family meeting, get both of them to express their feelings and let it all out. From there a solution can be found through dialogue.

Families, particularly immediate or nuclear families are like chains the moment a single link breaks everything falls apart.

 

[Sasuke tyeezy]

You said she calls your mom names, :| that shit is absolutely not acceptable, she should be lucky her mom didn't physically discipline her ass.

Why are you upset with your Mother and you said your sister has a history of being disobedient & bad grades.

Wtf type of shit is this? My mom always told me I could be as bad as I wanted to as long as I got above average grades, when my grades fell my conduct balanced out because I knew my mom didn't play that bs.

Sorry but it honestly irritates me that you take your sister's side, you can't be bad with horrible grades, if you're going to fail at least know how to act in school. That's how I was brought up at least.

 

[Hassj168]

Well, did she do anything in school to deserve that?

Well except sometimes no homework nothing

 

[Hassj168]

You said she calls your mom names, :| that shit is absolutely not acceptable, she should be lucky her mom didn't physically discipline her ass.

Why are you upset with your Mother and you said your sister has a history of being disobedient & bad grades.

Wtf type of shit is this? My mom always told me I could be as bad as I wanted to as long as I got above average grades, when my grades fell my conduct balanced out because I knew my mom didn't play that bs.

Sorry but it honestly irritates me that you take your sister's side, you can't be bad with horrible grades, if you're going to fail at least know how to act in school. That's how I was brought up at least.

You must not have any siblings

 

[Jack Spicer]

What do you studying university in UK have anything do with the rest of your post? So random lol

Anyway, your sister sounds terrible. Take your moms side.

 

[Marin]

You must not have any siblings

Well, if she is disrespectful towards her parents then she is in dire need of some discipline. (Not saying this is the right way to go about it)

Just so you know I have a brother and 2 sisters so I know what I'm talking about.

 

[DominiqueX]

I'm with Gerkak on this topic.
All of you should come together and speak about it in all honesty. Everyone should list what feels good in your family and what does not. And try to be as kind as possible, there is no reason for anyone to become mad in such a situation. I know this stuff myself, things can get really boiled up sometimes, but there is always hope.

 

[Reraru]

Take your mom's side of course. She just is doing what's better for your sis.

If my lil bro or sis ever did something like that I would scold them.

 

[Donald J Trump]

Is someone trying to show off? "So I study in a university in UK".

I live in the UK too biatch. Come, Ill scuff you.

 

[SIR HERDERP PRESIDERP SDO]

May I ask if your sister has some sort of developmental disorder?

 

[Sasuke tyeezy]

You must not have any siblings

Yes, A brother on my mom's side & my dad's side shares that brother along with 2 sisters.

 

[Awkward Linguist]

You must not have any siblings

No, he's right.​

 

[Ripple Hole]

fuq her, i have a fat dipshit no neck brother just like that.
Crimes should make you feel bad, don't try to make her feel at ease.