For example, if your friend didn't drink or smoke and you did, or if they were vegetarian and you ate meat?
This would of course create clash when you go out at a party or to celebrate something, as they would have to manage separately, so you're drinking with your other buddies and this friend doesn't drink, that separates them from the group, would you be okay with it?
Do you base who you befriend based on their habits, character, believes or values? And how tolerant are you of other things?
I'm asking because today there was like a sort-of get together at my work, everyone got together made something and had a meal, I and some other don't eat something that others do, It's been like this for a while now, and very common where I live, and between everything I got the hint that others weren't really ok or were a bit spiteful that I was having to manage things myself, of course I make to sure to take care of my self and do my own things to make I cause no one trouble and everything goes smoothly, no one has to do anything for me or no trouble is caused to others. But I still felt that others were spiteful simply because I wasn't doing something they were, now I know most people live their lives on autopilot simply reacting to situations without even thinking what goes through their own head, or before and consequences of the situation, but idk it made me think.
of course I have other friends who I go out with and we only order the things I can too eat(because we share everything, to try different things) and they don't have a problem with that, or I'll have to confirm that. Anyway it made me think,
How far would you go for friendship? How much would you tolerate? How much DO you tolerate?
This would of course create clash when you go out at a party or to celebrate something, as they would have to manage separately, so you're drinking with your other buddies and this friend doesn't drink, that separates them from the group, would you be okay with it?
Do you base who you befriend based on their habits, character, believes or values? And how tolerant are you of other things?
I'm asking because today there was like a sort-of get together at my work, everyone got together made something and had a meal, I and some other don't eat something that others do, It's been like this for a while now, and very common where I live, and between everything I got the hint that others weren't really ok or were a bit spiteful that I was having to manage things myself, of course I make to sure to take care of my self and do my own things to make I cause no one trouble and everything goes smoothly, no one has to do anything for me or no trouble is caused to others. But I still felt that others were spiteful simply because I wasn't doing something they were, now I know most people live their lives on autopilot simply reacting to situations without even thinking what goes through their own head, or before and consequences of the situation, but idk it made me think.
of course I have other friends who I go out with and we only order the things I can too eat(because we share everything, to try different things) and they don't have a problem with that, or I'll have to confirm that. Anyway it made me think,
How far would you go for friendship? How much would you tolerate? How much DO you tolerate?