How does a relationship feel in General?

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I have a question for people that already had one or kinda know how it feels

Maybe i talked about stuff like this once but i was curious how a relationship feels because i will never get in one i wanted to ask people with experience


Is it great or bad?

Because a Dude told me just like other guys that they had girlfriends and it is terrible and some other people say it is nice and beautiful

Though i have only seen negative about it a little thought dep insie me gives me curiosity about it

So how does it feel in General and are you really happy with it?
WHat have you done to get in one exactly?
 

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For me, its a good experience till now, Am i happy? Yes.. Ofc. All you gotta do is put your time and effort on making it work out. I agree that single life is also good enough, but experience love atleast once in life is a must.

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And dude don't be hard on yourself, your time will come, just wait for it. And seriously, Just Don't tryna be a fuckboy, everything else is good
 

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For me, its a good experience till now, Am i happy? Yes.. Ofc. All you gotta do is put your time and effort on making it work out. I agree that single life is also good enough, but experience love atleast once in life is a must.

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And dude don't be hard on yourself, your time will come, just wait for it. And seriously, Just Don't tryna be a fuckboy, everything else is good
So you think a happy human must have ahd a relationship at leat once i see

Well it is difficult for someone like me that has no social life at all and also to find the right person is hard

I actually always have no hopes for love coming to me of course i know it needs time but still i am not sure

I often heard my time comes but nothing reallx changed an di feel worser
 

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So you think a happy human must have ahd a relationship at leat once i see

Well it is difficult for someone like me that has no social life at all and also to find the right person is hard

I actually always have no hopes for love coming to me of course i know it needs time but still i am not sure

I often heard my time comes but nothing reallx changed an di feel worser
I said its a feeling that one should experience, cuz its worth it.
No social life is well, idk, how you guys do that honestly lol But sure you meet up some random people every now and then at school, college or your society or something, you talk and socialize, just that :/

Well, patience is the key my friend :D And do realize, don't get into any kind of relationship just for the sake of it. That would suck in the long run.
 

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I said its a feeling that one should experience, cuz its worth it.
No social life is well, idk, how you guys do that honestly lol But sure you meet up some random people every now and then at school, college or your society or something, you talk and socialize, just that :/

Well, patience is the key my friend :D And do realize, don't get into any kind of relationship just for the sake of it. That would suck in the long run.
Well i do not really like the ones in school and after school i move home
Infact i am a person that needs to check on a person for a long time to really decide most people where i am want it immediately but the break up fast

I dont want that but again i would fear other guys to get the one girl so i always give up and never rty also in the past i never talke much with females so it will be a bit difficult

ok i will believe that
no i never go into something like that for the sake of it. I would never do a relationshsip i dont really like

But lets just see wha happens

By the way do you have a relationship currently?
 

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It really depends...like everything in life there's ups and downs. Kind of hard to answer this with just one side.
I remember you...from that last thread about relationship

I think you are someone that knows exactly how it feels but you have trouble to express it in words
 

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I remember you...from that last thread about relationship

I think you are someone that knows exactly how it feels but you have trouble to express it in words
Actually no, I can express my emotions really really well. That's why I said what I said, but since you might actually read it. I'll say it in detail.

Like I said, it has it's ups and downs. You feel like you have someone you can count on, to confide in, to please, to impress or try harder for, to help you in anyway they can. And you also know that the feelings are mutual between you two. It's a lot like a best friendship but a lot more intense intimacy in all areas.

The downs though can come from what makes it great. A situation may arise where they make you question the things I listed that were ups. They may change due to life, which can throw off the mutual balance. Emotionally if one of you get hurt, by your partner or others. You have to kind of take on their situation as well.

It's the highest level of human relations between humans.
 
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Actually no, I can express my emotions really really well. That's why I said what I said, but since you might actually read it. I'll say it in detail.

Like I said, it has it's ups and downs. You feel like you have someone you can count on, to confide in, to please, to impress or try harder for, to help you in anyway they can. And you also know that the feelings are mutual between you two. It's a lot like a best friendship but a lot more intense intimacy in all areas.

The downs though can come from what makes it great. A situation may arise where they make you question the things I listed that were ups. They may change due to life, which can throw off the mutual balance. Emotionally if one of you get hurt, by your partner or others. You have to kind of take on their situation as well.

It's the highest level of human relations between humans.
Interesting that sounds like anew world

I often find it interesting to hear that

I am a person that is not capable of reaching to a relationship so it is good to hear a bit information from you

Tell me did you ever had one girlfriend or shouldni say love in your life?

You sound like you are a happy guy

Always when i see a guy on the street kissing his love i just do not really care but a part of me gives me the curious feeling
I can just feel that relationship people have something special...something i lack
I know for sure they seebthe world different than me

I was kinda interested and so i thought asking a lot of people and your answers are oenof themost interesting i heard so
 
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Interesting that sounds like anew world

I often find it interesting to hear that

I am a person that is not capable of reaching to a relationship so it is good to hear a bit information from you

Tell me did you ever had one girlfriend or shouldni say love in your life?

You sound like you are a happy guy

Always when i see a guy on the street kissing his love i just do not really care but a part of me gives me the curious feeling
I can just feel that relationship people have something special...something i lack
I know for sure they seebthe world different than me

I was kinda interested and so i thought asking a lot of people and your answers are oenof themost interesting i heard so
I remember you now!!! You're that "asexual dude" who "women couldn't like a guy like"...your words, not mine. We do often talk about relationships it seems lol I'm not gonna try and convince you though this time what you're missing.

But yeah I've had love. Legitimately I've had 4 official girlfriends in my short life, with a few casual hook ups here and there, but now I am single. Simply because of where I'm at in my life, I don't want to ruin a potentially great thing because I'm gone all the time. And I don't want just casual relationships anymore, I'd much rather just wait for the real thing. I can play hand ball till then.

But I guess it sort of is like a different world, never thought of that... Or way of existing...even depending on how it ends, it can feel like your reality is collapsing.

Its definitely dangerous territory that will make or break you. So if you don't think you're ready or couldn't, I wouldn't.
 

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I remember you now!!! You're that "asexual dude" who "women couldn't like a guy like"...your words, not mine. We do often talk about relationships it seems lol I'm not gonna try and convince you though this time what you're missing.

But yeah I've had love. Legitimately I've had 4 official girlfriends in my short life, with a few casual hook ups here and there, but now I am single. Simply because of where I'm at in my life, I don't want to ruin a potentially great thing because I'm gone all the time. And I don't want just casual relationships anymore, I'd much rather just wait for the real thing. I can play hand ball till then.

But I guess it sort of is like a different world, never thought of that... Or way of existing...even depending on how it ends, it can feel like your reality is collapsing.

Its definitely dangerous territory that will make or break you. So if you don't think you're ready or couldn't, I wouldn't.
Yeah that was me in fact i am a person that is close to asexuality
i wanna achieve it because i am done with the females and how they just get so ignorant now

I hate casual ones only one would be legit for me but i already lost that thought
I kinda have still a little part in me that thinks of being straight because of special girls but i know scum like myself cannt have this and i hate false hope so i wanna become asexual to become the most happiest person in the world

I know that the darkness of relationship will send me down and i have phsycholgical issues so i cannot handle a girl

I threw the hope away for the girl that waits for me and become stronger instead

All the girls will take other guys anyway

I just hate myself for still having a part of me wanna be straight i wanna be asexual for good but it still not happene d but patience is the key

I am broken now and totally seperated from our reality and society so i am not able to return

I am just half asexual which is bad because i am depressive then damm it
 
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