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If your a male i don't think this is the best solution. Did you do something that would make her mad?

No. I have not talked to this girl before she started coming at me. I dnt even know her last name.
 

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There is always two sides to every story I feel like your leaving out some details to make yourself look innocent.... That's my opinion. No one just does that with no justification unless they have something wrong with them mentally. If that is the case then this would have gotten her into trouble before and thus has been approached about it most likely. Also it's a freshman girl... They are very hormonal and unpredictable lol
 

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She likes you but does not know how to express her feelings.. Next time she curses at you say I LOVE YOU TOO and smile right at her.

My experience in high school was the same but i found out she liked me after school !

An 18 year old yelling that to a 15 year old? Oh dear, you'll have problems growing up.
 

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She likes you but does not know how to express her feelings.. Next time she curses at you say I LOVE YOU TOO and smile right at her.

My experience in high school was the same but i found out she liked me after school !

The messed up thing is, she has a bf and he follows her while she follows me... She just wants to start stuff with me nd I won't go to jail for this lil girl. But I'm losing my patience.
 

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The messed up thing is, she has a bf and he follows her while she follows me... She just wants to start stuff with me nd I won't go to jail for this lil girl. But I'm losing my patience.

Don't do anything unless you want to be the little girl in prison being someone's wife.
 

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The messed up thing is, she has a bf and he follows her while she follows me... She just wants to start stuff with me nd I won't go to jail for this lil girl. But I'm losing my patience.

WTH
Hahahaha... Kindergarten is about to rape you... :lmao:
 

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The messed up thing is, she has a bf and he follows her while she follows me... She just wants to start stuff with me nd I won't go to jail for this lil girl. But I'm losing my patience.
LOOL then im stumped ...i have no idea what she wants.. do the teacher thing!

An 18 year old yelling that to a 15 year old? Oh dear, you'll have problems growing up.

Its called entertaining her, shes only 3 year younger than him not like hes sleeping with her.. anyways better than than hitting her then getting kicked out of school.
 

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show her the big daddy.
 

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Ignore her, and tell a mentor.
Don't get violent, since that will only make you look like the bad one.

If she doesn't back off after you've calmly told her to go away and why, then give her three warnings. If she doesn't quit annoying you after those warnings, take action. Nag your mentors about it every day if you have to, so long as they sort the problem out.

You could always rant and insult her until she cries, but I wouldn't advise it. xd
 

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Chick follows me around, cursing at me...

So a girl goes to school, sees you, and decides to single you out to follow and hurl curses at.

I think we're missing part of the story, here.

She's a freshman at my school whereas I'm a senior.

*shakes head* You kids these days... Probably some silly game she came up with among her circle of friends.

She refuses to leave me alone, I'm sick of her by now...

Honestly, I'd try and have as much fun with it as possible.

I remember how stuff like that used to irritate me to no end... but after a while, you realize that they are just words and there's nothing you can do about stupid people.

And soon enough this will get violent, but before it comes to that...

Nah, don't do that.

Anyone know what might help? Note: I've already told the school about this.

The way I'd handle it? Stop, turn around, and give her the time of day.

Ask her who she is. What her favorite color is. What shows she likes.

She will either A) start acting something like a normal person is expected to act or B) be thrown for something of a loop. If she's just trying to annoy you, it may get her to lay off a bit.

She obviously wants your attention. See what happens when you give her a little (neutral attention - not hostile attention or overly supportive).

Or... if you know something you would rather not mention that could cause this girl to act in such a way (or otherwise single you out for such displays), then you should probably take whatever action you need to in order to help heal the damage that has been done.
 

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Lay booby traps in your wake
 

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lmao. funny situation. What does she want from you? Just give her your snickers.. or if she's ratchet, don't. She'll leave a tooth in it

Oh? Youre the first person ive seen on here use the word ratchet.. Lmao
 

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So a girl goes to school, sees you, and decides to single you out to follow and hurl curses at.

I think we're missing part of the story, here.



*shakes head* You kids these days... Probably some silly game she came up with among her circle of friends.



Honestly, I'd try and have as much fun with it as possible.

I remember how stuff like that used to irritate me to no end... but after a while, you realize that they are just words and there's nothing you can do about stupid people.



Nah, don't do that.



The way I'd handle it? Stop, turn around, and give her the time of day.

Ask her who she is. What her favorite color is. What shows she likes.

She will either A) start acting something like a normal person is expected to act or B) be thrown for something of a loop. If she's just trying to annoy you, it may get her to lay off a bit.

She obviously wants your attention. See what happens when you give her a little (neutral attention - not hostile attention or overly supportive).

Or... if you know something you would rather not mention that could cause this girl to act in such a way (or otherwise single you out for such displays), then you should probably take whatever action you need to in order to help heal the damage that has been done.

good advice!
 

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If I were you I would confront her in public and tell her to stop doing that, she won't be able to make a scene in public. Try to make it clear that you don't like her back (if she does like you in the first place, though I think she most probably does).

If you don;t do this she'll become like Sakura, pointlessly wasting her time being infatuated with you while her studies (in Sakura's case power level) go down the drain. But don't be too harsh or she'll start wasting her time hating on you. i know... girls are complicated but we seriously don't want to make her a Sakura so just be clear.
 
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