[Discussion] How do i regain interest in a girl?

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So im currently on a 4 month vacation and i met this girl. It was love at first sight i guess. We started hanging out like 4-6 hours a day and i found her really interesting.. It wasnt like i was mad about having sx with her, but i found her so atractive. I then went to another town to visiy family, and this is my 3. Day without seeing her.. The past 2 days there hasnt been a moment she werent in my mind.. I missed her as crazy! When i woke up this morning i didnt think that much about her, i was really in love with her, i even thought about marrying her n sht. A part of me is still in love with her and it hurts the other side of me for not being in love with her.. What do i do?? I want to be in love with her again! I hope i Explained myself clearly enough. Have you experienced something similar? Please help.
 

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You Can't Force Yourself To Love Someone.
 

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Step One: Don't ask for love advice on a Naruto or any forum for that matter.

Step Two: ???

Step Three: Success.
 

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If she gives you a stiffy then you have an interest.
 
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Don't get your hopes up , Love is meant to fail #Gg.
 

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So basically you're saying that you love her and on the other hand you don't love her also, well that's a bit of problem. I think you should listen to your heart that whether you want to live with her or do you want to completely forget about her and not only this select the one and hold on to it. That will make your life much easier i guess, Best of luck :win:
 

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If you love her tell her your feelings. Keeping things bundle up in yourself will only create regret.
If you you really love her get her now. Don't let it be to late or you would feel guilt inside for a long time.
 

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You met on holiday right? Are you still on holiday? You should ask her for contact details e.g. Phone number or Facebook etc.

This will keep the two of you in touch. You may not have been thinking about her because of the dream you had that night , dreams influence how a person thinks throughout the entire day. Don't hate yourself for nor thinking about her once. In fact it's probably good because if you become obsessive : only bad things follow.

I wish you good luck mate , all the best!
 

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Wow your story sounds like one of my fav movie story. Though in the movie they confess each other that they love each other when the guy departs towards the next vacation spot. They meet again and get married at the end of the movie. BTW the story is set in Spain.

I think at this moment you should be in touch with her and call and text her(If you live in the same country) or via FB or some other social Network.... =D =D

You cannot force love. But you can force food down your throat at Golden Corral! McDonalds is bad.

I want to + Rep you so much but damn I'm out of giving +Reps at the moment.... XD XD
 

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Well keep in touch with her know what she thinks about you, then propose her, because you are in love dude...xd=D
Wow your story sounds like one of my fav movie story. Though in the movie they confess each other that they love each other when the guy departs towards the next vacation spot. They meet again and get married at the end of the movie. BTW the story is set in Spain.

I think at this moment you should be in touch with her and call and text her(If you live in the same country) or via FB or some other social Network.... =D =D
I thought you were talking about DDLJ...O_O
 

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Well keep in touch with her know what she thinks about you, then propose her, because you are in love dude...xd=D

I thought you were talking about DDLJ...O_O

I was talking about ZNMD (Spain).... :p :p
 

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I was talking about ZNMD (Spain).... :p :p
That's why I Said 'I thought' but then I came across that Spain reference, ZNMD is the only film that comes to my mind, and who can forget, Senoritaaaa...XD
 

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That's why I Said 'I thought' but then I came across that Spain reference, ZNMD is the only film that comes to my mind, and who can forget, Senoritaaaa...XD

One of the best movies I've watched and the OP's story matches to it to quite an extent.... :hint:
 

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Oh boy.....

The OP in still in "that phase."

It takes two to tango. Just give it your all to impress her, but if she doesn't want to be with you then move on. Your wounds to the heart will eventually heal.
 

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Look kid,

Love is like fast food.

If you eat to much of it, you'll get sick of it.

You overdid it, now go ahead and get yourself a treadmill. After a break from those fries you'll be right back in love.
I've never encountered advice this potent.
 

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If she's still the last thing on ur mind when you goto sleep and the first thought as soon as u wake up then GO FOR HER....
 

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NB: a bad place to ask for love advice
 
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