you've got to stick out from the rest of the pack, basically be alpha as ****. most girls have unresolved daddy complexes, so they spend their lives striving to live up to daddy's expectations and to finally earn his approval. be indifferent as **** and unreceptive to their advances. set yourself apart from the rest by being funnier, smarter, cleverer, whatever indicates to them that you're top dog and can fend for and support his offspring. then once you've got them hook line and sinker, you drop them like a hot potato and leave them wondering what they did wrong. it's sort of like fishing. only downside is by the end of it you won't even care about the relationship, but everytime they'll have *** after it's the thought of you that'll bring them over the edge.