Woah, didn't need to hear a life story brah, 2 things. One, you say i'm judging yet clearly I have said numerous times that I am not judging I am simply stating the facts. To be gay is a choice just like to be straight is a choice. You yourself not being gay, you will never know what it feels like to have feelings for another man or for another woman, whichever you are. Quit giving excuses. Even if you have desires you can choose whether to act on them or to recede from them. Simple as that. YOUR DUTY AS A CHRISTIAN IS TO HELP OTHERS KNOW THE WORD OF GOD. That is your only duty. So your friend opened up to you. Good for him. By accepting it you have disobeyed God's word. You can still be friends with him, you can even listen to what he has to say; however, when you accept something that is not from the word of God you cannot call yourself a christian because you are picking and choosing what you want to believe. 2. haha oh yes I am obsessed with homosexuality. You caught me. The only reason I made this thread was because some others were talking about it in another thread before. I simply wanted to know the facts, that was the purpose of this thread. You are not a false prophet for preaching other things that are not true from the bible, but you are by claiming to be a christian when you simply do not believe what the bible tells you to believe. You mix different religions into this, maybe you are questioning your faith, maybe your the one that has the problem of being a homosexual. Either or, its no business of mine. You once again judged in your reply, once again proving just how simple minded you are. This is a thread of homosexuality, if you want to talk about another subject make another thread, please by all means do and tell us what you think. You cannot judge christianity by the sum of what some do and some don't. Yes some did stone and kill them. But if God commanded you to, would you question his command. You are simply ridiculing me and my opinions and beliefs. Clearly we are not on the same road here. Your are suppose to love everyone and forgive everyone. So tell me, do you forgive those that raped your friend. Do you forgive the murderers who killed countless people. Do you forgive those like Hitler from killing the Jews. It's hard, it is almost impossible to forgive someone like that who has done something so awful. Yet I like everyone else must strive to forgive even the worst because I am told to. You asked me a question and I will answer it with another. You asked whether or not christians judged gays based on love or hate. That is not an easy question. Because, some claim to be of christian faith who serve God, yet do not follow his commandments, his word. So do I think that there were Christians who judged the gays based on hate, yes, do I also think that there were Christians who judged the gays based on love, of course. So now I ask you, will you continually to be blinded by lies of what you call your reality, or will you listen and take heed to my warning, for the hour of judgement is upon us. It may not be today, tomorrow, in another 10,000 years. We do not know. We can only wait and prepare for our meeting on that faithful day. May God have mercy on you and your friends. It was wrong what happened to them. But they could choose differently, there are ways to not act upon such impulses.