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Blitz3d

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What do you do when you were once madly in love with a girl and then when you told them, they just wanted you to be friends. A few months have passed and I seemed perfectly fine and didn't mind it. It was on one bus ride home that she waved goodbye to me and then I suddenly remembered all of the moments we were together: walking, strolling, laughing, etc. Now, ever since that day, I have been unable to get her out of my head and its driving me insane cause I miss her so much, though we were never actually together. I speak about this with my friends and they think I'm still in love with her, one says I have a subconscious interest in her, but I'm pretty sure that I don't. I miss her in a way that we just haven't talked for a really long time and its getting to me.

Here's the problem - I want to talk to her but she's always surrounded by her friends and some older guys too. And plus, I'm timid and always get butterflies before I even open my mouth to say something...

Guys what should I do?

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Call her on the phone, meet up somwhere, and smex it out.
 

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Man up and drag you're ass over their! Don't be intimidated by her mates, just go over their and show that you have the confidence. The sooner she knows how you feel, the sooner she thinks about it....Leave it too late and well another guy could be Smelling the perfume on her clothes... <I know this sounds weird, but I couldn't Think ^.^>
 

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You should try to get closer to her and tell her you miss talking with her. If she was your friend she will understand and hopefully she feels the same way.
 

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Ask to talk to her alone, if she still doesn't like you more than a friend then you cant force her, there are other fish in the sea
 

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Either move on or man up and talk to her.

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lick her face and see what she does honestly.. I like to lick faces :O
anybody wanna lick mine??? huh *_*
 

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Well, I believe you still have massive feelings attached to her.
The reason why she rejected you in the first place could branch from 2 reasons:
1. She is scared of being in a serious (love) relationship with you.
2. She just wants to be friends and nothing else.

You said that you are not in love with her anymore right, but that's moot because you said you "always get butterflies before I even open my mouth to say something... ".

You are intimidated by her friends, but you shouldn't be.
Talk to her.
Tell her how you feel about the situation, and then you should know what to do from there.
 

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Its hard when the person you like or love doesnt do it back , but keep talking to her & try not be shy around her, its better to have her as a friend than not having her at all .

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I think in this situation you should tell her that you miss talking to her U_U Its the only way to go. Just go to her house, but dont do it in a stalkerish way. Like, jump in through her window or something :p Or text/call her
 

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Man up and drag you're ass over their! Don't be intimidated by her mates, just go over their and show that you have the confidence. The sooner she knows how you feel, the sooner she thinks about it....Leave it too late and well another guy could be Smelling the perfume on her clothes... <I know this sounds weird, but I couldn't Think ^.^>

I second this.

Grow a pair, or leave her alone.
 

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I could write a delicate process about how I overcame this same thing 2 years ago but instead i'll just shorten it. Find someone else to keep her off your mind, it may seem harsh and cold (and it is) but it will help you feel better in the long run. Who knows, you might even like this new person.
 

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I think the licking would catch her off guard and make her remember you for like forever like
even if she doesn't remember you, she will remember that moment when you licked her. *licks*
 

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Thanks for the posts guys, my mind is made up - I will talk to her today :)
 

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Do what The Great Gatsby did

Ask a friend to invite her
Show up unexpectedly
The friend leaves
You talk it out


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Off Topic: Now I want to change my name to "The Great Gatsby"

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If you just miss talking to her and hanging out with her, then tell her that. Whatever her response is, you'll feel better once you've gotten it off your chest. Keeping stuff like that inside yourself is the kind of stuff you'll regret doing. If it's because you still have feelings for her, then I'm sorry, there's nothing you can really do about it until you fall for someone else.
 
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