Have you ever hated someone?

[Sasukenumberonelover]

Have you been cheated on a girl or something?
OT: I've never hated someone and I hope I don't start hating anyone because, " Hate " just hurts you, which seems to be the same case with you.

 

[Kαmi]

Well yes one of them did. Although my friends left me, to loneliness. They don't care, so I have hatred for them.

I think you'll relate to what I just said then, this girl has left me to loneliness.

I don't hate. I have too much apathy for hate. I dislike things, but I think hating someone takes too much effort.

It's possible that you haven't been pushed to those extremes yet, I used to feel the same way.

I can usually tell when i'll get over something. There are 2 instances where I genuinely will not forgive them and will hate until they're dead. It's human to hate.

So you're saying me hating is me being human?

Oh yes...

The type of hate that wakes you up at night and causes you to go into a random rampage. Thinking about it every 10 minutes, yearning for the day you could hurt/murder that person.

Drawing a vivid picture of their face, just to sh*t/Piss on it. Pointing a knife at the back of their head when they're not looking.

Taking that hatred out on the people you love, who don't deserve it...

Unfortunately, it's several people, that are morons, who want something more from me other than acknowledgment... such a disgusting world we live in.

This is kinda how I'm feeling. Just so many scenarios of the person you dislike just suffering in some manner just so it'll cause you some sense of satisfaction. I've been taking it out on the wrong people but frankly I don't have many ways to take it out. I've acknowledged it now and stopped though.

to hate someone or something shows your human its an emotion that you must deal with its ok to hate just don't let that hate get out of control and cause you to do something foolish

Good point, I'll try and keep that in mind. I think I'll be fine though, I try to refrain from acting out of spite or anger.

basically yeah, My old man (father) was a alcoholic for the First 18 Years of my Life, put both me and my mother through hell, But he has changed his ways now and has been sober for years, But i still cannot forgive him completely. I no longer hate him to the point i wishi him dead but i can't ever love him like a son should be able to.

That's a damn good reason. Props to you for growing not to hate a man like that, one who made your own mom suffer. With his actions, you can't love him the way a son should because he didn't love you the way a father should have IMO.

 

[Professor Sarutobi]

I've never hated anyone that I felt couldn't redeem themselves but I have hated before, a guy who would attack me in school for no real reason and I mean physical attacks (until i bashed his face in...long story) but if someone realizes how fcked up they were being and change and try to make up for their past I think most people can be forgiven within reason.

 

[Kαmi]

Definitely. To the point where I stalked the person for 2 weeks, trying to figure out the right time to "Get Revenge." The only reason I didn't is because the suddenly acted nice towards me

I don't think I'll ever get to that point. Mainly cause of the manga Naruto actually, it's taught me how wrong revenge is and how pointless it can be.

Have you been cheated on a girl or something?
OT: I've never hated someone and I hope I don't start hating anyone because, " Hate " just hurts you, which seems to be the same case with you.

Nah I haven't. And I wouldn't say that it's hurting me, that word seems a little strong in this case. I'd say more to the point it's bothering and distracting me more. My advice is just don't give hate a reason to exist in your life and you'll be fine.

 

[Crow.]

"This is kinda how I'm feeling. Just so many scenarios of the person you dislike just suffering in some manner just so it'll cause you some sense of satisfaction. I've been taking it out on the wrong people but frankly I don't have many ways to take it out. I've acknowledged it now and stopped though."

When it gets to this point, you should definately talk with someone about it, as you have. But continue doing that, because violence is almost never the answer.

 

[Kαmi]

"This is kinda how I'm feeling. Just so many scenarios of the person you dislike just suffering in some manner just so it'll cause you some sense of satisfaction. I've been taking it out on the wrong people but frankly I don't have many ways to take it out. I've acknowledged it now and stopped though."

When it gets to this point, you should definately talk with someone about it, as you have. But continue doing that, because violence is almost never the answer.

That's what I plan on continuing to do so. I agree on that statement, frankly I'm not big on violence unless it's fictional. Fictional violence amuses me but real violence bugs me, I rarely resort to that.

 

[~WastelandSociety~]

Hating is a waste of energy. Just dislike the person once and move on.

 

[shelke]

I've hated someone so much that I've Hoped/wished to wake up in the morning to find out they're dead, Or Thought about killing them myself.
Pure vile hatred i felt for this person.

Dear god, how much do we have in common. Even the second post holds true for me, but from a different angle. I still wish a horrible death for this man, daily. Thought about killing him myself plenty of times.

 

[Dreckerplayer]

I think you'll relate to what I just said then, this girl has left me to loneliness.

It's possible that you haven't been pushed to those extremes yet, I used to feel the same way.


So you're saying me hating is me being human?

This is kinda how I'm feeling. Just so many scenarios of the person you dislike just suffering in some manner just so it'll cause you some sense of satisfaction. I've been taking it out on the wrong people but frankly I don't have many ways to take it out. I've acknowledged it now and stopped though.



Good point, I'll try and keep that in mind. I think I'll be fine though, I try to refrain from acting out of spite or anger.


That's a damn good reason. Props to you for growing not to hate a man like that, one who made your own mom suffer. With his actions, you can't love him the way a son should because he didn't love you the way a father should have IMO.

Actually, I don't hate anyone at all.(now)

I've changed and realized that there's no one in my environment worth hating, since most of them hate themselves...lmao

 

[YokoKurama]

No, I can't say that I have ever really hated someone. Strongly dislike, yes. I know there has been a time or two I have told someone that I hated them but I only said that out of anger, I really didn't feel that way deep down though. I apologized of course!

 

[Bad Touch Yakushi]

I think that it is very human to hate. It's unhealthy to live every moment of your days cursing the person of course, but to have such strong feelings of people- reminds you that you're alive

Then again, I am an incredibly passionate person, it's possible that it is just that.

 

[SandVillageShinobi]

I've hated quite a few people. I still hate most of them and have for a very long time. It takes a lot to make me hate you though so the ones that I have an ongoing hatred for have done terrible things to me or my family.

 

[Scooby Doo]

Yes...but those people are not important anymore so my hate is gone U_U

 

[RasenUchihaChaos]

My hatred is 1 of the reasons why im alive without it i be dead by now

Never forgive never forget

 

[ROSH2]

My hatred is strong for 3 guys I can't forgive them

 

[MinatoSensei]

Hated? Yes, of course. Where there is love, there is hate. Everyone should know that by now.
Furthermore, my hate towards some is just. If I know, they're wrong and have hurt me. I will hate
them for the rest of my life. Not hating, brings more pain.

-MinatoSensei

 

[Amantius]

Yes I believe i have, But then i let it go because hating them would just be letting them take control of my emotions.

 

[Disneyfanforever]

I am not saying this to brag but I usually forgive people quickly. However, there are some people who I am trying to forgive but it is really hard for me. Last year, there was this kid in my class who made my school year a living hell. He always humiliated me and called me a terrorist all the time. She apologized and wants me to be friends with her but the memories are making me boil with hatred.

 

[AkatsukiKoneko]

I never really could. Honestly even a couple that have done things horrible to me I still can't completely say I hate them, I don't feel like it's my job to worry over them enough to hate them. If anything it's more like feeling sorry for them that they can't enjoy their lives without making someone else miserable.