[Discussion] Girlfriends and friendships

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Pervy Wrath

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lol, ofc. In this particular case, your firend should help his gf find some friends. Worst case scenrio, have him make friends with you guys lol, and your gfs if you have any.

Trust me, I tried finding her friends :) Didn't work. Oh well, things'll work themselves out. I'm not gonna spend more time thinking about this. It's his problem, not mine ^^
 

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Trust me, I tried finding her friends :) Didn't work. Oh well, things'll work themselves out. I'm not gonna spend more time thinking about this. It's his problem, not mine ^^

lol, true 'nough. Nice for you to try though. But seriosuly, your friend himself should help her out... not healthy for her to be without friends .-. Seems she's a shy type, haha. They should join a club or something, idk :p gl ^_^
 

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lol, true 'nough. Nice for you to try though. But seriosuly, your friend himself should help her out... not healthy for her to be without friends .-. Seems she's a shy type, haha. They should join a club or something, idk :p gl ^_^

Haha :p Yeah, she's a bit shy. But it's not like she lives here though, they're only here during weekends, then they go to school close to her home, so I don't think she needs to worry about friends here. Would be nice if she found some mutual friends here though. Most of the girls I know in this town are pretty damn shallow, so don't think it'll happen x) But thanks, and good luck on your whatever! :D
 

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Haha :p Yeah, she's a bit shy. But it's not like she lives here though, they're only here during weekends, then they go to school close to her home, so I don't think she needs to worry about friends here. Would be nice if she found some mutual friends here though. Most of the girls I know in this town are pretty damn shallow, so don't think it'll happen x) But thanks, and good luck on your whatever! :D

lol thanks :D But yeah, hopefully she'll get familiar with the community somehow or another ^_^ Maybe she could... idk man. If she has no friends in the area, and all the girls are shallow, then in that case your friend just needs to learn to balance! And hey, who says she can't hang out with you guys too? Sure, some events are only for those with terosterone, but that doesn't mean that you guys yourselves can't be friends with her, I guess .-. lol
And hopefully my whatever will go well :D
 

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I dont got alot of friends my self bro but just let them do there thing and at some point they will invite you to chile with them
 

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im nobody's girlfriend!!!....lolololol
find something to do for all three of you i guess..
imma good gurlxdxdxd
 
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So true...and that happened to you that you're a guy (or so I assume), think what would happen if you were female.
I have a good friend, we have been friends since we were 12y.o., his girlfriend(of 1-2years) doesn't want him to hang out with me at all as she gets jealous, so every once in a blue moon that we go out he is basically hiding it or doesn't mention I'll be there to her, and is constantly replying to her texts on his phone ._.
I've also asked the other guys that used to hang out with him, all say they haven't seen him much.
I don't think every girlfriend is that clingy though...just some. ;/
 

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Personally, I dont expect my friends to hang out with me as much as we used to when they were single. Did it bother me deep inside? A little bit but there are things only their gf/bf can give that I cant so Im cool with seeing them once in a while. After all, I too have a life that doesn't necessarily include them. :)
 

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So true...and that happened to you that you're a guy (or so I assume), think what would happen if you were female.
I have a good friend, we have been friends since we were 12y.o., his girlfriend(of 1-2years) doesn't want him to hang out with me at all as she gets jealous, so every once in a blue moon that we go out he is basically hiding it or doesn't mention I'll be there to her, and is constantly replying to her texts on his phone ._.
I've also asked the other guys that used to hang out with him, all say they haven't seen him much.
I don't think every girlfriend is that clingy though...just some. ;/

Damn, that's a bit extreme. That sucks man :/
 

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Talk to him.
The best advise I can give to you my friend.

.As Simple as that.
 

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Talk to him.
The best advise I can give to you my friend.

.As Simple as that.

I was at his place for a little while yesterday, his brother gave him an ear full for ditching him, and he said some pretty harsh things x) I think he got it
 

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I was at his place for a little while yesterday, his brother gave him an ear full for ditching him, and he said some pretty harsh things x) I think he got it

Then its time you find another friend to hang with ..Dont you think so??
 

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Then its time you find another friend to hang with ..Dont you think so??

I would, but literally all my friends have moved away for the time being, so at the moment there's no one else :p
 

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Well, I don't blame him, but i can feel your frustrations. Someday when you get a girl for the "first time" if you don't have one already, you will feel what he is feeling right now.
 

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Well, I don't blame him, but i can feel your frustrations. Someday when you get a girl for the "first time" if you don't have one already, you will feel what he is feeling right now.

People need to read the thread. I clearly stated that I've been through the same thing, but I managed to see my friends :p I feel like people think I'm 13 years old or something
 
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