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legarcon

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A couple of months back i made a thread about me never having kissed a girl before, today i finally gather the guts to kiss a girl on the lips but i thought the kissed would feel more exciting kinda fireworks or something instead i felt a little dissapointed.

The moment prior to the kiss, we were huging and flirting and every once in a while we cracked a smile then i started playing and carassing her hair then i took her face between my hands and we touched with our noses and then i went for it and kissed her, right after the kiss ended i was like "is that it?", of course i didnt tell her but i thought the kiss would feel more intense or would give me gusebumps or so, even the foreplay before the kiss felt more intense, 5 minutes later i tried again the same and it didnt feel that exciting again.

Is that normal? do you think i didnt feel much because i dont know how to kiss very well?
share your opinion or personal experiences if you feel like it, it would be helpful thanks
 

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First kisses are usually like that tbh, you'll learn to make it more intensive, tasteful and exciting once you've gathered more experience and ability. Well that's just my 2 cents.
 
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You was too focus on the kiss. Also, If you wanted to feel sparks and shitz, have a couple of more years with the girl. Then, it turns into a love kiss. You would be talking about marriage then.
 

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No big deal man according to the women j have talked to the first kiss is more a deal for them but my first kiss was great to me at least it was her first kiss as well we got married 3 years later lol
 

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First kisses are usually like that tbh, you'll learn to make it more intensive, tasteful and exciting once you've gathered more experience and ability. Well that's just my 2 cents.
Kiss meh pein-san, jk's x)

OT: i think it's by person honestly, what i mean is the girl might have the fireworks feel, while you didn't. Different for everyone really.
 

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First kisses can be like that. If you really feel something with the person you are kissing it feels different, and it's just an extra perk if he/she is a good kisser and you naturally are good at it, but that saying is bogus. How can you possibly kiss terribly? lmao

My first kiss was meh. Was recess in 1st or 2nd grade, can't remember and this girl who I sort of liked, and I know she liked me too, we kissed in one of these cement tunnels on the playground, the smallest one so no one saw us, it was weird, I believe I leaned in first and we kind of just sat there, I mean, we're kids, we kind of looked each other in the eye for a good minute then the bell rang and we walked back to class together.

That was my first kiss, but as you can tell I was just a kid so no real feelings prospered, and to this day most of my kisses didn't mean much because the relationships only lasted no longer than 3 months. Reason being is because I'm a serious relationship type of guy. I don't go after a girl to bang her and move on I go after a girl to love her for a while, unfortunately the women I were with were either to young/immature to understand that or were just hoes.

It's perfectly normal OP. You'll probably, most likely know what a good kiss is when it's with the right girl and at the right time of the "relationship", or just at the right time.
 

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||Cough Cough|| I Never even had my first kiss so i can't help you there. :xylon:
 
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