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She's good for killing time, having fun and sexual intercourse in any way possible. I don't see her as a mother of my kids. It's complicated, I need a nerdy girl, not a party pooper to make a bonds with :)

To think I'd see the day us nerdy females are wanted! lol

Well, I'd suggest to try not to dwell too much on her then, unless she already knows it's fun and not serious.

I dated a few times but they were losers in every meaning of the word. Right now I have many guy friends but that's all I want for the time being. You could say I encountered my own Sasuke and I'm not quite recovered still.
 

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To think I'd see the day us nerdy females are wanted! lol

Well, I'd suggest to try not to dwell too much on her then, unless she already knows it's fun and not serious.

I dated a few times but they were losers in every meaning of the word. Right now I have many guy friends but that's all I want for the time being. You could say I encountered my own Sasuke and I'm not quite recovered still.

I know right! I embrace my nerdiness. I don't know how to be any other way.
 

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To think I'd see the day us nerdy females are wanted! lol

Well, I'd suggest to try not to dwell too much on her then, unless she already knows it's fun and not serious.

I dated a few times but they were losers in every meaning of the word. Right now I have many guy friends but that's all I want for the time being. You could say I encountered my own Sasuke and I'm not quite recovered still.

my own Sasuke! that's funny :D I lost my own Yoko 4 years ago.. but I did recover... took me 3 years

what I mean by Nerdy girls is everything that doesn't party every weekend :D and I've met quite alot cute nerdy girls, one even got me into FFXIV ...you never know
 

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my own Sasuke! that's funny :D I lost my own Yoko 4 years ago.. but I did recover... took me 3 years

what I mean by Nerdy girls is everything that doesn't party every weekend :D and I've met quite alot cute nerdy girls, one even got me into FFXIV ...you never know

That's me my whole life! lol Huge gamer, brainy, etc...

And sorry to hear that. It's been 7 years for me, but only because I finally gave up on him last year when I realized he would not stop doing bad things. He turned on all of us who loved him and we were tired of being hurt because of it. I was the last to let go.
 

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That's me my whole life! lol Huge gamer, brainy, etc...

And sorry to hear that. It's been 7 years for me, but only because I finally gave up on him last year when I realized he would not stop doing bad things. He turned on all of us who loved him and we were tired of being hurt because of it. I was the last to let go.

I think we've all been through something similar. It's so easy to hang on to someone that's obviously not good for you. Unfortunately, I will never be rid of my ex.
 

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I think we've all been through something similar. It's so easy to hang on to someone that's obviously not good for you. Unfortunately, I will never be rid of my ex.

That sucks... it took me a few years with my ex before he finally gave up, but even now since we know each others friends, he still keeps an eye on me.
 

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That's me my whole life! lol Huge gamer, brainy, etc...

And sorry to hear that. It's been 7 years for me, but only because I finally gave up on him last year when I realized he would not stop doing bad things. He turned on all of us who loved him and we were tired of being hurt because of it. I was the last to let go.

That's soo sad to hear... it's different. But I fleed the country instead ''15,890 km'' to get over it :3 Totally worth it. well actually it wasn't a reason ''career'' was but still it helped. you know that my neighbour with his wife met online ''game called DDO'' that's so weird and lol sweet :D
 

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That sucks... it took me a few years with my ex before he finally gave up, but even now since we know each others friends, he still keeps an eye on me.

It's good that you two can get along. Me and my ex are friends one minute and enemies the next. It's been that way since high school.
 

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It's good that you two can get along. Me and my ex are friends one minute and enemies the next. It's been that way since high school.

it's not a good idea to keep in touch with ex'es that your not quite over yet.. why taese ??
 

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it's not a good idea to keep in touch with ex'es that your not quite over yet.. why taese ??

Oh it's a little more complicated than that. We have a daughter together and he's very involved in her life which I'm happy about.
 

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That's soo sad to hear... it's different. But I fleed the country instead ''15,890 km'' to get over it :3 Totally worth it. well actually it wasn't a reason ''career'' was but still it helped. you know that my neighbour with his wife met online ''game called DDO'' that's so weird and lol sweet :D

I'm a strong woman, I'll get over it. lol I get to face his perfectness at an event next month, so that'll be interesting. Sometimes it's just good to escape and if I could, I'd gladly do so.

That's pretty cute! Sometimes your soulmate is the one you least expect, or not even in the same country as you.

It's good that you two can get along. Me and my ex are friends one minute and enemies the next. It's been that way since high school.

Oh we don't talk, he spies on me when I'm with our mutual friends. lol
 

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I'm a strong woman, I'll get over it. lol I get to face his perfectness at an event next month, so that'll be interesting. Sometimes it's just good to escape and if I could, I'd gladly do so.

That's pretty cute! Sometimes your soulmate is the one you least expect, or not even in the same country as you.



Oh we don't talk, he spies on me when I'm with our mutual friends. lol

Oh then that's a little creepy lol
 

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I'm a strong woman, I'll get over it. lol I get to face his perfectness at an event next month, so that'll be interesting. Sometimes it's just good to escape and if I could, I'd gladly do so.

That's pretty cute! Sometimes your soulmate is the one you least expect, or not even in the same country as you.

I know :eek: I found one but she's from different office and country but works in same company. sux

im little confused though.. what was the reason you split...


Oh it's a little more complicated than that. We have a daughter together and he's very involved in her life which I'm happy about.


you should and you should move on :D
 

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I know :eek: I found one but she's from different office and country but works in same company. sux

im little confused though.. what was the reason you split...





you should and you should move on :D

I don't disagree with you at all.
 

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I know :eek: I found one but she's from different office and country but works in same company. sux

im little confused though.. what was the reason you split...

We were not together, that's why he's my Sasuke. I let myself feel for him, but unlike Sasuke he returned my affection long enough for me to be willing to help him and do stuff for him, then when he found even more "willing" female company he got rid of me. I cared about his happiness and health and tried to stop him for going down a bad path, he chose a girl that would do his every bidding.
 

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We were not together, that's why he's my Sasuke. I let myself feel for him, but unlike Sasuke he returned my affection long enough for me to be willing to help him and do stuff for him, then when he found even more "willing" female company he got rid of me. I cared about his happiness and health and tried to stop him for going down a bad path, he chose a girl that would do his every bidding.

then you must FIND NARUTO! GOD DAMN YOU WOMAN :D


biddings?
 

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then you must FIND NARUTO! GOD DAMN YOU WOMAN :D


biddings?

lol I don't know any Naruto's... lots of Neji's, Itachi's and a few Lee's though.

She would go to all his band's shows, babysit his nephews, pay for all the stuff they went to and she was treated poorly but did it for the perks and probably ***. I would never sink that low so I told him to go to hell. Companionship is not one-sided.
 

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I only just turned 18 and I am starting University (studying law) in a few days. I think my life is only starting.
 

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lol I don't know any Naruto's... lots of Neji's, Itachi's and a few Lee's though.

She would go to all his band's shows, babysit his nephews, pay for all the stuff they went to and she was treated poorly but did it for the perks and probably ***. I would never sink that low so I told him to go to hell. Companionship is not one-sided.

this girl must be annoying .. jeez

well, Neji isn't that bad, he'd put his life on the line for love... have you friendzoned anyone ? :D
 

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this girl must be annoying .. jeez

well, Neji isn't that bad, he'd put his life on the line for love... have you friendzoned anyone ? :D

I think most people have friendzoned someone. Even if it was unintentional.
 
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