Fear of Growing Up

Ishan Hokage

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As you guys already know, the most fun that a person has in his life is when they are teenagers because that's when people get to experience new things. I'm just about to turn 17 in a few months and sadly I'm an engineering student who will lose his chances of getting a good job if I get involved in stuff that normal 16 year olds actually do.
I've had two gfs (I'm a virgin however) and I have tried drinking alcohol too but that's just basic stuff. Right now, my age group is the spotlight of all the ages. Most of the entertainment world is based around my age (take anime for example -bleach, naruto, etc etc) Even the gaming industry is centres around this age group.

Soon this will all change and I will be an adult with a hell lot of responsibilities and less time for fun.
I don't see much hope in my college life either because as I said being an engineering student takes away all the fun that teens have.

Neither do I have time to have fun with my friends, nor can I talk to girls who are interested in me.. I can't even play video games nowadays.

I'm not sad but I'll sure regret not having fun in my teens like I had planned to but on the brighter side I will get a good job and I'll pretty enjoy the rest of my life (hope so)
What about you guys?
 

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Choose the path that feels right for you. :)
 

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I too am an engineering student and I can see what you mean. But you can still do fun stuff. I go out for the day nearly every saturday. Just do your assignments and whatever during the week and do what you wish during the weekend assuming tht you have done everything needed
 

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Everyone goes through this at some point,it's natural.........btw I plan on banging a lot of chicks(threesomes,foursomes),doing a lot of partying and ultimately getting a good job and settling down
 

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i see im 14 turning 15 in april and i dont want to grow up either-.- the only benefit from growing up is that here will be way more sexier girls to mess with and more privacy ;)
 

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I've been out on my own for about two years now. Shit sucks. But it's worth it man.
 

Ishan Hokage

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Everyone goes through this at some point,it's natural.........btw I plan on banging a lot of chicks(threesomes,foursomes),doing a lot of partying and ultimately getting a good job and settling down

Those things don't really come together unless you're the son of some really rich guy.
Let's see what happens, maybe I'll get time for both or maybe not
 

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i see im 14 turning 15 in april and i dont want to grow up either-.- the only benefit from growing up is that here will be way more sexier girls to mess with and more privacy ;)
no, not that
when you grow up, you can get more strength to help/protect someone you .....
 

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Depends what way you see it...

When you're older, you can drink, go parties, and do all sorts of wild things

When you're young, you have nothing to worry about, your mother does everything for you, and you get titty milk
 

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Yeah, thats the way it is, it sucks i know. Just enjoy as much as you can out 17. It gets tough aftherwards v.v
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Anyways, I shouldn't of even posted nor thanked to this thread. This guy is a complete hypocrital asshet.
 
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My life has always sucked, I never really had fun...
 

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Those things don't really come together unless you're the son of some really rich guy.
Let's see what happens, maybe I'll get time for both or maybe not

Not true bro.......at least not where Im from
 

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The fun thing about growing up is, you can do whatever the f*ck you wanna do, make any decision you wanna make, and not give a f*ck what others say.


Most of my childhood I was controlled, and pretty much isolated(by choice).

You can go to clubs, drink all you want, smoke all you want, and have *** with whom ever you want!

Although, the only bad thing is the responsibility part...which is inevitable, unless you wanna live in moms basement all your life...
 

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I envy you, I'm 29 going on 30, slight silver strands in my hair but I never had a true teenage life. I was older than my time and always given adult responsibilities. I thought like a teacher and became the youngest TA in my school. When I was 17 both my grandparents died and we were dealing with funeral arrangements, moving to a new home, etc...

There is a good side to aging though! Now that I'm almost 30, with my emotions settled, I think a lot clearer.

You see, life will actually get better for you. Lack of changing hormones will make thinking easier and you will see things in a different light.

Despite being 29, it really is just a number though. I still love anime, watch cartoons, plays games. None of that changes as you age unless you let it affect you. Life may be busy now, but once you settle in, socializing and fun can be squeezed into your schedule. Don't let it overwhelm you.
 

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The hardest part about life is you're living.

just try to enjoy it as much as possible
 

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Had a lot of fun when I was in my teens, but now I have too many responsibilities... and don't care for anything, since most things bore the shit out of me.
 
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