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This morning my mother wanted to go to a Buddhist temple for a celebration. It's some type of blessing ceremony. Anyway my younger sister, who is 18 years old, promised yesterday that she would go. But this morning my mothe got mad and about her breaking the promise. Then she told me I can stay home too. Anyway, my mom didn't yell at me. But she said "You're done with school in August right?" I said yeah. She said "I'll give you money. Go stay with a friend for a few months. Not now, but sooner or later" And my father is a rock. He doesn't do anything. Anyway, am I being kicked out?

If I am, I can't guarantee assistance from friends. I have to plan ahead. My birthday is coming up. Should I ask for a tent for my birthday? In case my friends don't help me, I can have the tent as shelter.

I feel like if this does happen, it's an opportunity for me to see the world and learn.
 

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That's harsh. I wish I had some good advice for you, personally I'm not really a family man I spent time with friends when I was in school and slept in their houses instead of going home and I couldn't wait to get my own place, not that I don't like my family or that they are bad people absolutely not, I just like to do things on my own.
But hopefully it's not permanent. Maybe you can come back after a while.
 

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This morning my mother wanted to go to a Buddhist temple for a celebration. It's some type of blessing ceremony. Anyway my younger sister, who is 18 years old, promised yesterday that she would go. But this morning my mothe got mad and about her breaking the promise. Then she told me I can stay home too. Anyway, my mom didn't yell at me. But she said "You're done with school in August right?" I said yeah. She said "I'll give you money. Go stay with a friend for a few months. Not now, but sooner or later" And my father is a rock. He doesn't do anything. Anyway, am I being kicked out?

If I am, I can't guarantee assistance from friends. I have to plan ahead. My birthday is coming up. Should I ask for a tent for my birthday? In case my friends don't help me, I can have the tent as shelter.

I feel like if this does happen, it's an opportunity for me to see the world and learn.

In all honesty this sucks and I really hope that your mother is just frustrated over something small. Try and talk to her about it and be straight forward on whether or not she wants you ouy of the house. But@bold I couldn't help but laugh, kinda request is that man, lmao...
 

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Join the military.
 

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still with your family problems? just solve it. NEVER GIVE UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

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In all honesty this sucks and I really hope that your mother is just frustrated over something small. Try and talk to her about it and be straight forward on whether or not she wants you ouy of the house. But@bold I couldn't help but laugh, kinda request is that man, lmao...

Lmaoooo a tent
 

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This morning my mother wanted to go to a Buddhist temple for a celebration. It's some type of blessing ceremony. Anyway my younger sister, who is 18 years old, promised yesterday that she would go. But this morning my mothe got mad and about her breaking the promise. Then she told me I can stay home too. Anyway, my mom didn't yell at me. But she said "You're done with school in August right?" I said yeah. She said "I'll give you money. Go stay with a friend for a few months. Not now, but sooner or later" And my father is a rock. He doesn't do anything. Anyway, am I being kicked out?

If I am, I can't guarantee assistance from friends. I have to plan ahead. My birthday is coming up. Should I ask for a tent for my birthday? In case my friends don't help me, I can have the tent as shelter.

I feel like if this does happen, it's an opportunity for me to see the world and learn.

You can't be serious.

figure it out, kid. You write some crazy story that sounds like it was taken straight out of a movie.This is some joke. And then you do stuff like this every once in a while.

This is what you call a lack of respect.
 
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she was probably just irritated tbh. i wouldnt really worry about it unless she starts to keep bringing it up. but most of your threads are about you wanting to leave your parents house or what kind of job you should do, so you should be kind of happy if they want you out too as well. ask them to help you find a place

sleep in your car obviously if you have one until you find a place. your friends will only let you stay so long unless they have a lot of space, no matter how good of friends they are. idk what country you are in so i cant really give advice of services to use

another option is you can rent out a storage space, theyre really cheap too. when i was in high school i was in this band and we practiced in one, this guy lived in one of the storage units across from where we would play. just have to make sure you get there before it closes and hide out when they check before leaving, its really not that hard, especially if you go to one with a lot of units. i wonder if that guy still lives there though...
 

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You can't be serious.

figure it out, kid. You write some crazy story that sounds like it was taken straight out of a movie.This is some joke. And then you do stuff like this every once in a while.

This is what you call a lack of respect.

I bet your parents must really love you though.
 

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This is why you gotta get a job. Don't wait, just go get a job and save up. Not getting a job is one of the biggest mistakes a teenager can do. It's always best to start early. Make your hustle is all I gotta say.

You can't depend on your parents forever. Be a man and man tf up!
 
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hard time believing this is true with all the bait threads you always post lol
 

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Buddhist temple? do you live in japan?
 
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