[Discussion] Don't dear me "dear".Call me Aunty National

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I don't know anything about India, but it just seems like she's trying to be complicated for no reason. She didn't have a problem with others referring to her as "dear" but the minister of Bihar isn't allowed to say it? Sounds to me like she just has a problem with him specifically.

And no, I don't consider it to be offensive, because I use it all the time towards other women, but it's usually brought up in a form of greeting like "Hi dear" or "Hello dear, how are you" type of thing.
 

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There is slight difference in both uses but I suppose it's too subtle for you to notice.

If Chouhari wanted to ask her about an official matter and he could have either called or written an official letter. His tweet was both condescending and sarcastic which is lost on many. He knows the language and how he was using it.

Besides general attitude of many of the people from Bihar towards women is annoying enough.





Not to mention the way they have made a record on how low the status o education can fall. Recent toppers from Bihar would have made better news heading.
Is not it obvious dear aunty ji, OP is Bihari and is rustled. Probably a congress shiil too.
 
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I don't know anything about India, but it just seems like she's trying to be complicated for no reason. She didn't have a problem with others referring to her as "dear" but the minister of Bihar isn't allowed to say it? Sounds to me like she just has a problem with him specifically.

And no, I don't consider it to be offensive, because I use it all the time towards other women, but it's usually brought up in a form of greeting like "Hi dear" or "Hello dear, how are you" type of thing.
Yes thats the case here
You can see a mod trying to take shots on me becoz of my Bihari ethnicity :lol one of many attempts to spam on thread to deviate it from the topic
I don't care about a education minister whose own education is question-marked...
was wondering are you Indian
I wouldn't like being called dear if I'm a grown woman haha xD
i see
but would get offended if someone quotes you to ask something[even sarcastically] with dear@Chihaya
 
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She got some problems in her life most likely. Maybe the guy trolled her when they were younger or something.

I don't see how calling 'dear' would be inappropriate because people in real life use it all the time to address someone. Like when I was in high school, my teacher would act like ''dear, my name here, blah blah blah''.

Power can make people go a little bit crazy.
 

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India, worst country with worst dot head people on planet. How can you worship a man made idol? Then why not worship man itself as they are the one who made idol by their hands.
well almost all religious people follow books written by man all over the world doesn't make them worst
Dear Aunty National, could you please give our Marò back to us?
what

She got some problems in her life most likely. Maybe the guy trolled her when they were younger or something.
dude she is the Education minister of my country :|
 

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Yes thats the case here
You can see a mod trying to take shots on me becoz of my Bihari ethnicity :lol one of many attempts to spam on thread to deviate it from the topic
I didn't know you were a Bihari but figures. You are bringing in a pointless twitter spat between two people to NB ( where few people can understand what is going on and fewer people know about them) just because of your political leanings. And you claim others are the ones taking shots.

Funny. I wonder how you can justify one education minister in whose state the recent board exam toppers were found to have cheated in exams and had to get their results cancelled after media uproar making a sarcastic comment at twitter at a central minister to find time for education policy? At best it's pot and cattle spat between the two. But you find time to attack one of them only for the sole reason of your personal leanings.

She didn't say much other than pulling his leg back- "since when you started calling ladies a 'dear' " is not really that bad reply either.

So exactly who is making this a large issue other than internet trolls and tweeter stalkers?

Dear Aunty National, could you please give our Marò back to us?
If they haven't reached Italy yet, they probably met real pirates this time around. :|

India, worst country with worst dot head people on planet. How can you worship a man made idol? Then why not worship man itself as they are the one who made idol by their hands.
Hello to you to neighbour.
 
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I didn't know you were a Bihari but figures. You are bringing in a pointless twitter spat between two people to NB just because of the political leanings. And Others are the ones taking shots.
You did knew :lol debated with me about Jitan ram manjhi being from mahadalit or dalit section in chat thread :lol
Well does it matter what my ethnicity is since i rarely visit Bihar after my family shifted here and i do call Lalu chara chor.
But then again you guys would missed it since you target people for ethnicity. :lol

Hey look LTTE becoz he/She is Tamil.Shameless ain't it :lol

Funny. I wonder how you can justify one education minister in whose state the recent board exam toppers were found to have cheated in exams and had to get their results cancelled after media uproar making a sarcastic comment at twitter at a central minister to find time for education policy? At best it's pot and cattle spat between the two. But you find time to attack one of them only for the sole reason of your personal leanings.
where did i Justify him :lol nowhere.I just stated he was not offending her so she could have answered the Q and then sarcastically replied about "dear" thing bu no as HRD minister of country she must create a ruckus over it
i just made a thread can you address a woman as "dear" can she get offended by it.
and u have to talk about how shitty Bihar's education system is[which i agree with] then make a thread.No one is stopping you.


She didn't say much other than pulling his leg back- "since when you started calling ladies a 'dear' " is not really that bad either.

So exactly who is making this a large issue other than internet trolls and tweeter stalkers?
Oh no she didn't she never answered the Question :lol but created ruckus.Ironic for an Education Minister :lol

and if i am gonna make same thread about other dumb trolls in country like Rahul Gandhi,Lalu Prasad,Pahlaj Nihlani but dumb people will how sad OP is bashing them becoz he is Bihari must be congress supporter too despite the fact i myself voted for BJP here :lol But yeah if our HRD minister can be such a troll what can you expect from Internet trolls

Thread is about the use word "Dear" and does it offend a woman.This thread is not about me being bihari,gujrati,marathi,bengali,assamese,Tamil,Telgu or punjabi so i am not discussing it here
 
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You did knew :lol debated with me about Jitan ram manjhi being from mahadalit or dalit section in chat thread :lol
Well does it matter what my ethnicity is since i rarely visit Bihar after my family shifted here and i do call Lalu chara chor.
But then again you guys would missed it since you target people for ethnicity. :lol
I don't remember asking that about Manjhi , let alone if your background came up. Link? Not something I needed to remember at the time. You are not being targeted at all. Your state is. You involved himself by playing blind to the BIhar Minister's words despite the fact you should understand his statement better.

where did i Justify him :lol nowhere.I just stated he was not offending her so she could have answered the Q and then sarcastically replied about "dear" thing bu no as HRD minister of country she must create a ruckus over it
He is being sarcastic and insincere. Bihar government as a whole including their CM has been acting rudely constantly and looking for a confrontation. It was just another small firework part of regular flame war between the two sides.

i just made a thread can you address a woman as "dear.can she get offended by it.
and u have to talk about how shitty Bihar's education system is[which i agree with] then make a thread.No one is stopping you.
Any word can be offensive depending on how it's used . You got offended when someone called you a Bihari in this thread itself. Didn't you?


Oh no she didn't she never answered the Question :lol but created ruckus.Ironic for an Education Minister :lol
I don't see any question there.

" Dear @ smrtitiIrani ji, when you get time from politics and speeches, please pay attention to education policy too."

^ that's the literal translation.

So exactly why you keep insisting that she didn't answer a question? There is no question to begin with.

and if i am gonna make same thread about other dumb trolls in country like Rahul Gandhi,Lalu Prasad,Pahlaj Nihlani but dumb people will how sad OP is bashing them becoz he is Bihari must be congress supporter too despite the fact i myself voted for BJP here :lol But yeah if our HRD minister can be such a troll what can you expect from Internet trolls

Thread is about the use word "Dear" and does it offend a woman.This thread is not about me being bihari,gujrati,marathi,bengali,assamese,Tamil,Telgu or punjabi so i am not discussing it here
Well as a BIhari you don't have an excuse about misunderstanding the language. so stop pretending the BIhar minister asked a sincere question there.
 
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