does dating turn you into a jerk?

[Itachi75]

i mean i know people, good people who were really nice kind and gentle and then they get a girlfreind/boyfriend anad the next moment they are rude, disrespectful and huge liars.
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its aweful.
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I see it everywhere, a girl so kind turned into a proper ***** because she got a boyfriend, and a few guys turned ugly.
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its like a relationship is a drug and when you take it you beat up other people.
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not to mention they worship the other person and say, "that person can do no wrong" its terrible.
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what do you think? do you think dating's turns people ugly?
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becuase i can't think of a single instance in my mind where things were positive. and i know alot of people. and every time its the same thing. the good people turn rude and negative spiteful coarse and hateful.
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[MangaBain]

Everybody changes, it's life. The fact that people join a relationship isn't the cause of them changing their attitudes.

 

[~Sasuke~]

Dating doesn't make you a jerk but some of those people can act like jerks.

 

[Calpal]

yepp. it ruins your tolerance for the other *** and their damn attitude.

 

[Forest]

you forgot to mention that if you date your **** will fall off

 

[Sasukenumberonelover]

Well only teenagers .. but teen dating is dumb ..

 

[Cruciatus]

I guess it depends, especially on the couple. Some people take advantage of the security that relationships provide, while others take advantage of their partners. It's not really the relationships that make people this way; rather, it's being in the relationship that brings out these parts of their personality.

But, people change, and having a boyfriend or girlfriend can definitely alter your personality. Though I know plenty of non-douchey couples. c:

 

[Sakura Bunny]

Nope. I've always been a jerk. (´ ▽ ` )ﾉ

 

[DrProof]

Nah. That makes no sense (in my opinion anyhow). Why would you change over a guy/girl, that seems fake as hell to me.

 

[Itachi75]

Nah. That makes no sense (in my opinion anyhow). Why would you change over a guy/girl, that seems fake as hell to me.

i am only telling you waht i have observed. i wish it wasn't real. it makes no sense to me

 

[Disquiet]

Nah. That makes no sense (in my opinion anyhow).

Humans feelings and behavior, often seem illogical.

Why would you change over a guy/girl, that seems fake as hell to me.

It's similar to that feeling of being the first and only one in your neighborhood with the Xbox One, or feeling cool when merely wearing certain attire, or feeling like a badass from when putting on a leather jacket and hopping on a motorcycle. Most humans, however temporary, will undergo some type of attitude change when experiencing the above-mentioned.


At the very least, the partners involved like each other in a special way. Time and attention on friends will be sacrificed; sometimes in the most blunt way. Though of course, not everyone is like this.



When human feelings/emotions rise and fall, often does the moods as well.

 

[-Punk-]

Some think so highly of themselves just cause they have a GF or BF

 

[dark dreams]

dating has nothing to do with that its true, love changes everything especially its destroys our ego

 

[Scooby Doo]

Never even had a date :|

 

[Supreme x Uchiha]

Depending on how you were prior, dating can definitely change you. Whether it turns you into a jerk, a nice person or anything in between depends on who you're with and your mannerisms prior.

This happens a lot with guys.

Women find a man, fall in love with a man, change a man.

 

[Kira was Righteous]

Yeah it does especially if your friends think your a threat to their girlfriend

 

[KING KISAME]

I cant say its universal but i have seen these things happen. And it really doesnt help if that person was an ******* pre girl/boyfriend it kind of just amplifies their *******ness and it makes you not like their partner after a while

 

[edo tensai wilmaso]

Women who give up the goods easy turns you into a jerk. I was such a nice guy and I got the *****cat easy for a lot of years now I just want the *****cat don't care about emotions no more. Sorry woman it's your fault don't give up the kitty to quick lmao

 

[Strawberry]

didnt happend to me but then again im special