Do you think people are born or made?

[Chikombo]

I think people confuse the two ideas as separate when really they can be very similair, I think people are made, because regardless of what you "want", to be, you are stuck being the person the world made you into.

I 100 percent think so.

Even if you try your hardest to be someone what you are is determined by so many other factors that you can't control. People simly are not aware of these factors so they believe they have a choice but they are stuck, regardless. Someone in the USA will never be able to be danish, someone that lives in a chaotic house hold can't just pretend to live in a decent house hold and them scars will just disappears because of it.

We are all stuck being people depending on whatever circumstance is around us.

 

[Hammock]

What about the difference in learning to be your own person vs being stuck with what the society tells you who you are
Isn't that like the same thing you are saying tho?

 

[minamoto]

they are born to be made..

 

[Premfection]

Most of it just seems circumstantial unfortunately. I dont know why some of us are born so unlucky (poor, abusive family etc) whilst some are born with everything they need.
I think that everyone has a chance to make it better regardless, but it takes working twice if not a hundred times harder than people who are just born with wealth and good homes in a good neighborhood with good schooling... etc.

Its also true that it takes a village to raise a child. BUT idk. I've gone through some really difficult shit mostly because of my father being abusive, but I came out of that mostly just knowing what kind of man NOT to be, instead of emulating the same kind of behavior. But that's also because I had the luxury of having a great mother despite having an awful father. If I didnt have my mom idk, maybe I would've turned out terrible.

 

[Im_not_Osama_bin_laden]

This is way too early for this shit.

 

[colorles]

people are born with genetics, that make them what they are. influences can nourish, or hijack what you are born with

as far as where people end up in the social pecking order? everybody has a different combination of genetics, influences, and starting points in life. the more those three factors are in your favor, the more likelihood of social success

 

[minamoto]

people are born with genetics, that make them what they are. influences can nourish, or hijack what you are born with

as far as where people end up in the social pecking order? everybody has a different combination of genetics, influences, and starting points in life. the more those three factors are in your favor, the more likelihood of social success

who gave u tis wrong opinion???..

 

[colorles]

who gave u tis wrong opinion???..

what do you mean...

 

[minamoto]

what do you mean...

am i speek chineze???...

 

[colorles]

bruh, stop it...

 

[Chikombo]

people are born with genetics, that make them what they are. influences can nourish, or hijack what you are born with

as far as where people end up in the social pecking order? everybody has a different combination of genetics, influences, and starting points in life. the more those three factors are in your favor, the more likelihood of social success

I think genetics is overrated, we can manipulate genetics, so far it's illegal to do it on humans but we could in theory do it.

Also, if evolution is real then that's proof dna changes over time and that change probably comes for a reason I don't think it's random or we would end up looking like animals randomly.

 

[GrapeApe]

id have to say youre born into circumstance that you can make into whatever

thats called being creative, you create something from the position youre in, with the resources you have. with that you can create or make yourself into something. the more creative you are the better the outcome will be

for every circumstance theres always someone who made it into something great. taking responsibility and not pushing the blame to things outside of yourself, is also how you can be made into something else other than what you were born into