[Discussion] Do you have the same problem

Izou Xaxa

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In my training for a job there are those fellow classmates that hang out with me
and well they often talk about the topic having a girlfriend or they try sometimes to get one and im the only one who do not care for such things and unlike them i dont try to get a girlfriend
And because of that they call me weird or tell me im not normal but honestly whats wrong in having no interest in a relationship i prefer to be alone in the future
Is someone the same?
 

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Yeah some peeps don't want a relationship, especially early in life. Some rather have fun first before playing house.
 

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lol being alone def has it benefits laying about not givin a dam what nobody says, not being forced to go places you want to go or dont want to go, dont have to lie about how much you care for someone etc... but those late nights you know you want to be spooning but cant because youre alone.
 

Izou Xaxa

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lol being alone def has it benefits laying about not givin a dam what nobody says, not being forced to go places you want to go or dont want to go, dont have to lie about how much you care for someone etc... but those late nights you know you want to be spooning but cant because youre alone.

Well spooning im not into that stuff
and in my opinion there are much more other things at late night that i can do but still i respect your opinion
 

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Be at ease, it is normal for someone to not want a relationship now or ever in their life. I know several people irl who are like you.
 

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I'm fine in and out of a relationship. It was great being in one, better than it is being single, but being single isn't bad at all. I'm content with my life right now without a relationship. Don't worry about they're saying.
 

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It's like people feel there is a rule that a person should be interested in a relationship z.z.. Honestly, I am not interested in a relationship right now (I may be a bit young but lots of my friends have girlfriends).
 

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You're not weird in the least.

It's simply your personal preference at the moment.
 

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Maybe you're asexual.

Or maybe you just don't want to bother with a relationship. Nothing wrong with that.

For example, I don't bother with friendships.
I just sit inside and watch anime all day alone.

I'm lonely. ;_; I'm very content!
 

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Maybe you're asexual.

Or maybe you just don't want to bother with a relationship. Nothing wrong with that.

For example, I don't bother with friendships.
I just sit inside and watch anime all day alone.

I'm lonely. ;_; I'm very content!

If I could rep myself for this comment I would.
 

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There's nothing weird about it. I know some people who have the same thoughts on this topic as you do IRL.
 

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I used to have the same issue when I was in High School. Some people even tried to hook me up forcefully. I just ran away.
 

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Well, screw them! :| Everybody got their own choices and way of doing things, Even i like to spend my tym alone, some people call me freak for that(something like, ' YOu never come with us' or 'the hell is wrong with you , always in your room') but i dont really care about that, i do what i enjoy.
As for the Girlfriend thing is concerned, dont let them get into your head, you'll get a gf when the time's right, moreover everybody got their own pace with such stuff, just take it slow i that suits you the best.
 

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Lol You're not the only one. Don't let it get to your head, man. Not everyone thinks that way. I for one, am very content right now without it.

In the end, it's all up to what you prefer.
 
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