Do you have a difficult job?

[Konno]

This is the worst problem; I'd never do anything for myself then because I've been raised to believe someone else must do it for me. Potential wasted.

Don't get me wrong; I have a ton of other issues; but this belief is the main cause. I won't even study because I believe someone else will do it for me.

facepalm

No, there is no wasted potential until you decide so. You can change that if you really want to. Change your attitude, and maybe then the desire to do something yourself will come.

 

[Queen of Bananas]

No, there is no wasted potential until you decide so. You can change that if you really want to. Change your attitude, and maybe then the desire to do something yourself will come.

If only it were that easy. LUL

 

[Konno]

If only it were that easy. LUL

You can do it, make yourself, start somewhere

 

[Dreckerplayer]

But truth is, I wanted to be many things in life - back then I just wish I could have worked with my dad to pursue the course I wanted to rather than him forcing me to do something else and my life going down the drain. I finally managed to get my dad to agree to let me to study what I want to, but I can't even be arsed to get up and make myself toast in the morning anymore.

So in a way, I'm quite pathetic. But who knows, my course begins in september 2018; by then, perhaps I shall have found a way to deal with these incorrect belief systems.

It really sounds like you struggle with a lot of hyper controllers and attention seekers. Some people just want control, lmao.

You know, no body can tell you what to do. The problem is, people feel that if there parents don't approve of it, it isn't good enough.Well,here's the thing, it isn't about the parents, it's about you.

Think about it, what kind of parent wants their child to have their whole life, even adult life, arranged for them?It's not their life, it's not their happiness. And when they tell you what to do, they're not really thinking about you...just their own ego. You're just used at their dispense.

Who listens to someone who doesn't have their better interests?I guess they just don't know any better.

 

[Queen of Bananas]

It really sounds like you struggle with a lot of hyper controllers and attention seekers. Some people just want control, lmao.

You know, no body can tell you what to do. The problem is, people feel that if there parents don't approve of it, it isn't good enough.Well,here's the thing, it isn't about the parents, it's about you.

Think about it, what kind of parent wants their child to have their whole life, even adult life, arranged for them?It's not their life, it's not their happiness. And when they tell you what to do, they're not really thinking about you...just their own ego. You're just used at their dispense.

Who listens to someone who doesn't have their better interests?I guess they just don't know any better.

They are controlling; which explains why I didn't go for the chemical engineering anyways. They use money to control me. I have the grades, the acceptance letter and everything; but they won't let me because I don't have the money.

And then islamic weirdos come in and say, "yo you hating on parents, you should have been patient and grateful and all that man, why you so judgmental" then they judge me. Thing is, how can you be patient when for two years your parents encourage you, when you apply they're all smiles and fun, and then when you get it. They act this retarded. Am I supposed to be grateful? I don't give two shits.

I don't give two shits anymore. Something could throw me off of a building and I still wouldn't give a shit. I've given up on humanity. Yea, okay, just tell me what to do then and I'll do it. You don't have to torture me psychologically and mentally until I give up and do what you want; because I won't. I just shut down.

 

[Draekon]

I don't give two shits anymore. Something could throw me off of a building and I still wouldn't give a shit.

i relate to this on a spiritual level

 

[Melanin]

what are you studying in?
OP: I have a snow cleaning job at my university, but haven't done work yet.

Social Work.

 

[Dreckerplayer]

They are controlling; which explains why I didn't go for the chemical engineering anyways. They use money to control me. I have the grades, the acceptance letter and everything; but they won't let me because I don't have the money.

And then islamic weirdos come in and say, "yo you hating on parents, you should have been patient and grateful and all that man, why you so judgmental" then they judge me. Thing is, how can you be patient when for two years your parents encourage you, when you apply they're all smiles and fun, and then when you get it. They act this retarded. Am I supposed to be grateful? I don't give two shits.

I don't give two shits anymore. Something could throw me off of a building and I still wouldn't give a shit. I've given up on humanity. Yea, okay, just tell me what to do then and I'll do it. You don't have to torture me psychologically and mentally until I give up and do what you want; because I won't. I just shut down.

God, your parents are so psychological with things. So many ulterior motives.

It's just elementary, in a nut shell. I wouldn't entertain the jealousy complex.

Can you believe how distorted some people are?

 

[Mori Jin]

Are you jealous?

Sacrifice honesty, to appease to you all?...nope, I think not.

"makes you look tough"....ha, they still don't get it.

Jealous of you? The guy with "tough" comments on an anime forum? Hhahaba yeah sure I am.

 

[Queen of Bananas]

My job is living. Living is difficult.

#tooedgyforme
#cringe

NB: I won't kill myself or others though; just experience eternal pain.

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[Ninetailsfox00x1]

Nope my job is currently easy, it has its moments where its irritating and confusion.
But fast food is difficult for some but easier to learn if your willing and is worth its current pay.

 

[Markovko]

you one of the good cop's or one of the one's that shots first then ask questions, hope your one of the good one's

Most our municipal police officers don't even carry firearms. Only we - mobile patrol units, inspectors and high rank officers carry handgun. And we can only use gun in most extreme sitautions, like for example there is armed robbery or shoplifting and criminal is putting other people in lethal situation (I suppose it is different in United States, where police can use handgun without problems).
Other than that, I never shot a single bullet in any of my duties. My town is relatively very peaceful, through there was murder 2 years ago in one very bad neighborhood. But we don't respond on such cases. Primarily state police and their special task battallion (special police unit whose job is to respond to situations, when someone is armed with a gun, knife, axe) takes on such stuff.
As I mentioned, municipal police only works with cases that concerns local town or county government and only within administrative codex.

 

[HENI]

I'm in college and I love my student job