It really sounds like you struggle with a lot of hyper controllers and attention seekers. Some people just want control, lmao.
You know, no body can tell you what to do. The problem is, people feel that if there parents don't approve of it, it isn't good enough.Well,here's the thing, it isn't about the parents, it's about you.
Think about it, what kind of parent wants their child to have their whole life, even adult life, arranged for them?It's not their life, it's not their happiness. And when they tell you what to do, they're not really thinking about you...just their own ego. You're just used at their dispense.
Who listens to someone who doesn't have their better interests?I guess they just don't know any better.