Do you genuinely hate being nice?

[Dannie]

I feel that when you're too nice, people will take advantage of that and try to walk over you. Sometimes niceness attracts the wrong people and they can try to bully you with it.

 

[Wabbit]

Hear me out peeps. im not crazy, nor am i a sociopath.

But sometimes i feel a disdain deep down within me everytime i feel im overly nice.

idk why, im naturally good spirited and caring and thats what i show everybody.

But like deep down within i feel things thats the polar opposite. In fact they contradict the very things i stand for.

You ever see something vile and evil and instead of sadness you feel something else. Like anticipation? almost like riding a dirt bike up a hill not knowing whats on the other side.

Then when you see something good on the surface your all jolly, but deep down in your subconscious you feel disgusted that you embrace such behavior.

please dont tell me this is only me lmao i dont wanna seem crazy now

Nah it is just you. You seem to be psychopath. You lack emotion, so you try to imitate it.

 

[Guitar Hero]

I stopped trying be nice/polite to people a long time ago, nowadays I'm just neutral to them and will on speak to someone when they address me. Ive been called boring/plain for this reason but people aren't worth your patience and time honestly.

I'm only rude to someone when they say/do stupid shit or are also rude to me.

 

[Darth AniCetuS]

Are you genuinely retarded?

 

[Deadlift]

I'm generally the nicest I can be with everyone

 

[Marin]

I'm generally the nicest I can be with everyone

As expected of Cap America fan.

OT: I try to be nice but am way too anti-social to be on good terms with most people.

 

[awesomeseimei]

My default mood is almost always nice, though I don't hide my negative emotions (unless I have to play nice, when talking to a potentially dangerous person for example). Thing is, as a schizoid, I don't have feelings that go deeply enough, so it makes it easier to not care and just be superficially nice. It's often harder to pretend to actually empathize. Oddly enough, people still like me :|

 

[SIR HERDERP PRESIDERP SDO]

I am never nice. :elmo:

 

[DominiqueX]

I stopped trying be nice/polite to people a long time ago, nowadays I'm just neutral to them and will on speak to someone when they address me. Ive been called boring/plain for this reason but people aren't worth your patience and time honestly.

I'm only rude to someone when they say/do stupid shit or are also rude to me.

I can relate to this 100%.
In the past, I used to try to be as nice as possible to everyone, but when you get lots of crap back, it completely drains your energy. That's why I stopped with it some years ago and only care for people if they deserve it in my opinion. If someone is shitty to me, I behave shitty back in return.

 

[Deadlift]

I can relate to this 100%.
In the past, I used to try to be as nice as possible to everyone, but when you get lots of crap back, it completely drains your energy. That's why I stopped with it some years ago and only care for people if they deserve it in my opinion. If someone is shitty to me, I behave shitty back in return.

Weird, since the only successes I've had in my life are totally related to me being kind. If you believe that being nice means being dumb, then you are way more naive than the ones you judge naive

 

[Kishi Uzumaki]

Normally my behavior depends on how other person behave around me and I like to be nice and kind all the time but sometimes there gonna be times I've to go toe to toe with someone who been rude to me and generally to everyone then i won't be nice because it be more of a weakness than been a nice person .

 

[Made in Heaven]

I try to be nice to strangers, though being an introvert makes that pretty difficult.