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More miserable than I already amif i even make it that is of course...
You are not miserable at all
I want to age gracefully as I can without resorting to plastic surgeries.
Well, thats for sure XD
idk how young you are but im 28 and am still enjoying aging, but I doubt I will when I hit 50
I turn 20 this May, and anyway at 28 you're still very young, when you'll reach 50 you can say you're enjoying aging
Philosophers, Schopenhauer particularly treated this topic in some detail, have commented something to the effect that it is much easier to live in old age than to live in youth. Most cultures in the world associate old-age with better judgement, tranquillity of emotions etc (all the qualities that make up that vague thing called "wisdom", the archetype of the sage is a related stereotype).
I think there is something to that, biologically. Look at all the qualities that you listed as deteriorating with old age - "physical strength and beauty", "bravery and boldness". Did you notice that all of those traits play their role most significantly in the mating game?
Schopenhauer again was insightful here - in his philosophy human suffering is rooted fundamentally in what he called "will" - what the Buddhists call 'tanha', or desire. Youth suffers so much more because youth desires so much more. Sure we will lose all those qualities in old age, but how much will those things matter to us then?
I studied Schopenhauer at high school last year. Very deep thought, the matter is the importance we give to the word "desire"
I'm not even as physically strong as I want to be yet. My goal is to deadlift, squat and benchpress atleast 500 pounds. I can't think of how I'd complain about no longer being in my prime when I'm not even in my prime yet.
Did you notice my nickname? XD I'm European and I don't understand a prick about pounds.. Anyway, lifting weights is awesome and amusing af, but it's not supposed to be the ultimate goal imo
Of course I think about that.
I often imagine that I'll (hopefully) live with my partner together in a decent house like two wrinkly, old women. We are looking at our adopted, grown-up children on holidays, when they may have their own children already. While these thoughts are so beautiful on the one hand.. they are sad on the other, reminding me that life is short and that time runs unbelievably fast. I'm affraid of getting old.
I've already thought about how I'll handle life when it reaches a certain age. Well, I'm single now and my views may change in the future, but currently I'm thinking that I'll end my life when I can't take care for myself anymore.
I absolutely dont want to end up in nursing home, being washed and fed by the staff. I've seen more than enough poor souls that ended up like that :/
With all the wishes your adopted sons will be already men/women at that period
Thankfully it happens one day at a time, so it won't be a shock. But all of the choices on all of the days of your life affect how it will be, and none of us are conscious of the cumulative effects of our decisions until they are too late to be changed.
Yes,very big truth
I would rather die at 50
Wtf lol at 50 you still have much to do
nah i i don't think the elderly think this way i think most of them are happy that they have a family children grand children etc. and the same would go for me.
I don't think about it a lot too, thankfully
if i even make it that is of course...