[Debate] Do looks matter, does background matter, does personality matter, does brain matter?

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Looks isn't important although that person would have to be in a good shape and good hygiene because it means he takes care of himself.
Also, I like someone who I can talk to about anything and everthing and vice versa to him. Open communication/Honesty is the key to a good and long lasting relationship. Although, it is really a good one if both of you has common interests.
Oh and I like someone, who's calm when I get mad LOL. Doesn't act like **** and all that drama.

Overall, I like someone who's independent, has dreams to achieve, and in the same page as me (like, serious. NO playthings)

Ahahahahaha, tell that to my ex and her fellow-minded generation who left me for some slimeball with no job and incapable of looking after himself. And also leaving me after I went out of my way to be as honest as humanly possible about how much I cared for her and to support her, and look where I ended up. She also left me 3 days after I purchased A Link Between Worlds for her, 3 days before it was released officially in the EU.

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That's the psychology of growing up being called pretty. A gentlemen from humble begins had too many struggles to flaunt his success. When one grows up pretty and having fans all over. She doesn't learn to reach out to the ungifted/misfortunate/struggling. She never worked for her beauty, she shows it and people are already running around trying to satisfy her. So they usually don't study much(pretty brings busy night schedule etc) and use their strong point for success: Trophy Wife
Yeah it's exactly like that.. And it's the same for guys, no sexism in here.
It sometimes happens that the " ugly but not that ugly friends/fans of the hot chicks" believe that if you want some success you have to be arrogant and loud mouthed like that, and the world gets filled by cocky people :(

No matter how much explaination people give in this NB they all secretly want wife / partner like sakura and hinata so they love you no matter how much you abuse them and love you unconditionally even though you are dumb / idiot later being a beauty pageant herself
Hinata ftw. Dream girl for evah
 

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No matter how much explaination people give in this NB they all secretly want wife / partner like sakura and hinata so they love you no matter how much you abuse them and love you unconditionally even though you are dumb / idiot later being a beauty pageant herself
Uhm, no.
Being worshipped is not a good thing. I don't see why someone would want a person that is addicted to you and basically makes it his/her life-goal to please you in every way possible. It would be like living with a lifeless puppet lol.

Affection and independence have to be balanced within each person.
 

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Uhm, no.
Being worshipped is not a good thing. I don't see why someone would want a person that is addicted to you and basically makes it his/her life-goal to please you in every way possible. It would be like living with a lifeless puppet lol.
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Looks have never mattered to me. I find myself strongly attracted to certain personalities. And fortunately/unfortunately I'm also a sapiosexual.
Intelligent females seem to have close to the same personalities from the ones I've met..but lets just say that personality is a B for me.
So I'm always torn between my choices..
I prefer personality A over personality B but I really really fancy females that are intelligent and I haven't met one that displays personality A.
It's really confusing for me..But well I think I'm still young so I have time to decide lol

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Ahahahahaha, tell that to my ex and her fellow-minded generation who left me for some slimeball with no job and incapable of looking after himself. And also leaving me after I went out of my way to be as honest as humanly possible about how much I cared for her and to support her, and look where I ended up. She also left me 3 days after I purchased A Link Between Worlds for her, 3 days before it was released officially in the EU.

:shy:
I dislike stories like this. I sorry bro...take heart :T_T:
 
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Uhm, no.
Being worshipped is not a good thing. I don't see why someone would want a person that is addicted to you and basically makes it his/her life-goal to please you in every way possible. It would be like living with a lifeless puppet lol.

Affection and independence have to be balanced within each person.
Yeah when one start to love another truly they will be as dedicated as they both were, sad thing is love now a days is just a selfish desire and more like a relation with benefits nothing more. I don't think they are addicted or worship them they just admire their counter parts and want to be recognized them, well how you take it depends on how you see things.
 

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Ahahahahaha, tell that to my ex and her fellow-minded generation who left me for some slimeball with no job and incapable of looking after himself. And also leaving me after I went out of my way to be as honest as humanly possible about how much I cared for her and to support her, and look where I ended up. She also left me 3 days after I purchased A Link Between Worlds for her, 3 days before it was released officially in the EU.

:shy:
<== I made a thread like that XD XD Dude I locked my self and cried the whole night. This happened 18 April last month! I was in tears in bed, :NO:
 

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don't know wether the above matters It depends on the psyche of the person and his upbringing but i can say this one loves another with qualities that he / she lacks which makes them interesting and curious in one's mind.
 

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<== I made a thread like that XD XD Dude I locked my self and cried the whole night. This happened 18 April last month! I was in tears in bed, :NO:
(Your red text is hurting my damn eyes, man.)

Mentally, I was the most troubled/damaged person ever in existence and at the time keeping my distance from anyone and anything. Many nights were spent thinking on how I would probably die alone, and also developing an intense hatred for women as a whole for not knowing what they really want in their miserable lives, whist mistreating men with no ill intentions as if they were objects to be abused and tossed aside.

Only took a therapist and my nephews to keep my sanity back in order.
 

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Looks have never mattered to me. I find myself strongly attracted to certain personalities. And fortunately/unfortunately I'm also a sapiosexual.
Intelligent females seem to have close to the same personalities from the ones I've met..but lets just say that personality is a B for me.
So I'm always torn between my choices..
I prefer personality A over personality B but I really really fancy females that are intelligent and I haven't met one that displays personality A.
It's really confusing for me..But well I think I'm still young so I have time to decide lol
Bro that depends, In the office next to sit a supposedly pretty girl :| , She's a CA graduate. She was apparently a big shot in her studies. We clash a lot! A f*cking lot I am telling you. Often our topic of clashing is Maths. She's from the business science world, I am from the ICT and physics world. So she values statistic in maths more and I value calculus and manifolds more. This small indifference can end up being an argument into who is smatter!

Trust me bro, if you're smart: you'll never last with a like chick. It will be a contest


(hey what do you know, the girl just asked about this site: NB)
 

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(Your red text is hurting my damn eyes, man.)

Mentally, I was the most troubled/damaged person ever in existence and at the time keeping my distance from anyone and anything. Many nights were spent thinking on how I would probably die alone, and also developing an intense hatred for women as a whole for not knowing what they really want in their miserable lives, whist mistreating men with no ill intentions as if they were objects to be abused and tossed aside.

Only took a therapist and my nephews to keep my sanity back in order.
It was bad hey? I immediately went empty when I received her dumping message.
Look at this dump message she sent me There is some small native language on it

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